Tuesday, December 23, 2025

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

 Hello, Friends.

One of our holiday* "Sorry. What Did You Say?" podcast episodes is up* on Spotify! Fedy and I talk about Christmas in the U.S. and in Italy. Look for more holiday conversations in the following days.

Sorry. What Did You Say? Ho. Ho. Ho. Merry Christmas!

Thank you for sharing, Fedy!



Observe and/or celebrate Christmas at Cornerstone Lutheran Church. (come and see!)

Christmas - Cornerstone Lutheran Church

There are four sites and many opportunities and music styles. You can even enjoy the services at home virtually! 


NOTES AND WORDS

*my grammar corrector tried to fix "is up" to "are up". And "holiday" to "holidays" These corrections are incorrect....

The simple sentence is: One is up.

The subject is ONE which means that all verbs and verb phrases are singular.

QUIZ: What is the subject of the sentence above? Is it singular or plural?


observe: celebrate OR watch carefully to learn more 


Saturday, December 20, 2025

Happy Holidays! See You Next Year!

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Happy Holidays, Friends.

We are taking a break. See you next year!  Classes and meetings restart the week of January 5, 2026. Look for Sorry. What Did You Say? episodes on the holidays. We hope you have a fun holiday and come refreshed!

Seasonal Flu and Cold: Find the Right Care for Your Needs

This mailing from IU Health offers a rundown on the different ways to obtain care. This type of care structure is common from any medical provider system. You have options to choose from re sick and need medical care.

On-Demand Virtual Visits (also called Telehealth in some healthcare systems)

Our [IU Health] virtual visits are perfect for quick diagnoses and treatment plans when you need care immediately and don't want to leave home.

    • Available 7-days a week from the comfort of your own home.
    • Connect with an IU Health Provider to get a diagnosis and treatment plan.
    • Available for anyone in the state of Indiana 2 years and older.

Urgent Care

If your condition is non-life-threatening but requires immediate attention—like a high fever, deep cough, or flu symptoms—visit an IU Health Urgent Care location.

    • Available 7 days a week for anyone over 3 months of age
    • Save a spot online or simply walk-in
    • Find an Urgent Care location near you.

Primary Care

Your trusted IU Health Primary Care physician is here to help you feel your best, year-round. 

Use Primary Care for planned visits, ongoing concerns, and preventative measures.

Emergency Care

When you have an emergency, you don’t have time to shop around for the best treatment. And that’s why trust is so important.

Our emergency departments offer the experience and skill to provide you with the best care when you need it. That way you have one less thing to worry about when you have a severe illness or injury.

Our Approach to Emergency Medicine Care : Our team of emergency medicine specialists are on hand to treat your injuries efficiently and effectively any time, night or day.

Communication Points

  • Notice the language of this piece:  It is written to educate the reader make informed decisions. 
  • Notice the use of the pronoun "our": it explains that these are the features from IU Health, but you are likely to find service sets across the board.
  • Notice that the name of the place where you should go may be different than you are used to, for example, in some country's emergency is what we call urgent.

Culture Notes: Christian Churches in the United States

The Christmas season brings many people to the church to celebrate the religious holiday. People (Christian and non-Christian) like to visit the church during this season to hear the Christian message of Jesus' birth. If you have not experienced a church service, this is a great time to come. These special services celebrate the hope and love that comes from the Creator God for all people in the gift of Jesus.

There are two aspects to "church" in the United States. There is the sacred or religious aspect that provides spiritual care including worship services, prayers, education and Bible study, social events, and spiritual life services.  Some churches sponsor preschools or daycare or elementary and/or high schools. All people are welcome to attend and participate (even if you are not Christian or regularly worship at that church). Be aware that communion (eucharist or sacred meal) is reserved for people who are baptized (are committed or dedicated in faith through a sacred washing). 

Churches in the United States may host other non-religious events or groups. These can include classes and meetings (like our English and culture classes) or sports gatherings (like pick up volleyball or basketball). They also may allow outside community groups or clubs to meet (like Boy or Girl Scouts, AA).

Be aware that churches are private property and not community buildings or rental property (although they may charge to rent the space). Churches may have restrictions that prevent other religions from offering religious-based education or events when they do not follow the doctrine of the particular denomination. They have the right and responsibility to reserve and restrict use to be specific to particular spiritual beliefs and practices.

English Notes: Problematic Prepositions

Prepositions are the tiny words that indicate place and time in the English language. They are often overlooked by non-native listeners because they are so short and are often "unvoiced" or "smashed" into the surrounding words by native speakers. Getting the hang of using them in casual conversation can be confusing when you do not understand the function of the word in a sentence. 

  • Click here to go to the Class Notes Pages and see the proposition lists. 
  • Categorize each word as to whether this preposition answers: Who, what, when, where, why, how. Some of these words can answer more than one of these questions depending on the context of the sentence.
  • Think of/write sentences to support your idea.

International Friends Meeting Notes

Join us! Click here to register.

International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

We read the last two chapters of Hebrews. We were thrilled with all the comparisons the author makes between historical sites and ideas.

January 5: We are returning to Exodus with chapter 28. 

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00AM- 11:00 AM, Zoom

We had a great impromptu staff meeting! We planned for a great program starting in January. We missd you! See you next year.
 
January 8:  Come back fresh with stories of your vacation adventures and be ready to do some work with telling your story and each other's stories.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:30 PM, CLC, Carmel, Room 102

We had a productive end of the year meeting. We explored a list of prepositions (one of the most misused classification of words in American English). Check the notes above to learn more about this approach.

January 8: Contact Carolyn to reserve a spot in the class. We are considering cancelling the in-person class for the rest of the year.

American English for Kids: Thursday, 5:00-5:30 PM, private Zoom

We had a great last meeting. We talked about zen meditation techniques 

January 9: Let's get together and catch up!

Words and Phrases and Resources

the church: a body of people that follow greater umbrella of the Christian religion
church: the building (I'm going to church for a Girl Scout meeting.) and/or attending a service (I'm going to church this Sunday.=I am going to worship 
denomination: a recognized branch of the Christian church
doctrine: identified teaching, philosophy, beliefs
fresh: full of energy; new or renewed
impromptu: unplanned 
medical provider system typically refers to a structured framework that manages healthcare operations and services. 
rundown: informational content

Friday, December 12, 2025

Traditions of the Season and Winter Safety

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Hello, Friends.

Look out for the snowfall on the weekend here in the Midwest. Snow. Blowing snow. Bitter cold. Windchills. Hang in there...by the mid to end of next week temperatures will spike back up into the 40s. Remember. In the United States we use Fahrenheit. Great news! It is still the autumn season! Winter officially begins Saturday, December 21 which is the solstice.

When temperatures drop, leave sink and bath water faucets dripping and cabinet doors open if the water pipes are in a wall so your pipes do not freeze. Leave your furnace on set at 62F if you leave town to protect your pipes and property. Pipes can burst and water can flood you home until you return.

Seasonal Food Traditions

The dessert, snack, meal of choice during the holiday season is cookies! Cakes are always welcome, but Christmas celebrations and lore include cookies. Nothing warms the day like a cookie. It is fun to get together and make memories with cookie making parties. A cookie walk is when friends bake a big batch of cookies. This is a popular community fundraiser where people bake and donate cookies and other treats. Choose one or two or a whole batch to create a custom cookie stash! The stars of the season:

  • Candy canes 
  • Gingerbread
  • Hot chocolate (with marshmallows)
Other treats included fruit and nuts. Children were given oranges or nuts.

Every family serves favorites for the holiday meals. Some might have a big roast: ham, turkey, rib roast. Other families prefer ethnic favorites like pasta dishes, rice dishes, curries. Some families cook fish dishes. Families mix it up!

People may leave town and visit family, or they may take a trip to a warm destination. There is so much to see and experience.

Shopping 

Shopping is an important part of the season. It is fun to find treasures for loved ones, gift exchanges, or just to see the sights. Listen to our "Sorry. What Did You Say?" podcast conversation about shopping on Spotify as well as our conversation on please and thank you which is about to come out.

Winter Safety

Community expectations during the winter season include looking out for our neighbors. Many cities and towns have regulations for keeping the public walks clear of snow and ice. This is the responsibility of the property owners.



Lights of the Season

The Jewish eight-day festival of lights or Hannukah begins December 14. This holiday follows the lunar calendar. This  Happy Hannukah is the greeting. Families light a candle in the menorah (a candelabra). Gifts are given. Games are played. Songs are sung. Read more about this holiday.
Christians countdown to Christmas with an Advent Wreath. There are four candles. Each candle can be named hope, peace, joy or prophet, Bethlehem, shepherd. Devotions and prayers to remember or to teach the story of Jesus' coming are told.

Candlelight Concerts in Indianapolis are a big hit of the season. 
The Scottish Rite Cathedral is a recommended favorite.

International Friends Meeting Notes: One More Class Before Break

Some of our students are working out of town and cannot always make or evening meeting. We are trying setting up a concurrent Zoom to loop everyone into the meeting. Look for the e-mail. Even if you do not regularly come to this class, you are welcome to be a part of this hybrid experiment.

Join us! Click here to register.

International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

Wow! An amazing session. There is so much in these chapters to unpack. We were able to spot so many meaningful verses. In addition, the author does a fantastic job referring his readers back to the Old Testament heroes to spark understanding of his point.

December 1: We continue to read the Letter to the Hebrews with chapter 7.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00AM- 11:00 AM, Zoom

We had a great conversation about how Christmas is celebrated in our home countries. In many countries Christmas is a religious celebration and has many traditions that are family centric, community centric, and religious customs and practices.

We enjoyed generating phrases that ended with a preposition. The lists are in the chat.
 
December 18:  End the year with a virtual cookie party. Take your laptop to the kitchen and have a bake-along. Check out our favorite recipes and whip up a batch or two.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:30 PM, CLC, Carmel, Room 102


We had a hardworking evening. Check the Class Notes page to see the boards. We took our conversation sentences and went after them to discover errors. Most of the errors came from misplaced prepositions. These little words are always throwing a wrench in our stories. We also had fun recognizing words that become confusing to listeners when pronunciation is flipped like kitchen/chicken. The subtle tongue placement for the /k/ and /tʃ/ (ch) sounds can be tricky, especially for speakers from languages without these distinct sounds. There is also the association...we prepare and eat chicken in the kitchen (not kitchen in the chicken).


December 18: 
  • Bring you preposition lists matching to who, what, where, when, why, and how. Try without a list first. Go crazy and use this list. Preposition List: No Singing
  • Bring your "I'm From" personal and professional sheets filled in.
  • Email Carolyn your resume and the job description.

American English for Kids: Thursday, 6:00-6:30 PM, private Zoom

No Meeting....

December 18:  Be ready to talk about what you learned instead of coming to our meeting...

Words and Phrases and Resources

batch (of cookies): 
become confused: when something that seems reasonable is not 
big hit: popular
looking out for: taking care of
lore: stories and traditions that are passed along via stories and actions
officially: 
unpack: take apart
spark: instigate
throwing a wrench: causing a problem

Sunday, December 7, 2025

Year End Countdown

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Hello, Friends.

While we get focused on what is happening in our corner of the world, every once in a while, we look up and get to see something amazing. Last Thursday was one of those days. The last full moon of the year, the Cold Moon was a super moon (the moon's orbit was close to the earth). It was a beautiful sight worth stopping for and appreciating. To make it better, friends and family throughout the world were all treated to the same spectacular view and wanted to share the moment through conversation and pictures. We do not always get to enjoy the same holiday, weather, news, or more, but we do get to share a beautiful moon!

Christmas Traditions

Regardless of where you are from, it is hard not to get into the spirit of Christmas. In the United States, we anticipate this holiday with joy as well as anxiety. People are so excited to celebrate together, but then again, all the planning and schedules and to do lists can make people nervous.

Christmas is both a religious and secular holiday in the United States.

For Christians, it is the celebration of the birth of Jesus: Son of God and son of man. Prayers, songs, and decorations a part of this celebration that begins with Advent. The nativity is a beautiful symbol of the season. Living nativities are popular. Some families (and churches) do not place the baby Jesus in the manger until Christmas Eve. Many people have never heard the original story of Christmas. The story is told in the four Gospel the books in the New Testament of the Bible. The Old Testament prophets also predicted Jesus' birth. The Nativity Christmas Bible Story: The Birth of Jesus Christ is a great article that quotes the story. You are warmly welcome to visit a church for Christmas Services. Here is the link sponsor Cornerstone Lutheran Church for times and various events. 

Christmas is a secular celebration of family and friends. Santa and his reindeer. Holiday movies about homecoming. Wonder. Peace. Joy. Homes are decorated with lights and large inflatable popular characters of the season (Grinch, Santa, reindeer, snowmen, Peanuts characters, etc.) There are holiday variety shows, concerts, plays, performances, parades, pageants, and open houses. Mini-festivals pop up at the different shopping centers and malls with photo ops with Santa or other popular Christmas characters. People gather and celebrate. Join in!

Shopping 

Shopping is an important part of the season. It is fun to find treasures for loved ones, gift exchanges, or just to see the sights. Listen to our "Sorry. What Did You Say?" podcast conversation about shopping on Spotify.

What kind of learner are you?

Knowing how you learn best can lead you to the most helpful tools and interactions. Learning styles include:

  • Visual Learner: look for visual information including charts, diagrams, etc. and use color coding and images
  • Auditory Learner: lectures, discussions, audio materials and benefit from verbal instructions and storytelling
  • Reading/Writing Learner: prefers written words and use lists, notes, written explanations 
  • Kinesthetic Learner: enjoys hands-on, experimenting, role-playing and benefit from interactive methods and even how-to videos
  • Logical Learner: appreciates structured and logical approaches and enjoy problem-solving and understanding the principles behind the learning
  • Social Learner: thrives in group and collaborative experiences and benefit from group discussions, projects, and interactions
  • Solitary Learner: studies alone and engage in self-directed learning and direction

What tools help you learn language? Studying grammar, listening to podcasts, taking notes, watching YouTube, immersing yourself in daily life and learning “the hard way,” watching movies with or without subtitles are just a few of the ideas we use,

Often what is being learned can be best learned by a non-preferred method. For example, when working on pronunciation or language cadence, an auditory approach is best even if it may not be a favorite. Watch for 

How you think is another consideration. This is a fun little video on how people think.

American Language

I used to or I did not use to. What difference does it make?

The d and t sounds in used to are blended into a single consonant sound (leaning into the t in to). The sound of use to and used to is identical. It is only in writing where mistakes can be made.

We say "used to" when talk about habits or repeated actions in the past that we do not do in the present: 

  • I used to make long lists of vocabulary words, but now I try to use a few at a time until I learn them. 
  • I used to live in Michigan before I moved to Indiana. 
  • He used to play soccer, but now he enjoys golf. 
  • She used to be a teacher before she went to law school. 
  • She used to go running every day before she injured her knee.
The question form and negative form look a bit different. Notice the “d” is absent, creating “use to” instead of “used to”:
  • I used to be afraid to speak English, but I learned to be confident and comfortable.
  • Where did you use to live?
  • Did he use to study English before he got a full-time job?
  • I didn’t use to like spinach, but now I eat it often.
  • Did he use to visit the library once a week?
Let’s take a break (and other phrases with “take”)

We have many expressions with “take” in English. Do you know these: take a shower, take a nap, take a trip, take your turn, take notes, take advice, take a class, take your time, take medicine, take a breath, take a look at, take a picture, take a risk, take the lead, take your time, take a test, take an interest in?  Can you add to the list? Be careful. We DO NOT say take breakfast/lunch/dinner/coffee. We use “have” or “eat” or “get” for meals and beverages.



International Friends Meeting Notes

Some of our students are working out of town and cannot always make or evening meeting. We are trying setting up a concurrent Zoom to loop everyone into the meeting. Look for the e-mail. Even if you do not regularly come to this class, you are welcome to be a part of this hybrid experiment.

Join us! Click here to register.

International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

We reviewed our study in light of how the writer of Hebrews structures his letter to the Jewish people. 

Who Was Melchizedek in the Bible? His Story and Importance to Jesus | Bible Study Tools

December 1: We continue to read the Letter to the Hebrews with chapter 7.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 10:00 AM- 12:00 PM, Zoom

After our Thanksgiving break, we had fun using different verb tenses to talk about where we went and what we did in recent weeks. Do not stumble over “the right” verbs to users you tell your story.  Language is so much more than words and rules. You do not have to identify or label your conversation with grammar terms. Instead, do your best to enjoy the flow of conversation. Keep it simple. Mirror the structures you hear in questions you are asked to form your answer. Allow native English speakers to partner with you as you learn and find joy in the language journey. Avoid perfectionism (comparing yourself to someone else) and strive for excellence (making an earnest effort to learn and grow). Self-motivation and a positive attitude will help you make the most of your learning style and tools.
 
December 11:  Bring a list of seasonal greetings. What phrases do people say to show warmth and friendship during the winter holidays? What American holiday traditions are you curious about? Share something about your own holiday traditions.

Join us back on Zoom after Thanksgiving Break in the jolly month of December. Share your holiday adventures. We will start with the short announcement about the Santa Tours in Carmel. Here are three sources of information about the event to compare and contrast:

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:30 PM, CLC, Carmel, Room 102


December 8: Join us at Cornerstone Lutheran Church. We are going to talk about interviews and getting a job. What do you need to know? How do you talk?

American English for Kids: Thursday, 6:00-6:30 PM, private Zoom

We share vacation adventures. An overnight trip on the weekend makes for a great get-away and recharge. Adding side trips either going or coming from a destination not only breaks up the drive, but makes the vacation more memorable

December 12:  We will share what is going on in our countries in anticipation of Christmas.

Words and Phrases and Resources

anticipation of; looking forward to something
blended: combined
but then again: a phrase to introduce new information 
get into: become involve in or to grow an interest in
get to: are allowed
in our corner of the world: narrow focus
look up: change your focus
make it better: improve the situation
memorable: worth remembering
non-preferred: something that is not preferred; "non" in the beginning of a word indicates that the idea goes in another direction (nonsensical=does not make sense; nondescript=plain)
one of those days: the usual meaning is a day when most things go wrong; what makes this phrase different this time? This is your hidden quiz!
stumble over: to have difficulty saying something (trip over your words)