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The time change can cause consternation. Is it darker earlier? Is it darker later? Days are shorter or nights are longer? Or, is the time the same and the only change is perspective and conditions? This week's meeting conversations (or is it this week meetings' conversation) (or is it this week meeting's conversations) included talking about the situations or context. These can be internal, external, or something that we do to organize our thoughts or message.
November 2026 is full of great dates:
- November 11 is Veterans Day (U.S.).
- November 19 is when International Friends is celebrating our Traditional Thanksgiving Feast in person at Cornerstone Lutheran Church in Carmel beginning at 10:00 AM. Bring family, friends, and a dish to share.
- November 26 is Thanksgiving Day (U.S.). NO MEETINGS THIS WEEK
- November 27 is as Black Friday.
- November 29 is the First Sunday of Advent, marking the beginning of the Advent season (now you can put up your Christmas tree!). Advent calendars count down the days to Christmas. These can be secular or religious. What better way to count the days to a holiday but with a little surprise.
Grammar Geeking: Comparisons
Many language patterns become internalized and are intuitive. Suddenly, this is the way it is said. Is There really a rule for it? Probably. Did kids in school learn the rule? Maybe. Is it so commonplace that native speakers have know idea?
Pattern: Add -er or -est to the end of an adjective or descriptive word makes it "greater" or "greatest"
This is a pattern that becomes intuitive and invisible.
As fluency develops into lengthier words [more than one or two syllables], "more" or "most" is added instead of adding the suffix.
When an -er and -est "mistake" happens developing language but it just does not feel right, congratulations. That means that a rule has been internalized.
Geek out here: Comparisons
THEN American language breaks and bends this rule to accommodate meanings and context:
Red/redder/reddest: The leaves are redder today [than the other day].
More red/most red: Leaves can be more red in the fall.
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Reported Speech (indirect speech)--Say/tell
Exotic Grammar--Look for these structures "in the wild" and share your examples:
Sometimes we want to tell what another person said without using a direct quotation.
- Direct quotation: My mother said, "Always offer to help the hostess clean up."
- Reported speech: My mother told me always to offer to help the hostess clean up.
- Direct quotation: Carolyn said, "I'm babysitting my grandson today."
- Reported speech: Carolyn told me (that) she was babysitting her grandson today.
Be careful: We say "told me" but not "say me." Other shifts in tense, pronoun, time and place expressions may be necessary (and tricky) Try the example worksheets in the Homework and Notes.
International Friends Meeting Notes
Practicing your American English is important. Join us! Click here to register and get the Zoom links. Or come to Cornerstone Lutheran Church in Carmel.
International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom
We flew through Numbers 17-20. God's descriptions are short, straightforward, clear, and specific. The people see and follow.
High points and highlights:
Numbers 17: Aaron's staff [a dead stick] buds, blooms, and bears almonds--overnight. Clearly he is chosen.
Numbers 18: God provides directives on who and how the Aaron et. al. is to serve God. They have one job. The Levites do not gain a share in the inheritance of goods of the Israelites, but receive their worldly necessities from the offerings of the people (God is their share) Numbers 18:20
Numbers 19: God provides the means and the "recipe" for purification from death: the water of cleansing. This chapter also points to Christ and His sacrificial offering. Hebrews 9: 11-13
Numbers 20: Moses loses his temper and strikes a rock to bring forth water (instead of using his words as he was told by God). The consequences of this action: He will continue to lead the people, but will not enter the promised land.
The Edomites do not let the Israelites pass through their land (not surprising, since there are soooo many of them and the Edomites are the descendants of Esau (Genesis 25 Esau lost his birthright to Jacob his twin and the ancestor of the Israelites-a long family history of distrust). So, the Israelites go the long way.
Aaron dies and Eleasar, his son, takes over.
American English Language and Culture: Thursday, 9:00-11:00 AM, Zoom
We had such an interesting discussion about family dynamics. Just as the seasons change, we also face many turning points in our lives. Our cultural norms may vary, but most families move through stages of nesting, growing, launching, empty nesting, inter-generational or independent living, and homecomings. Birth order, cultural and moral expectations, modeling, shadowing, instruction, and discipline help us to learn responsibility, communication, conflict resolution, and empathy. Notice the phrasal verbs we used today, and see if you can think of others:
- Follow in someone's footsteps,
- Grow up in someone's shadow
- Chase after someone
- Stand up to someone
- Look up to someone
- Ask for support or help
- Figure things out
November 12:
How do you see the love languages (words of affirmation, acts of service, gift giving, physical touch, quality time) exhibited in your life or the life of someone else?
Make a list of your transferable skills--your innate abilities and the tasks that you perform in your daily life as a professional/homemaker. Don't forget to include volunteer or community service. You do many things, but you are more than what you do.
For writing practice, describe someone you look up to, respect, or admire. What have you noticed about or learned from this person? Could you write a tribute or a "thank you note" to this person?
American English Language and Culture: Thursday, 6:00 -7:30 PM, Room 102, Cornerstone Lutheran Church-Carmel
We are moving our meeting time to 6:00-7:30 PM (November 12).
How much English is enough was one topic of conversation this week. How much time and effort and money do you want to put into a job or career change? Requirements. Direction. Decisions. These factors all drive decision-making.
As American English Language becomes more comfortable, frustration with other factors can surface including growth in careers or interests.
November 12:
Make a list of your transferable skills--your innate abilities and the tasks that you perform in your daily life as a professional/homemaker. Don't forget to include volunteer or community service. You do many things, but you are more than what you do. What are the greater skills and abilities to transfer to your next career?
American English for Kids: Friday, 7:00-7:30 AM, private Zoom
The flu caught up with us. No meeting this week.
November 13: What are your home remedies for seasonal illnesses?








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