Saturday, September 12, 2026

Welcome to American English and Culture 2026-2027

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Hello, Friends.

Learning a language is so much more than learning the language. Yes, there is grammar and vocabulary, but that is only the foundation. As we kick off this year (and our football season), we are beginning with strategies for efficient and effective learning. 

In our meetings this week we used a number of learning strategies. Most of these strategies are invisible until we call them out. Be sure to look at what and how we worked (although it never really feels like work) in each of our meetings. We covered a variety of content, but we used the same strategies to grow our understanding of each other and American English.

Back-To-School: Active and Passive Learning.

Active learning is when people engage in and participate in learning. Conversation and debate help to identify what is known and how to communicate it to others. Gaps can be filled in through discussion (or to be filled in later). Writing and drawing are creative ways to express learning. Making a model or some product helps to apply and test knowledge.

Passive learning happens in reading and lectures. Passive learning might provide higher points on tests. Passive learning is an efficient way to pass along information, and one-way communications provide the means. A shortfall is that since it is one-way, gaps are hard to discover. Attention can wander and the reader and listener may not even notice which leads to gaps 

How do you learn? Adults learn best with necessity or when there is an intrinsic interest or goal.  

Making Connections

Language learning can be tedious because fluency in the new language feels less natural than a previouly learned language. People often study a language for years, but when faced with conversation or speaking with others in a "job" situation the words get buried. Why does this happen?

Words are not always easy to remember and use in any language, new or old. Your brain is busy running around looking for the words to form sentences. With often used languages, it is like driving familiar route: you get where you are going without remembering the drive. With a new language (or concept) you either have to build or do some maintenance to connect the concepts and words to confidently communicate.


Practice making connections and observations with a brainstorm. Pick a word or phrase. Write down a word or two and embellish with drawings, lines, color.

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Why this works. There is so much learning going on here. And, if you let your mind run wild it becomes a powerful meditative and mindful tool.
  • Pronunciation and/or accent is recognized. In this case, the "ge" and the "ch" can sound the same to some people (these sounds do not exist in other languages). The "u" and "au" sounds can become confused.
  • Vocabulary is developed. In this case, each word has a distinctly different meaning that can be discovered in context when listening and writing and comparing.
  • Mechanics are developed. Seeing, drawing/writing, and paying attention to sound comparisons brings three physical senses to help clarify differences and make 
  • Brainstorms are "roads" between concepts. 

American Holidays and Remembrances in September

September has two notable dates in American culture and history: Labor Day and September 11.

Labor Day simply celebrates all of the people who work. Have a day off. Have a picnic. It is the end of summer and while we still have hot weather ahead of us, our outdoor swimming pools close. As some Friends have observed, Labor Day is a political holiday in other countries. Not here. 

September 11, 2001, the United States was attacked by al-Qaeda terrorists who planned and hijacked commercial jets full of passengers to blow up national economic, military, and governmental sites. Not all the hijackings were successful. That day challenged American culture and security. Twenty-five years later we remember this day. We remember 2977 victims on the jets and at the sites of the Twin Towers of the World Trade Center, and Pentagon. We remember the passengers that took over a fourth jet sacrificed their lives with the crash in the field in Pennsylvania. We remember the first responders and citizens who worked to rescue and restore our cities and preserve our liberty and freedom.

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International Friends Meeting Notes

Practicing your American English is important. Join us! Click here to register and get the Zoom links. Or come to Cornerstone Lutheran Church in Carmel.

International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

September 14: Our journey resumes with the book of Numbers in the Old Testament. Numbers tells the story of the 40 years that the Israelites wandered in the desert before entering the land promised to them by God.

American English Language and Culture: Thursday, 9:00-11:00 AM, Zoom

We got to know each other in this first Zoom meeting. As we shared our background and stories, we practiced listening, echoing, vocabulary, accent training, and so much more! Little did we realize that we had learned so much in two hours. American English study is all about being able to talk to and relate with one another.

September 17: For our next meeting, create half page description of a word or words in the Making Connections section in this Update Post. Email it to indyintlfriend@gmail.com.

American English Language and Culture: Thursday, 7:00 -8:30 PM, Room 102, Cornerstone Lutheran Church-Carmel

We met and got to know each other and set our goals both short term and long term. One of our goals is to become more fluent at work. We noticed that it is hard to bring the correct words to mind in the context of a job.

September 17:  For our next meeting, create half page description of a word or words in the Making Connections section in this Update Post. Bring your work to class.

American English for Kids: Friday, 8:00-8:30 PM, private Zoom

We talked about preparing for exams. Middle School and High School students often take general exams for admission or placement at the next level for learning. One strategy is to read and reread notes and textbooks from previous classes. This is passive learning. We talked about using the Feynman Method and then took about 10 minutes to try it out. 

Identify the Topic: The Three Forms of Water

Explain the topic as if teaching a sixth-grader: 

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We made improvements by adding the temperature notes. 

We talked about the molecule of water and how when it moves slower (cold) it becomes solid, and when it moves faster (hot) it becomes vapor or gas. We waved our hands fast and slow because kids learn better with motion

We talked about how hydrogen two atoms and one oxygen atom make a molecule of water.

September 18: Teach a short lesson from a chapter of study. Debrief to tell if/how this method helped you recognize your learning.


Words and Phrases and Resources

a number of: an uncountable amount (because we do not want to enumerate them-or count them)
call [insert a noun our pronoun here] out: overtly recognize 📣
debrief: give a summary to someone
gap: empty space between two or more things
intrinsic: essential or necessary
shortfall: when something does not meet requirements


Sunday, August 16, 2026

2026-2027 Registration Is Open

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Hello, Friends.

It is time to go back to school. Our classes and meetings begin after Labor Day (September 7, 2026).

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Summer Conversations

We had some visits and meetings over the summer with some awesome notes and observations. Words in American English can be pronounced in unexpected ways. "Sounding words out" does not always work for listening and speaking. Spelling "rules" are not consistent. Here are some of our finds over the summer.

Seeing and Saying

  1. Listen: Use your tech to hear the following words. Say them. 
  2. Comment below to share words you have discovered.
Why this works: Seek and find, say, share. 
      1. Seek and find: Your search work helps you remember. 
      2. Say: Your speaking helps train your ear to hear others and your muscles to speak the words.
      3. Share: Language learning is a social activity. Telling others (even as a comment) add what you learned to your 
Here are the words:

  • chorus: group of singers, repeating part of a song/music
  • choir: a large group of singers
  • chore: a routine task (usually household)
  • say: speak
  • said: spoke
  • sad: not happy
  • stay: do not leave
  • stayed: did not leave
  • staid: respectable, not adventurous
  • play: take part in a sport or game; a performed story
  • played: took part in a game or sport
  • plaid: a pattern of alternating colors

Words and Phrases

awesome: noteworthy

finds: discoveries

tech: phone, computer, tablet

Sunday, July 19, 2026

Speaking About Sports in the Summer

42 Summer Sports List (sorted by Popularity) Click here to go directly to our webpages and read the Update and other pages.

We now have transcripts and episodes are divided into chapters. Be sure to check the AI's work. 

Hello, Friends.

Summer fun and fests continue. The World Cup ends July 19, but there is plenty to do. In the U.S. most schools start back in August (although locally, we have a district or two beginning the end of July). Take advantage of the festivals and music. There are county and state fairs to enjoy the best of the local farmers. Farmer's markets feature fresh crops and other delicious treats. 

Some American Professional Summer Sports:

  • NASCAR
  • IndyCar
  • Baseball
  • Women's Basketball
  • Tennis
  • Golf

There is plenty more to participate in and to follow 42 Summer Sports List (sorted by Popularity)

The Sports Front

Continuing to look at sports...American sports leagues include different levels of commitment. Amateur play includes:

  • Middle School, High School, and Collegiate teams
  • Recreational (Rec) teams
  • Travel teams
  • Club teams
Professional team athletes that are paid to compete. These include major leagues as well as minor leagues that feed athletes to higher levels of competition.

Every sport has it's own format and parents and athletes can plug into locally. Here is an example of the structure for soccer (featuring California).

From U.S. Soccer Parent: Our goal is to empower every soccer parent in the U.S. with the knowledge, resources, and community support needed to confidently guide their child’s journey—from recreational play to elite competition—while helping shape a more transparent, inclusive, and informed youth soccer culture.

Listening Practice

While we are on break from our classes, we are still recording and posting episodes to Sorry! What Did You Say? on Spotify. Hearing native and non-native speakers in conversation can help you understand American English and Culture. Listen to the differences in the speakers as well as the content of the conversation.

Tips: 

  • Speed up or slow down the recording. Sometimes you need to slow down to catch nuance or just what is being said. Sometimes you need to speed up to focus your attention and get the gist.
  • Read along. The episodes have transcripts that are automatically generated. Do the transcripts match what you hear? Is it your ears or is it the AI?
  • Notice the differences in pace and cadence of each speaker. Part of this is personal "style" and part of this is carry over from original language. Singing is a great way to learn the cadence of a language, even if you don't know all the words (and who knows and sings all the right words...no one You've Been Singing These 30 Songs Completely Wrong). 

Words and Phrases

feed: supply
follow: watch or keep track of
get the gist: understand the concept or poing
plug into: connect to a network or a system
plug in: connect a device to power (plug in the lamp)

Friday, July 3, 2026

Happy Independence Day, U.S.A.!

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Hello, Friends.

We are so excited and thrilled to share our 250 birthday. Every city and state has special celebrations planned. The weather is predicted to be hot, but this is not unusual for summer. 

Welcome to FIFA Fans. You have brought your patriotism and your love of the sport. We hope you have a great Independence Day on top of your World Cup celebrations.

The Reader's Digest always is spot on with memes that express conventional wisdom and American Culture. Enjoy!

 




Supreme Court Opinions

Before the Independence Day holiday, the Supreme Court weighed in on a number of issues this last week. 

This last week a good number of rulings were decided by the Supreme Court. The outcome of these decisions are called "opinions" and provide guidance for the lower courts. There were a number of issues that are critical to the American public. Once decided, the ball is back in the court of Congress to pass laws or Constitutional Amendments or to the Executive branch (the president and staff) to fulfill the requirements of decisions. The Supreme Court does not make laws or execute (follow up with action), it decides the legality of the cases placed before it. 

Read the decisions for yourself. The justices consider the Constitution as well as prior rulings and cases presented to the court. The court is thorough in explaining the written status of the opinions:

"Opinions are posted on the website upon release in slip opinion format. Slip opinions remain posted until replaced with opinions edited to reflect the usual publication style of the United States Reports..."

This YouTube from  TED-Ed Talks from 2016 (notice the president is Barak Obama in the drawings) provides an explanation for how justices are appointed and more about their service. 



Saturday, June 27, 2026

Welcome July and Happy 250 Birthday U.S.A.!

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Happy Independence Day, Friends.

Welcome to the United States' greatest Federal holiday of the year! This year we are celebrating 250 years of freedom. Pregame celebrations began earlier this month, but the main event falls on a Saturday this year. In our local area, the different townships are staggering their parades which allows us to watch and participate. So, if your band is marching in the morning, you can watch a neighboring town's parade in the afternoon.

Fireworks, Concerts, Parades, Picnics, Fairs, and Festivals

Every community hosts events a party for Independence Day (or the Fourth of July). Pick one or two or more!  The Indiana Farm Bureau offers a nice article and schedule with links to the various events including festival sites. If you are elsewhere, search "fireworks" to see where to go for the show nearest you, or just ask around.

Comment to add your tips or opportunities.

Here in Indiana, the sunsets and it does not get fully dark until after 10:00 PM. Be ready to stay up late to see firework shows.  There are tricks and tips for parking and the best views that are different for every community. Regardless, here are tips for the day:

  • Be prepared to wait in traffic when you leave.
  • Watch in a safe location and be respectful of private property.
  • Stay hydrated. We have had some wonderfully cool weather leading up to next week, but the Midwest summer heat and humidity are sure to show up for the Fourth.
  • Use sunscreen.
  • Be prepared for people in parade to throw candy. (Sometimes you get more candy than Halloween!)
  • Watch for flyovers. 
  • Be safe with you own fireworks and clean up afterwards.
  • Be safe as you drive home and enjoy other people's personal fireworks.

FIFA Hospitality: 

We love our more than 3.6 million soccer fans! We are so glad that you are enjoying your time here and posting your impressions of our country. We love your stories and totally agree that Ranch Dressing is a food group of its own. Thank you for singing your patriotic songs and sharing your fan customs. 

They came for the World Cup. They fell in love with Buc-ee’s and ranch dip. is an article from NBC Tic Toc, X, and Facebook are all featuring stories of people experiencing what Americans find common. It is great to see our Walmart, Taco Bell, Target, Costco, and other stores and restaurants enjoyed.

Words and Phrases

ask around: ask a variety of people for advice and for information

pregame: parties before the main event

Sunday, June 14, 2026

Welcome June, FIFA, Summer Vacation

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Hello, Friends.

It's summertime and the living is easy! Here in the states, we take our summer seriously. Seriously, let's go to the pool, take a road trip, go to camp, read a summer novel, bar-b-que, street fairs, fests, outdoor concerts. Take the plunge and jump in with both feet! 

This summer we get to host the FIFA 2026 World Cup. 

International Friends is on break, but you might notice some meetings pop up here and there. Most of our Friends, though, are busy with kids and vacations and heading back to home countries for a visit. Carving out time to meet over the summer is not easy.

America 250 and the National Archives in Washington D.C.

Free and Independent: Special Major Exhibition Opens as a “Celebration of the Declaration” shares the riveting story behind America’s most important founding document.

The Charters of Freedom are the documents of, by, and for the American people that are documented in the Declaration of Independence, the Constitution, and the Bill of Rights. The handwritten documents are on display in the National Archives. Take a virtual peek. These documents were quickly drafted during dramatic times.

Read the history of the Declaration of Independence straight from the Archives. The story of the people that worked to define and preserve the ideals and freedom that we enjoy today.

Citizen Voice on the Hill

I had a fantastic opportunity to go to Washington D.C. and meet with Indiana congressional members or their staff to advocate for funding to be included in our federal budget for international initiatives. Since Congress had just convened, many of the members were in meetings. In some cases, we met with a staffer who took notes, answered questions, and directed us to further contact and opportunities to meet.

While all of the meetings were relatively brief, we all found that we were welcomed into the offices of the representatives and listened to. Meeting as a non-partisan group gave our message a that could be carried across the aisle.

Football or Soccer?

Welcome to the U.S. for football (or, as we say, soccer). The Netherlands brought their orange, double decker bus See More Here. Meanwhile. the Japanese don't talk trash, they take it out! Thank you for bringing your best and most fun to the U.S.

We hope that you have a great time! Excuse us if we say, "soccer". We won't change our "football".

Casual Business Conversation 

American culture follows a certain pattern that is used in many conversational situations both socially and formally. 

General, polite greeting: Hello. Good to see you. How have you been? What have you been up to? (not specific to our "work" topic).

A back and forth about general health and life for a couple of sentences. 

During this part of the conversation, find out about your colleague's current projects, needs, direction.

Introduce the specific topic about the meeting. This is for you to introduce. Please change the topic to the point of this meeting to the focus or goal of the meeting.

Begin with some general information

Lead your target colleague to ask questions and learn details. 

Include personal details for to add memorable interest and focus. Use "interesting" language like adjectives.

Wrap up and summarize the content in a couple of sentences (main points or ideas).

Ask if your colleague has any questions.

Set the next action which could be the date/time and agenda for the next meeting and the purpose.

Thank you and goodbye statements.

Try this formula out in different situations. Observe whether simple or more complex sentences structures work the best in this type of conversation.

American English for Kids Summer Program

Email International Friends for the restricted summer link.

This summer we are meeting on Zoom, 8-8:30 AM Eastern Daylight Savings Time on Zoom

  • Wednesday, June 24.
  • Wednesday, July 1 
  • Thursday, July 30
We are practicing a Casual Business Conversation format. See the above article.

Words and Phrases

advocate: speak in behalf of or support

back and forth: giving and sharing in a conversation 

carving out time: making time, adjusting a schedule to do something

Congress: the law-making branch of the U. S, government that includes the Senate and the House of Representatives

convened: assembled or come together as a body

initiatives: legislative actions

 staffer: one of the group of people appointed to support or assist a member of congress



While all of the meetings were relatively brief, we all found that we were welcomed into the offices of the representatives and listened to. Meeting as a non-partisan group gave our message a that could be carried across the aisle.