Saturday, December 23, 2023

Merry Christmas, Friends.

Dear Friends,

I am so happy to wish you a very merry Christmas and a happy new year. May the peace and joy of Christmas fill your hearts and minds. 


Bump Into

Find me! Christmas Eve services on Sunday beginning at 3:00 and on Christmas Day at Cornerstone Lutheran Church. 4850 E. Main Street, Carmel. | Cornerstone Lutheran Church

Gene and Carol and Scott will be there to bump into, too!

| Cornerstone Lutheran Church

Sunday, December 17, 2023

The Final Countdown to the Holidays

 Happy Holidays, Friends. 

It is less than a week until Christmas! Christkindlmarkt is open every day of this week and on Christmas Eve. make sure you get over there. Have you heard your share of Christmas songs on the radio and in the stores? Have you baked cookies and cakes? Have you gone to parties? Don't worry...There is still time to celebrate!


Quantities Of

Of is a little word that can trip you up when talking about quantities or amounts of things. Review the rules in our Handouts. Listen for usage. Look for "of" in your daily life. Practice using the phrases in you head as you grocery shop:

  • I need two gallons of milk.
  • This section of the store has most of the canned goods.
  • Too many of the carts are wet from the rain.

Classes and Meetings

American Sign Language: Tuesday, 5:00-6:00 PM, Zoom

Wow! We reviewed phrases and small words (and, the, for, early) and question words. Then we put our review into conversational practice. We circled back to topics several times to cement our understanding. We did not sing Silent Night, but we did talk about the words a bit.

Our meeting was a really fast an furious review and conversation. We are gravitating toward running through a list of vocabulary words that have similar meanings when we get stuck. For example, if I can't remember how to sign Thursday and need help, we have been stopping and reviewing all of the days of the week! 

December 19: We will see which way the conversation goes. Anyone is welcome to join us! Jump in and practice with us. And let's practice some New Year vocabulary.

Auld Lang Syne: This version had a great deal of conversation and fingerspelling as well as the small words we use in our conversation this past week  in the set up as well as in the song. Also, Dougie MacLean is the artist. Love singing accent!

International Bible Study: Tuesday, 8:45-9:45 PM, Zoom

There is a goldmine of advice, hope, and joy in our readings for the week. Paul's letter to the Colossians

Colossians 1: 15-20 tells the wonderful story of reconciliation with the Creator God through Jesus. Verses 21 and 22 proclaims:

This includes you who were once far away from God. You were his enemies, separated from him by your evil thoughts and actions. 22Yet now he has reconciled you to himself through the death of Christ in his physical body. As a result, he has brought you into his own presence, and you are holy and blameless as you stand before him without a single fault.

Paul goes on to tell what to ignore and how to live. He emphasizes the difference between opinions and empty rules and the behaviors of a loving life. Paul doesn't neglect the greetings and relationships that are important for a community.

The two letters to the Thessalonians contain newsy accounts of what has happened and prayers for support.

Timothy receives advice and prayers as he ministers to others in 1 Timothy and 2 Timothy. These letters are inspirations for us today and give insight into such details as dealing with deceptive people and the role and restrictions the church (or helping organizations) should take when helping.

December 19: We will finish up our discussions of the Epistles and pick up Revelation after the new year. We

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00-11:00 AM, Zoom and In Person

A Christmas Open House at Carolyn's: Thank you to all of you who came! We had great conversation and food. Many of you have never played a Mad Libs game before. The way to play is to make up words that fit the part of speech. Then read the story with the generated words. Here are the links to the fill in the blank stories. 

Here are your answers....

and here are links to the original stories.

Christmas Carol Remix

and

Baking Christmas Cookies

December 21: Our last Zoom of 2023. It has been a good year! We will wind up the year with some songs and conversation.

We Wish You a Merry Christmas: When caroling, singers often end with this song. Great American English stuff here: the swinging cadence of the song, the pronunciations of "w", "r", smashing and dropping consonants, and so much more. Have fun wrapping up your songs.

Auld Lang Syne

Learn more about Auld Lang Syne, the famous New Year's song from Song Facts. In the learn and sing along (with a Scottish accent?). Start up the 2024 singing in style!


Kid's Conversation and More: Friday, 4:30-5:00 PM, Zoom

Mrs. Willard got triple booked December 15, so our meeting was cancelled.

December 22: Let's look at the time range of 1600-1800. Once again, what was happening in your corner of the world and in the world at large? Do events coincide?

Words and Phrases (and punctuation)

Sometimes words or phrases have more than one usage. 

age: a period of time marked by a particular feature or central figure (the ice age)

cement: solidify (or the material that sidewalks are made of)

circled back: return to the beginning of a topic

era: a period of a new order of things

get stuck: do not have an answer or solution

gravitating toward: tending to do or like a particular thing

heard your share of/had your share of: had a lot more than enough of something

period: a time in history different from other times because of characteristics or events (or a punctuation mark meaning the end or a women's menstrual cycle)

running through: quickly covering something (or move quickly on foot between objects)

start up: beginning

trip you up: cause someone to make a mistake

triple booked: to have three obligations at the same time

wind up: ending (but a child can get all wound up or excited)

wrap up: ending (not decorate or cover as in wrap up a present)



Sunday, December 10, 2023

Christmas Countdown

Hello, Friends.

The holiday season embodies American culture. Good will and festival feelings are contagious. We all get super busy and wedging in parties, events, travel. Everyone wants to touch base with each other and express friendship and love. Stress sometimes abounds! Diffuse short tempers with cookies and good cheer.

Religious Christmas

If you have not attended a Christian service during Christmas, be sure to take in a service. All are welcome! Many people attend church services where they are on vacation or visiting during the holidays. Many people only attend church on holiday dates. 

Christmas is uplifting: Expect joyous songs and music; Bible readings of peace, hope, and fulfillment; prayers of welcome; beautiful decorations.

Cornerstone Lutheran Church (our host organization) offers a variety of times at the different sites. Check the schedule!

Colors of Christmas: Blue Christmas

The holidays can also be a difficult time for people. As we celebrate, we miss people who have passed away or have moved away. We remember happier times or revisit times that were not . Memories of times past can be bittersweet.

Cornerstone Lutheran Church Blue Christmas Service of Hope: December 18, 6:00 PM Cornerstone Lutheran Church, 4850 East Main Street, Carmel

Blue Christmas by Elvis tells about 


It’s Official 

The Oxford dictionary posted the slang that has officially become a word: rizzler. Read more about the process and the word in this article from the Business Insider. Be ready to use it and understand it!

Local Fun

Things to do in Hamilton County for the holidays  

Bump Into: Go to the Fest and Bump into Friends

Christkindlmkt in Carmel at Carter Green Wednesday through Sunday. People are talking the Christkindlmkt in Carmel! Read more about these German-style holiday fairs and about the Carmel event in the National Geographic.

And in keeping with our musical theme: here story of this Carol as well as the original German-which you may hear in different areas of the country or at a Christkindlmkt)

Stay Well

Holiday travel means exposure to the regional colds and flu. The CDC offers a map to help you plan and prepare for the flu and other viruses circulating in the states. Get a flu shot. Wash your hands and use sanitizer. Stay super hydrated. Take care of yourself!

Meetings and Classes

Join us for meetings and classes. Sign up on-line for links. We always welcome new friends. Our meeting times are Eastern Standard Time (UTC-5)

American Sign Language: Tuesday, 5:00-6:00 PM, Zoom

We signed and sang Joy to the World. It is fun to sing along and to learn atypical vocabulary in the context of a song.

December 12: We will sing Silent Night.


Jingle Bells

Here are two deaf signers signing Jingle Bells. 


Speaking of language...Is British Sign Language another language or is it an English dialect?


International Bible Study: Tuesday, 8:45 PM-9:45 PM, Zoom

The Epistles are short and reading them gives us a complete picture, but within them there are gems of wisdom and encouragement. This week the prayers for others were particularly striking in Ephesians. Ephesians 1:15-22 and Ephesians 3:14-20 teaches us how to pray for others and the results.

Ephesians 1:10 and Galatians 4:4 both teach of the events that are ordered by God to happen at the right time; specifically the sending of his Son, Jesus to save the world. This is an important message to all churches

Galatians 3:27 is the comforting love that wraps around us, and verse 28 extends that "blanket" to all people regardless of their sex, race, status. 

December 12: We continue our readings and discussion. We are getting down to the wire. What started a daunting task, has been a pleasure. It is surprising how fast and fun this read has been.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00 AM-12:00 PM, Zoom

We had great conversations and suggestions for our classes and meetings moving forward. Our strategy over the first trimester has been to apply memory and adult learning theory and practice meet American English needs specific to our students in within contexts and context that are relevant (learning grammar, pronunciation, accent is easy when it is applied). Let us know what you need to know as we build our curriculum content and strategy for 2024 (indyintlfriends@gmail.com).

Two of our Friends had a wonderful debate. They had a spirited and civil discussion regarding their opinions about a group and it's meetings. This great example of civil discourse.

Singing songs opened the door to grammar discussions. Check Meetings/Class Notes and Handouts for practice and explanations. Apologies for the quality of the Expressions of Quantity: Multiple pdf screen shots!

December 14, 10:00-12:00: Christmas Open House at Carolyn's. Drop by for conversation and coffee (or other food and drinks)

Kid's Conversation and More: Friday, 4:30-5:00 PM, Zoom

We had a great discussion about the Meiji Era. Our Friend wrote a great report about the industrialization of silk production in his prefecture. He wrote a wonderful report. You can read it in our Meetings/Class Notes and Handouts page.

December 15: Let's look at the Edo period. The time range for this period is1603-1838. Once again, what was happening in your corner of the world and in the world at large? Do events coincide?

Words and Phrases (and punctuation)

semi colon and commas: use commas to separate list of words, use semi colons to separate groups of words ideas

atypical: uncommon

bittersweet: both happy and sad at the same time

circulating: traveling around or being passed from one person to another, rumors as well as sickness commonly circulate

civil: polite 

civil discourse: polite conversation or discussion

diffuse short tempers: make people happy

embodies: when a thought, feeling or idea takes tangible form

good will: feelings and expressions of support and cheer

happier times: joyful past events

in the world at large: out in the world

in your corner of the world: your local area

industrialization: creating an industry 

open house: stop by a location at your convenience during a specified time frame

passed away: died

read: (as a noun) the activity of someone who reads

speaking of [topical noun]

spirited: lively, exciting

take in: attend or include in an itinerary

teaches: As verbs the difference between teach and teaches is that teach is to show (someone) the way (I, you, we, they); to guide, conduct while teaches is third-person singular of teach (he, she, it).

uplifting: raising spirits

wedging in: squeezing an event into a busy schedule

Sunday, December 3, 2023

Singing Our Way In December

Hello, Friends.

The last month of the year is a wonderful month.

  • December 24: Christmas Eve
  • December 25: Christmas Day
  • December 31: New Year's Eve
International Friends meetings and classes are on break from December 25, 2023 to December 5, 2024.

We are counting down the days until Christmas. In the U. S., Christmas is celebrated as both a secular and a religious holiday. There are many events and activities that revolve stories of Santa Clause (secular) and spreading good cheer. Look for these classics on TV, in the library, or plays.

  • A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens (movie, book/short story)
  • Charlie Brown's Christmas by Charles Schultz
  • Frosty the Snowman
  • How the Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr. Seuss (cartoon, movie, book)
  • The Very Best Christmas Pagent Ever (movie and book)
  • White Christmas (movie)
  • It's a Wonderful Life (movie, but here is a radio play version to practice your listening)
The religious, Christian story can be found in the Bible in Luke.

Brush Up: From ... to ...

To be easily understood, use "from" and "to" the American way:

Use "from" as a starting point and "to" as the ending point.
Think "origin" and "destination" in time or space.
  • I drove from Carmel to Noblesville on 146th Street.
  • Our next meeting is from 10:00 to 12:00 at the Library.
  • She went from painting simple watercolors to painting portraits in one year.
  • Fresh chicken costs anywhere from $1.99 to $7.00 a pound.
Use "since" when there is not a specific end in time.
  • We have been married since 1992.
  • It has been three years since we last went to see the Nutcracker.

Singing Your Way to Fluency, Diction, Accent

December is Singing English Month at International Friends. Songs are a great way to practice listening and speaking (or singing). Accent (which includes the sounds of the words, how they are broken into syllables or sound bytes, the cadence and rhythm of the language) is easy when singing because we hear and repeat a song...not individual words. 

The beauty and complexity of music and words helps take the fear of mispronouncing a word (and the fear of not having the correct word) is taken away.

11 Songs for English Fluency



10 Songs to Make Your Language Learning Easy

And to understand how and why this works (thank you, Kathy)



Jingle Bells in American Sign Language can help with pacing and pronunciation:




American Sign Language: Tuesday, 5:00-6:00, Zoom

We met and brushed up on our winter and Christmas signs as well as told each other about our Thanksgivings. 

From December 5th to the 19th we will be signing Christmas songs! Carol along with us!

Signing songs helps us with our pacing, builds community, and allows us to share holiday music with our deaf friends.

Joy to the World


And here is a site that has a list with links for many, many Holiday Songs in ASL

And to keep us moving forward: 150 Essential Signs.

International Bible Study: Tuesday, 8:45-9:45 PM, Zoom

Our break took us from Romans through 2 Corinthians. These books of the New Testament are letters to the new Christian churches (new as in the new religion that followed Jesus). The Bible Project provides summaries of the historical and social background to help readers understand each of the books.

Romans is filled with hope and contains solid advice that is relevant for our lives. There is information on how to serve, how to understand sin, and the message of hope and blessing of the people that share that hope with others.

Corinthians discusses and advises issues being faced by the people of Corinth. 1 Corinthians 10: 23-30 talks about freedom from social practices (and legal stricture). Paul speaks to doing everything to the glory of God and the benefit of those around by not being rude or off putting, but rejoicing and giving thanks. 1 Corinthians 13 contains the famous passages describing what love is and is not.

We talked about accepting and being accepted. Loving and being loved are keys to good relationships. These human desires are so important to our well being. Rest assured, rather than relying on the judgment of humans we can be confident in the judgement of a loving God. 

December 7: We continue our readings with the Epistles. Join the trip through time and find out about the problems that faced people in the different cities and the solutions that come through the grace of God.

American English and Culture: Thursday. 9:00-10:00 AM

First of all, thanks to all the Friends for input for the upcoming year. While the end of the year provides a mindset of reflection, the beginning of the year is one of renewal and resolution. The staff is looking to you to provide input about what you want to learn more about and what skills you want to develop and polish. Email your ideas to Carolyn (indyintlfriends@gmail.com) by December 5.

We wrapped up our month of Vague Language with practical discussions about how we use imprecise words to gain more information or to avoid answering.

December 7: Singing is a great way to build confidence and community. During this holiday season the air is filled with beloved songs. Listen as people hum and sing along. Join in! 

December 14: Come to a holiday open house at Carolyn's 10:00 AM-12:00 PM. Sing our carols in person and enjoy face-to-face conversation and too many pets!

December 21: Choir practice continues! Join us for jolly jingles.

Kid's Conversation and More: Friday, 4:30-5:00 PM, Zoom

This week we caught up with our Friend in Japan. It is interesting to catch up on how he is learning English in Japan. 

December 8: The Meiji era in Japan was from 1868 to 1912. Japan moved from a feudal system. What was happening in your home country and in the world during this period of time? 

Words and Phrases

anywhere: not a place in this case, but somewhere in a range

brushed up: review and practice

from...through: these prepositions show direction and are used together to mark time or place or lists. Through indicates inclusion of the totality of the last item. For example, "The sale runs from March through May." The sale begins March 1 and ends May 31.

off putting: not pleasant

passages:  a brief portion of a written work or speech that is relevant to a point under discussion or noteworthy for content or style

rest assured: be confidant

solid advice: reliable suggestions



Sunday, November 19, 2023

Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Fall Break

Hello, Friends.

In this season of gratitude, I reflect on the International Friends I have met over the years. People have come to study with us from all over the world. I think about the amazing accomplishments of everyone that we have met. Students and staff become one as we have all learned and grown together. I am so grateful for all the people that have taught me so much about life and living in the United States as well as many other places in the world. Hearing your stories. Sharing your dreams. And then seeing what you go on to do is a wonderful blessing.

Have a very happy and blessed Thanksgiving.

Carolyn Willard

If you are looking for things to do this weekend

November and December

Wrap up November in style!

November 18: Christkindlmkt opens in Carmel!

November 23: Thanksgiving Day. Feast, watch the Macy's Day Parade, attend a church service and sing songs of thanksgiving (not all churches have services because this is a civic holiday, not a church holiday), watch football, toss a football in the back yard, feast on leftovers.

November 24: Black Friday. Shop 'til you drop at the amazing sales and bargains devised to draw you in and help businesses move from the red to the black. Shop local.

November 27: Did you find everything for Christmas? Shop CyberMonday. 

November 28: Giving Tuesday. Donate to charitable causes. Donate to support a good cause.

The last month of the year is a wonderful month.

  • December 24: Christmas Eve
  • December 25: Christmas Day
  • December 31: New Year's Eve

Classes and Meetings

Our classes and meetings are on break until November 28. Have a great vacation.

American Sign Language: Tuesday, 5:00-6:00 PM, Zoom

We reviewed our Thanksgiving vocabulary and had a great conversation about spending the holiday with our family members. We talked about voting, briefly. Being able to chat about civic events prepares us to help our neighbors communicate.

November 21: No class

November 28: Review and reset: Tell where you keep getting stuck in ASL, where you practice, how you integrate ASL into daily living. 

Bible Study: Tuesday, 8:45-9:45 PM, Zoom

Bible study notes and discussions circled around the amazing transformation of the disciples. Miracles are sprinkled through the story. Treacherous travel and exciting escapes keep us engaged.

  • Acts 16:21 While the believers are jailed, they sing and praise God. They are not affected by circumstances. They can not change the situation, but they trust God to manage the results to their good.
  • Acts 16:27 Paul is calm and shows faith and peace, strength and confidence, humble (knows their weakness), are self-supporting (are not a burden on the community they serve).
  • People treat people based on status, but in the story of Acts ordinary people do amazing things through God.
  • We observed that Jesus worked on earth professionally for three years. The story of Acts bridges 30 years according to common timelines.

November 21: No class. Happy Thanksgiving and fall break.

November 28: Back to reading with observations about the Epistles, or letters to the church. Our study transitions from historical accounts to personal letters.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00-10:00 AM, Zoom

We celebrated Thanksgiving. After learning to prepare a turkey we feasted! Find recipes on our webpages (or click here).

November 23: No class. Happy Thanksgiving.

November 30: Counting Things

  • Practice dealing with specific numbers and counting as well as nonspecific terms such as: many, few, some, more, a bit, a lot, very.
  • Practice using vague language to gain specific information regarding health, school, etc.
  • A conversation about using vague number language during negotiations to drive consensus and a deal.

Kid's Conversation and More: Friday, 4:30-5:30 PM, Zoom

We had a great time talking about horror movies and other favorite stories. I recommend The Never-ending Story. You can watch it on Amazon.

November 24: No class. Happy Thanksgiving

December 1: Let's Chat!


Words and Phrases

charitable: assisting those who have a need

historical accounts: true stories from witnesses 

secondary market: resale

shop 'til you drop: shop, and shop, and shop until your are too tired to go on

sprinkled through [throughout]: something is found within a greater context (chocolate chips are sprinkled through the cookies)

Sunday, November 12, 2023

Get Ready for Thanksgiving...or Not!

Hello, Friends.

This week we have a few classes. If you are available, join us in person for our pre-Thanksgiving feast. We cook together (learn how to roast a turkey a la Carolyn--pretty standard Martha Stewart meets normal house) and bring our favorite feasting dishes to share and eat!

Local Fun

November Events to Do in Hamilton County 

Keeping Safe

Cybersecurity Tips: How to Use Cybersecurity in Your Everyday Life 

In America!

A Tour of American Accents: Enjoy this article that shows the difference between the accents in the United States. 

Equity or Equality 

These two words are an important part of the American vocabulary. Equality is written into the Constitution. Equity has been trending in popular culture and on campus. Is there a difference?

Black Friday Sales

Amazon Starts November 17. Walmart is on now. What is Black Friday? It was traditionally the Friday after Thanksgiving and inaugurated the Christmas shopping season. This is the day that many retail stores went from red to black (made money). Look for great deals on what you want, need, or want to stockpile for gifts.

Meetings and Classes

American Sign Language: Tuesday, 5:00-6:00 PM, Zoom

We practiced a list of signs relating to Thanksgiving and then asked each other questions using those words. For  example:

  • Do you eat turkey on Thanksgiving?
  • Does your family get together for Thanksgiving?
  • Do you like pumpkin pie?

The most useful part of the class was to actually go through the list from the videos (in the November 5 Update and in the November 12 Meetings and Handouts)and practice the signs with each other.

November 14: Elections and voting are an important part of American life and culture. 

Here are some videos informing our deaf friends that represent the many ways to communicate about voting in America.


Bible Study: Tuesday, 8:45-9:45 PM, Zoom

Our study in Acts highlights how the followers of Jesus, who were ordinary people, become extraordinary in speaking and acting (Acts 4:13-14). Acts 4 continues to tell the story of how the people were bold to speak the good news in public. God blesses their words and work and strengthens them (Acts 4: 31). As Acts continues, the stories of the Apostles taking the story of God's love and care for everyone (Acts 10:34) regardless of their race or culture or history is an inspiration.

November 13: We finish reading Acts with chapters 14-28. Join us!

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00-11:00 AM, Zoom

We had an interesting class covering the topic of "filler words" or sounds that frequently are heard but never discussed in classes. Words and phrases like these inform spoken conversation and the mechanics of understanding person-to-person conversation or speaking, but are rarely found in written language. The Ted Talk: understanding filler “words” is a good explanation of how these words and phrases work in all languages. 

November 16: In Person at Cornerstone Lutheran Church to celebrate American Thanksgiving and feasting!

Kids' Conversation and More: Friday, 4:30-5:00 PM, Zoom

We had a great conversation about our week and were proud to share success. Our MadLibs were reasonable. 

November 17:

Here is the list for our "MadLib". Quick, name a word for each of the following. No, you don't need the context. It will be silly!

  1. adjective
  2. plural noun
  3. verb ending in "ing"
  4. verb ending in "ing"
  5. verb ending in "ing"
  6. animal, type of fluid
  7. verb ending in "ing"
  8. adjective
  9. verb ending in "ing"
  10. animal-plural
  11. verb ending in "ing"
  12. verb ending in "ing"
  13. plural noun
  14. verb
  15. animal
  16. adjective
  17. type of fluid

Words and Phrases

a la: in the style of

extraordinary: unusual or remarkable

if you are available: if you don't have anything else to do 

inaugurated: marked the beginning for public use or event 

is on: is occurring

pretty standard Martha Stewart meets normal house: 

  • pretty standard: a normal style
  • Martha Stewart: an upscale (fancy) TV homemaker personality
  • meets: versus
  • normal house: average lifestyle

Sunday, November 5, 2023

November Business and Busyness

Hello, Friends.

October ended with Trick or Treaters in winter coats and snow. What a drastic change from the week before! Then this next week is beautiful weather again. Get your home ready for winter while the weather holds out: rake leaves, remove garden hoses, clean gutters, rake leave, caulk gaps, rake leaves, clean gutters, clean garden beds, rake leaves, clean gutters. You get the idea! 

International Friends Planning for November

November 16: Feast a Cornerstone Lutheran Church, Carmel, 10:00 AM-1:00 PM. Enter door 6. Bring your favorite feasting dish to share. Everyone is welcome! Bring your spouse, friends, neighbors! 

November 20-24: Happy Thanksgiving...No classes or meetings all week

Catchall

Heightened Security

As you go out, you may notice heightened security at public events. Be prepared for a delay. Be patient. Be kind. Our safety is important.

Fall Back Sunday, November 5, 2:00 AM

The United States "falls back" to standard time at 2:00 AM on November 5. This article from the Farmer's Almanac briefly explains Daylight Savings Time history and the shift. Some people prefer Standard time, while others prefer DST. Nineteen states have passed legislation to not shift time, but Congress has yet to pass a bill securing a Uniform Time Act for the entire nation. These days we don't have to set most of our clocks ourselves...our tech takes care of it. Enjoy the extra hour of sleep.

More Free COVID Tests and Winter Vaccines

 Do you want to know if your sniffles are COVID, RSV, the flu, or whatever is going around? Has your stash of COVID tests expired? Get four free COVID tests from the CDC. If your tests are expired, they may still be viable. Click here to learn more.

And speaking of seasonal illnesses and exposure, there are vaccines available for the flu, RSV, and COVID. You can get these at any pharmacy, like Walgreens, Walmart, CVS, or Meijer or from your doctor's office or the health department.

Is It Too Early?

Join the debate! November is for Thanksgiving...NOT Christmas! Christmas cannot start too soon! Do you decorate and shop and go to the Carmel Chriskindlmarkt before Black Friday? 

What th.....?

There are four ways that "th" can sound in the American accent. Many people have trouble with the unvoiced and the voiced "th". Often people substitute a "d" sound or a "z" sound for the voiced "th" (even native speakers in the northern states). Both of these sounds are made by placing your tongue between and behind your front teeth. The sound is subtle.

Listen and try to these examples.

Check out the list and YouTube video in our handouts. Watch the five minute videos of the story. There are two of them there. One is in English and the other is an English as another language example. It is a wonderful example of learning the American English. 

What Is It?

A trip to the library always gives us a gift. The last visit to the Westfield library led us to the young adult section and the Brian Selznick books. Are these really books? Are they multi-media? Enjoy them with your family.

Veteran's Day

November 11 is Veteran's Day. We honor those people who have served our country. Here are some wonderful resources to learn more about this important day for these important people.


Meetings and Classes Updates

Click to go to our Meetings and Classes page to learn more and register.

American Sign Language: Tuesday, 5:00-6:00 PM, Zoom

No meeting! We were entertaining Trick or Treaters. I had one boy that couldn't hear. I was able to tell him Happy Halloween.

November 14: Join us as we study Thanksgiving feasting and greeting signs and start the conversation by telling each other about our traditions. Test your literacy with this a five minute, unvoiced YouTube. This 11 minute voiced video explains signs.


International Bible Study: Tuesday, 8:45-9:45 PM, Zoom

The Bible's message connects and informs throughout the books. This week's observation connected the Last Supper where Jesus is eating the celebratory Passover Feast with Judas, who betrays him. For many this is a horrifying prospect. Who would want to celebrate with someone they know is about to seal their fate. Psalm 23:5 sheds light on this: "you prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil, my cup overflows."

Family ties are important. We love and crave the love of our families. Family members do not always understand each other or show the car and consideration they would give to strangers. Jesus' mother and brothers. When Jesus is hung on the cross, he told his mother and "the disciple he loved": Woman here is your son...Here is your mother. Familial relationships are not always based on genetics. They are built as people adopt each other.

November 7: Join us as we continue our conversation in reading John.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00-11:00 AM, Zoom

We had great conversations and discussions about social conversations. 100 most useful social English phrases can give you a head start

We reviewed words and phrases for referencing past, present, and future (in, at, on, ago, last, yesterday) and for linking or sequencing time (first, next, then, after that, finally). Some expressions were less familiar (week after next/before last, in two days/weeks, next/last weekend). Then we explored phrases for politely disagreeing.

November 9: Options, options....

Really listen to spoken English this week (eavesdrop in a coffee shop, restaurant, grocery store checkout, listen to a radio interview, watch a drama) and make a list of the filler words and sounds you hear. Across the board, let's see who has the longest list.

  • Build your command of time phrases by joining the journey to compose at least ten sentences, true or fanciful, that include references to time. Sentences may work together to tell a story or may be unrelated to explore different contexts. SEE HANDOUT. 
  • Also, really listen to spoken English this week (eavesdrop in a coffee shop, restaurant, grocery store checkout, listen to a radio interview, watch a drama) and make a list of the filler words and sounds you hear. Across the board, let's see who has the longest list.
  • Weddings, funerals, and other life events call for phrases that express the inexpressible. What do you say? What are customs in the United States? Debra Fine has a do and don't list (somewhat tongue in cheek)
  • Words and language can encourage or dissuade. Why is vague language important and how can it be employed to open doors, make friends, end a conversation, and more.

Kids's Conversation and More: Friday, 4:30-5:00 PM, Zoom

We built a Halloween story that was not too scary. 

November 10: Mad Libs are a great way to spark your storytelling skills. We are going to skip forward to Christmas with a Mad Lib for middle school. Click here to see the story. Parents, work with your child to generate a list of words. Don't tell them the context!

Words and Phrases

about to: something that is going to happen very soon
anoint my head with oil: recognize and honor
catchall: think of that basket where you throw all the stuff you have to look at later....
command: abilities
dissuade: discourage
eavesdrop: listen to other conversations
employed: use for a purpose
familial: relating to the 
head start: getting a start above/before others
heightened security: increased measures to screen and protect people meeting at gatherings
my cup overflows: I am overwhelmed with joy and thanks
pass a bill: Congress agrees and makes an idea or make a law
really [listen, try]: put extra effort into something
seal their fate: to make the future someone has certain
shift: a change in direction
stash: collection
sniffles: having a cold
spark: ignite, start
these days: currently
tongue in cheek: somewhat ironic and sarcastic
whatever is going around: symptoms that are common everywhere

Sunday, October 29, 2023

New in November

Hello, Friends.

We wrap up October. This month has one of the best endings: Halloween! 👻🎃👺💀🍬🍬🍬🍬

We hope the beautiful weather holds out, but the trees are giving up their leaves here in the Midwest. Don't blink! The color will be gone. Meanwhile, enjoy the piles of leaves. Nothing is better than kicking and crunching through a pile of leaves.



November is a great month. We celebrate Thanksgiving near the end of the month. Indiana may see some of the first snow falls.

November 7: Elections 

November 16: International Friends "Friendsgiving" in person feast. Learn to prepare and bake a turkey and traditional side dishes. Bring your favorite feasting dish to share.

November 23: Thanksgiving: no meetings or classes this entire week!

November 24: Black Friday: Christmas shopping and the Christmas season officially begins 

Recommended Watching

The Chosen on Netflix or Angel Studios.

Fun At the Libraries

Libraries in America provide access to books, videos, and music (in hard copies and via apps on line). Libraries are a meeting place for clubs and interest groups.

Carmel Main Library: 425 E. Main Street, Carmel 

Annual Model Railroad Meet  November 4, 10:00 AM-3:00 PM, FREE

Puzzle and Board Game Exchange November 19, 1-5:00 PM, Bring a game or puzzle to trade.

Pronunciation Conundrum

Our American Sign Language class highlighted an oddity in voiced American English. Say:

  • Black cat
  • Black hat

Black Cats, themselves, carry a lot of baggage. Read more about these super special animals.

Eclipse 2024 News

Stem Center in Westfield opens in time for the eclipse!

Once in a lifetime Eclipse and Hamilton County (and all of central Indiana) is in the direct path!

General Elections

Election season is upon us! The first Tuesday in November is a general election and many local government positions are up for grabs. Visit the Secretary of State website to learn about elections in Indiana. You can see how to register to vote, voting options (early voting, absentee voting, and day of voting) and how registered voters can participate. Candidates are listed as well as their filing dates. There is a great deal of information including opportunities to volunteer and maps of elected officials. Each county has a board of elections that is responsible conducting fair elections. Visit the Hamilton County Election board to see an example.

Voting terms:

  • Ballot harvesting: when someone is designated to file a vote for someone else 
  • Early voting: voting at a central location (not neighborhood polling place) prior to the election
  • File a vote: turn a ballot in to a polling place
  • Absentee voting: not voting in person
  • Mail in ballots: ballots that are cast (made) by mail

Speaker of the House Elections

Historically, Speaker of the House votes can be contentiousThis Wikipedia article is interesting in that it reflects not just the election of the speaker, but the evolution of the political parties in the United States. The House of Representatives elected Louisianan congressman Mike Johnson and the House is open for business.

Meetings and Classes Updates

Click to go to our Meetings and Classes page to learn more and register.

American Sign Language: Tuesday, 5:00-6:00 PM, Zoom

Halloween vocabulary and conversations stuck with us. This was because such conversation is fun and we have many great memories to attach to these words. It is easy to transform these words into stories and conversations. We enjoyed a list of new words including robber, alarms, steal, take to jail, arrest. We also learned about headaches, allergies, and sinuses. Small words like and, for, because that help to clarify our conversational directions.

October 31: No Class! Happy Halloween! 

International Bible Study: Tuesday, 8:45-9:45 PM, Zoom

We had a great conversation that focused on Luke 23:56. Luke tells us that after Jesus was crucified and died, the women went along to the tomb and watched at a distance. Since the day Jesus died was the "preparation day", the then observed the Sabbath (rather than prepare Jesus' body). Questions about whether the women were required to "keep the Sabbath" since Jesus was questioned for performing the "work" of healing on the Sabbath. In consideration: 

  • Keeping the Sabbath holy is a commandment by God (Exodus 20:8) not just a custom  
  • Jesus said that we should not think that he came to abolish the law and the prophets, but to fulfill them (Matthew 5:17)
  • Jesus taught that Sabbath was made for [man] and not the other way around. He told them that he was Lord of the Sabbath (Mark 2:27-28)
So, were the women correct in keeping the Sabbath? Yes. While they loved Jesus and wanted to care for him, they also trusted that following God's commandments were in their best interest. Keeping the Sabbath as well as demonstrated their love and respect for Jesus as God as well as teacher. Did they have to keep the Sabbath? No. We have the choice to trust God and respect and follow God's commandments.

October 31: Join us as we continue our conversation in reading John.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00-11:00 AM, Zoom

November is "Vague Language" month:

  • What is vague language?
  • When is it useful? When does it get in the way?
  • Why do we use it? 

November 2: Meet and explore vague in American English, in American situations, in American Culture.

Kids's Conversation and More: Friday, 4:30-5:00 PM, Zoom

We had a nice meeting sharing Hot Wheels Cars across the world. We saw keyboards, but unfortunately could not hear (is Zoom filtering ambient sounds). It is early for some and late for others...we are working around the clock.

November 3: Tell me a scary story! Come on, guys! I want to be scared. Bring it on.

Words and Phrases

ambient: surrounding, in the environment
around the clock: at many times during a 24 hour day
bring it on: a challenge
carry a lot of baggage: psychological or social issues
contentious: displaying an eagerness to fight
get in the way: obstruct an action
hard copies: a book, a movie; something you can hold in your hands; tangible
highlighted: make something stand out
holds out: stays
oddity: something unusual or strange
open for business: operating, working
whether: indication of an investigation of multiple options

Sunday, October 22, 2023

Getting Ready for Halloween: Let's Meet In Person

 Hello Friends.

This weekend flew by. We had cool and beautiful weather. Halloween decorations and opportunities to celebrate are sprouting up all over. 

Everyone is welcome to MEET IN PERSON 

for a Tailgate, Pumpkin Carving Party


at Cornerstone Lutheran Church: 4850 East Main Street, Carmel

Meet in the back parking lot

Thursday, October 26, 10:00 AM-12:00 PM


Bring a tailgate snack to share

Bring a large pumpkin, a sharp knife, and a large spoon to carve your Jack o Lantern for Halloween

Children and friends are welcome

Zoom over and say HI! If you can't make it in person!

If the weather does not cooperate, we will meet in room 100. Enter Door 6



People are talking about

  • German food: easy to find at Aldi (ALL di). Right now Aldi has a German celebration and speculoos cookies.
  • Trunk or Treat: trick or treating in a parking lot. People decorate their cars and hand out treats to children. Cornerstone Lutheran Church is hosting a Trunk or Treat October 27, 5:30-7:30 PM for children  preschool to fourth grade. 

Halloween: What to expect!

Want to see all the neighborhood kids decked out and give candy or treats?

  • Porch lights on
  • Lots of decorations

Not entertaining trick or treaters? 

  • Porch lights off
  • House dark

What else?

  • What kind of treats? Wrapped candy (one or two pieces per child). Whole fruit (an apple or orange).
  • Some neighbors host small driveway parties and grill hot dogs and hand out beer to adults.
  • Some communities have parades.
  • Carry a flashlight and watch for traffic.
  • Watch for cars and be safe.

Wild Animals in America

A Friend went to a National Park on vacation. In the fall, the color can be beautiful, but there is warning about approaching the animals that make the parks their home. People forget the animals are wild and will defend themselves or their children. Bears are getting ready to hibernate and are cranky and hungry.

  • bear/bears
  • deer/deer
  • elk/elks
  • bison/bisons buffalo/buffalos or buffaloes
  • antelope/antelopes
  • moose/moose (from the Algonquian language)
  • squirrel/squirrels
  • cougar/cougars
  • alligator/alligators
  • fox/foxes
  • coyote/coyotes
This article on Wildlife Safety: 8 tips for unexpected encounters talks about keeping safe when you come across a wild animal. Wild animals can be in parks, but you may see deer, foxes, skunks, raccoons, coyotes, snakes and a host of birds in our urban and suburban yards. These are most often encountered at dawn or dusk. Keep your eyes open.

Meetings and Classes Updates

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American Sign Language: Tuesday, 5:00-6:00 PM, Zoom

We learned a new list of haunted words to use for Halloween. We applied the words in scary and spooky sentences.

October 24: Tell us about fall fun and Halloween favorite times using our new and old words.

October 31: No meeting: Happy Halloween!!!!

International Bible Study: Tuesday, 8:45-9:45 PM, Zoom

Luke continues to tell a great story and lend new insights into the character of Jesus. Overarching insights included that people come to Jesus for physical healing. It is through these tough times that people discover that they need more in their life and Jesus provides healing and more. We talked about how important it is to have friends and a community in Christ to bring our problems to God when we are unable or unwilling. Jesus always is ready and willing to answer. We also discussed that Jesus offers solutions to social and political problems. 

  • When we forgive another, we are free.
  • Jesus spends a lot of time with God. He does not try to do everything on his own.
  • Jesus tell his disciples something new: he tells them to pack a bag and be prepared to travel. He tells them to buy a sword. 
  • Even very little faith is enough to make a miracle.
  • It is not about the level of performance, but it is about the love of performance. We are all given gifts and how we use them for others is important and adds meaning to our lives and joy to others.

October 24: Join us as we wrap up Luke and begin the fourth Gospel (biography of Jesus): John.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00-11:00 AM, Zoom

We continued in our smaller groups talking about asking questions and gaining answers. Specific questions when we have workers in or take our car to be repaired are sometimes confusing. We find that we are on the answering end of the questions. 

Open ended questions keep the conversation going. When we ask open ended questions we are looking to gain information and demonstrate that we are listening and are interested in what the other person has to say. Active listening and reflective listening are important. We talked about people's perceptions when our answers are short or when we ask only direct questions (sometimes we appear to be rude or uninterested).

We practiced contrasting pairs of questions, paying special attention to count/non-count nouns and subject/verb agreement. Some examples:

  • How much gas did you buy? How many gallons of gas did you buy?
  • How much money do you need for the parking meter? How many quarters do you need? Who is her roommate now? Who were her roommates last year?
  • Which one do you want--the blue pen or the red pen? Which ones do you want--the pencils or the pens?
  • What color is her suit? What color are her shoes?

Be careful asking questions with "like ":

  • What does her sister look like? She is short with brown hair and brown eyes. (To describe physical appearance)
  • Whom do you look like? I look like my sister. We look alike. We look like our mother. (To resemble in appearance)
  • What is her sister like? She's very warm, friendly, and helpful. (To describe personality or character)

October 26:

In person tailgate and pumpkin carving party at 

Cornerstone Lutheran Church

10:00 AM-12:00 PM

In the parking lot: Look for Carolyn's red truck

Bring

a snack to share

a chair

a pumpkin to carve and a sharp knife

We will meet in room 100 if the weather does not cooperate!

ZOOM over and say HI!



Kids's Conversation and More: Friday, 4:30-5:00 PM, Zoom.

We talked about good things and not so good things things. We figured percentages and compared scores to the American grading scale. GRADES: Do we know what they really mean? ruminates on grades and performance. What do you think?

October 27: 

  • Bring homework corrections: what did you do to fix the problems
  • Create a ghoul and a spooky story to go along with this Halloweenish time of the year.

Words and Phrases

approaching: go toward something
come across: encounter unexpectedly
cranky: acting irritated

Friday, October 13, 2023

Questions and Answers

Hello Friends:

Whew! We made it through Friday the Thirteenth. 

Have you made your Halloween plans, yet? Do you have your costume ready. It is time to stock up on candy and treats. 

Geeking Out! Solar Eclipse October 14

Don't look to the skies without protection on October 14. A Ring of Fire solar eclipse can be seen in some form across the U.S., Mexico, and South America.

Annular solar eclipses are named from a ring of bright sunlight, or annulus. The “ring of fire” is visible around the moon during the maximum phase of this type of eclipse.

Visit the NASA website to learn more about where and when. In Indiana, we will have a 40-50% coverage. Look at the ground...the dapples of sunlight through the leaves show the shadow. Save the date: April 8, 2024 total eclipse is over Indiana as descibed in this article from the Current in Carmel.




A Travelogue From Our Friend Federica

I spent six days at Yellowstone National Park, with two days in the northern part, two days in the central-western section, and two days at Teton Park (located in the southern part of Yellowstone). Given the immense size of the park, I recommend staying in different locations throughout your trip and planning carefully, especially if you visit during the peak season, which is in the summer (June, July, and August).

During my visit, I had the incredible opportunity to see two bears, one grizzly bear and one black bear. The grizzly bear came exceptionally close to us, and there was a ranger present to ensure our safe enjoyment of the wildlife. At one point, he urgently exclaimed, "I want everyone in the car! Everyone in the car!" He was alarmed because the grizzly bear was getting closer and seemed intent on crossing the road right where we were observing it. My husband was so immersed in taking photos that he didn't even notice me rapidly retreating to the safety of the car. He jokingly said that I didn't even wait for him! I love my husband 🤣.

When you're in a natural park like Yellowstone, it's crucial to exercise caution around wildlife. Never feed them and avoid getting too close. I had the pleasure of seeing a couple of moose with an adorable moose calf.

There were many elks during their mating season. The male elks were making peculiar, almost angry-sounding noises in their attempts to attract females. It left me wondering if perhaps there weren't enough females to go around, leading to this unusual display of competition among them. 🦌❤️😡

Visiting Yellowstone often leads to encounters with bison traffic jams. I witnessed numerous bison, and they sometimes seem completely unfazed by your presence, standing in the middle of the road as if you're the one intruding on their territory.

Despite having three days of rain out of the six, I am absolutely determined to return to Yellowstone sometime in the near future. 🌧️🌲🏞️--Frederica Abate

Lone Elk Park: Lone Elk Park is operated by St. Louis County Parks and is located near Highway 141 and Interstate 44 in Valley Park. The park offers a close-up glimpse of elk in their natural habitat. Visitors can also expect to see deer, bison, wild turkey, waterfowl, and raccoons and other wildlife. The elk are restricted to the park by a high fence, but the wooded area lends to the wild feel of the area. There is a scenic lake, picnic pavilions, and one nice hiking trail within the park. The trail, the White Bison Trail loop, is an easy and scenic 3.2 mile hike suitable for most hikers.

Resources Friends Recommend

Commonly Confused Words in English: find word pairs that sound or look similar; be careful so your words are interpreted as intended

Arnel's Everyday English: YouTube lessons by Arnel. She has "fill in the gap" (fill in the blank) activities and small tests for you to check progress and memory.

Local Fall Fun

Fishers Fall Foliage Recommendations: Where to see the prettiest trees.

Palladiascope Light Show: Enjoy this free, one of a kind light show nightly on the Palladium in Carmel.

Sandhill Cranes are on the move: Numbers have double, although they are behind last year's statistics. Be sure to add a road trip to see these amazing birds to your fall to do list.


Words in the News

The news has been filled with these terms:

  • Retribution: a judicial construct where defendants are required to give up something in return for offences given. Morals and ethics are key.
  • Revenge: acts of violence or vengeance in response to a grievance
  • Avenge: inflict harm (in behalf of self or someone else) in return for an injury 


Meetings and Classes Updates

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American Sign Language: Tuesday, 5:00-6:00 PM, Zoom

We practiced colors, numbers, and health by interpreting a table and website. We were quizzed by flash card phrases. Each card led to conversation and connections.

October 17: Tell us what is the best thing about Fall.

International Bible Study: Tuesday, 8:45-9:45 PM, Zoom

Aside from our study, we met guests from Indiana that were staying in Arizona. 

Mark's account wraped up this week. We were amazed by Simon Peter when he denies Jesus. Jesus had warned Simon Peter that this would happen and he rejects the idea. When Jesus' prediction comes to pass 

Luke's account of Jesus' life highlights some amazing observations:

  • Shepherds hear from the angels that Jesus has been born and they leave the fields to go and see him (Luke 3). They leave and tell others. Shepherds are the first missionaries,
  • Jesus not only has command of the wind and water, but he can command fever (Luke 4:39)
  • We talked about the difference between the baptism that John the Baptist offered vs. the baptism in Christ. In the first case, John the Baptist was calling for repentance. Current baptism follows the form and people receive the Holy Spirit and cement a relationship with God.
  • People as if Jesus "is willing" to help them. Jesus is willing (Luke 5:12). We observed that when we are willing, God is ready.
  • Demons know who Jesus is and shouts that he is God's Son and the Savior. Jesus commands them to be quiet--they obey (Luke 4:35)
  • Jesus teaches: "Do not worry." (Luke 12:22) What a large 

October 10: Join us as we continue our reading of Luke.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00-11:00 AM, Zoom

Question Words: We jumped right into perplexing question forms with who/whom, whose/who's, and how's what's:

  • Whom did you invite to the party? With whom did you speak at the party? (Formal)
  • Who did you invite to the party? Who did you speak with at the party? (Conversational)
  • Whose books are these? Those are Carolyn's books. (Possessive)
  • Who's (who is) your favorite author? (Contraction)
  • How's the weather? What's the weather? Are these the same or different? Is one preferred?
  • How late will the plane be? How fast were you driving? How long have you lived here? (With adjectives or adverbs to measure or intensify).

We also realized that question words (interrogative pronouns that ask for information in the main/independent clause) also appear as relative pronouns to introduce noun, adjective, and sometimes adverb dependent clauses in a sentence. Welcome to English where words can have many different job descriptions! Continue to observe how you hear and read question words being used to build your own lexicon (like Alexa) and gain confidence with all the nuances.

Medical Questions and Conversations: Talking to your doctor and medical staff can be daunting no matter what the language. We shared tips and techniques to make these conversations and visits flow more smoothly and minimize our white coat syndrome,

Talking to Strangers: We covered many, many non-verbal signals that people use to encourage or discourage conversation. We discovered that there are differences between different countries and cultures. If someone is confused by your conversation, maybe he or she is misreading your body language. 

October 19:

Questioning Words: We'll review Practice 17 questions 1, 4, 6, 8, 11, 12, 17, 18, 20, 21, 22, 23, 31, 32, 33 in breakout session 1. In breakout session 2 we'll practice pronunciation of contractions with question words and look at some colloquial expressions (see handouts). 

Service People: Join the discussion about asking for maintenance and repair service for your home, for your car, etc. You don't have to know the answers (that is why you hire a service person), bring problems to create a conversation and questions.

Talking to Strangers for Solutions: Learn strategies and techniques for gaining attention and gathering information from people you don't know. Practice making open ended questions that build relationships and gain more information from people you don't know. Here is an article to get you started:  71 Open Ended Questions: Examples for an Engaging Conversation.



Kids's Conversation and More: Friday, 4:30-5:00 PM, Zoom.

We met and caught up. 

October 30: Create a ghoul and a spooky story to go along with this Halloweenish time of the year.


colloquial: characteristics of the informal conversation

defendants: accused people

lexicon: dictionary, collection of related words

missionaries: a person who fulfills a particular activity often religious

stock up on: buy a large amount of something for future use