Sunday, November 24, 2024

Happy Thanksgiving!

We hope that you have delicious and fulfilling Thanksgiving!

This is a favorite time of year for so many people. Thanksgiving kicks off the winter holiday season.

Aside from feasting, here are some things to do over the break:

Things to do Thanksgiving Weekend in Hamilton County

Thanksgiving Activities: Things to do with your children that help them learn and grow and have fun with you.

32 Fun Things to Do on Thanksgiving—Besides Eat!

Meeting and Classes: No classes or meetings this week.

Just because we are on break, does not mean you get a break!

Be sure to complete the "I'm From" poem template on our Notes and Handouts page. You can use the suggested prompts or make the poem your own. There is a great example by Emma posted.

Keep your ears open for new words and phrases to surprise us!

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Last Meeting Week in November

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Hello, Friends

This has been and will be a very busy week at International Friends. We had not one, but two Thanksgiving dinners at CLC. It is so good to meet and to eat in person. Recipes are posted on our at the top of our main page. Text or call Carolyn if you have any questions. Just because the turkey seems big doesn't mean you and your family can't enjoy this treat. There are plenty turkey leftover dishes like casseroles) to make and enjoy. 

Thanksgiving and Shopping

Thanksgiving is a very important American cultural holiday. Thanksgiving Day is a day for people in the US to give thanks for what they have. Families and friends get together for a meal, which traditionally includes a roast turkey, stuffing, potatoes, vegetables, cranberry sauce, gravy, and pumpkin pie. In some cities and towns, there are parades during the Thanksgiving weekend. 

Festivities also mark the opening of the Christmas shopping on Black Friday. If you shopping isn't finished, you can always check in online on Cyber Monday to pick up deals. Shop local means to patronize local small businesses with your shopping.

American English

Language is more than speaking words. Body language is 60-65% of communication. This is why ordering over the phone, into a speaker, etc. can be confusing for both parties

Additionally, people can "feel" words or a conversation as a part if understanding. Be careful, though. Cultural traditions can color perceptions.

Avoid translating. Dipping back into a familiar language is how our brains try to be efficient. This sometimes gets in the way of our being able to speak up. The other language saps our confidence.

American Culture

And speaking of language, American culture personal space was a topic of discussion. Americans tend to like about an arm's length between themselves when talking. Depending on your culture, you might want to talk closer. Someone that is invading an American's personal space may be seen as pushy or as being aggressive. Take a look at this article Proxemics 101: Understanding Personal Space Across Cultures. Does this change how you approach people?

Where you stand when you talk to someone is reflexive and varies widely depending on your culture.

Get Out There! What are you finding?

Hamilton County Fun: November Things to Do

International Friends Meeting Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

November 11: Psalm 36 and Genesis 25-27. 

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

November 21: Email your "Where I'm From" handout. Last chance for Thanksgiving questions!

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

October 24: Bring your Word Pictures. Examples are on our Handouts page. Last chance for Thanksgiving questions!

American English for Kids: Thursday, 4:30-5:00 PM, private Zoom

We recorded a few minutes of our meeting to see how we look and sound.

October 22: Two topics:

1. What did you think of your video recording? Do you see room for improvement? 

2. Do you think it is important to be able to translate your home language into English and vice versa? Let's talk about your opinion and why.

Words and Phrases

approach: first talk to or interact with someone

arm's length: hold out your arm and wiggle your fingers-that far

color perceptions: influence what someone thinks 

dipping: spending a little time

leftover: main dishes that are repurposed

parties: two people (or entities) that are involved in an agreement

patronize: go to and participate at

pushy: excessively or unpleasantly self-assertive or ambitious

room for improvement: hope that something will improve or get better

sap: take away the energy 

speak up: say what we are thinking

tend: are usually


Sunday, November 10, 2024

Come and Feast!

Hello, Friends.

Thanksgiving is an important holiday in the United States. Come and learn how to prepare Midwest traditional dishes. Learn about the history of Thanksgiving. And bring your favorite feasting dish/food to share. It can be from any country or holiday. Come and share you



Seasonal Favorites 

Hallmark movies are a holiday seasonal favorite. These light romance movies have a formula plot. Check the Hallmark Channel or local stations to binge away the season.

Indiana has a migration fly way for sandhill cranes. These big and beautiful birds are on the move. Jasper Pulaski park is a favorite stopover. Click to see Sandhill crane counts and directions to Jasper Pulaski park to see thousands of cranes gather for the evening. Deer join them in the field and coyotes stop by to see if they can grab a quick meal.


International Friends Meeting Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

November 11: Psalm 36 and Genesis 25-27. Indiana falls back. We are keeping our meeting time at 8:00 PM Eastern Standard Time.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

Small groups work out great in our Zoom rooms. We can listen to each other and focus on what is being said. Telling, asking, and retelling are important ways to practice language learning. Key for adults learning a new language is relearning how to listen without expectations.

November 14: Meet at Cornerstone Lutheran Church to learn to cook traditional dishes: turkey, mashed potatoes and gravy, cranberries, and green bean casserole. Bring a dish to share! Bring friends and family!

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

We learned more about each other. Telling "where you are from" involves more than a location. It also may be an answer to an immediate question ("Where are you coming from?" could mean that someone wants to know your location for someone to give directions or it could mean that they want to understand your state of mind or your opinion.

November 14: Meet at Cornerstone Lutheran Church to learn to feast on traditional dishes: turkey, mashed potatoes and gravy, cranberries, and green bean casserole. Bring a dish to share! Bring friends and family!

American English for Kids: Thursday, 4:30-5:00 PM, private Zoom

Yow! Falling back fell off of Mrs.Willard's radar screen! She missed our meeting because of the time change. Never fear! She set alarms for our next meeting

November 15: Tell Mrs. Willard about your week. Talk about a time when you missed an appointment. What happened.

Words and Phrases

binge away: spend time doing the same thing over and over

fell off of the radar screen: lose track of time or something

formula: standard for doing something

Mrs. Willard: in the United States, teachers and other authorities are called Mr/Mrs/Miss/Ms and last or family name 

never fear: don't worry

state of mind: a way someone thinks at a certain point of time; overall mental state; here are 120 Examples of States of Mind

Sunday, November 3, 2024

Welcome November!

Hello, Friends

You never know what is going to happen. Even the best laid plans can become derailed. Some people see this as drama. Others see it as opportunity. What about you?

Scheduling for International Friends

November has very important dates for us in the United States. We have civic events as well as celebrate Thanksgiving. 

November 2: Daylight Savings Ends. Indiana "falls back". Set you clocks back an hour. Sleep in! If you Zoom with us from a different time zone, check the class times. 

November 5: U.S. Election Day: Americans vote for the next U.S. president as well as local officials

November 12: 6:30-8:30 PM Creekside Middle School. Practice your English and tell other families about International Friends.

November 14: International Friends Feast--Meet at CLC to learn how to make a traditional turkey and pitch in feast. Bring your friends, family, and your favorite feasting dish. 

November 28: Thanksgiving Day-No classes or meetings November 27-December 1.

November 29: Black Friday kicks off the holiday shopping season. Look for great sales and door busters. Business accounting books used to record red ink as a loss and black ink as a profit in ledgers. Black Friday was the day businesses began making a profit (often thanks to holiday shopping).

American English

Look at our Kid's Conversation to see what we are learning about some unusual singular and plural nouns. When it comes to treats, standard rules do not always apply. Can you think of other words like candy and fruit that are plural/singular? What is the grammar rationale or explanation?

American Culture

November is a month of giving. People are anticipating holidays of thanks and holidays of giving. Christmas "giving trees" pop up in churches and schools. American culture is one of volunteerism and giving. 

Get Out There! What are you finding?

Christmas in October?! Not yet, but they are setting up Christkindlmarkt on Carter Green (and you can find decorations and supplies at Hobby Lobby, too).

Festive shopping at bazaars. Look for craft shows and holiday markets. These are great places to find treasures for your friends and family. Here is a link to Holiday Markets in Indiana. Maybe there is a field trip in your future.

International Friends Meeting Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

Two of us were gathered. We caught up with each other and with the beginning of Genesis 25. Again, the genealogy was insightful to this small group. We appreciated the importance of family and roots. We appreciated that Isaac and Ishmael met together to bury Abraham (indicating a familiar and familial relationship) (25:9). 

November 4: Meeting is cancelled.

November 11: Psalm 36 and Genesis 25-27. Indiana falls back. We are keeping our meeting time at 8:00 PM Eastern Standard Time.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

Due to downpours, we met inside to "tailgate". Only one pumpkin showed up to be carved, so that didn't happen. We had great conversations about weather and food and had a great steering committee 

November 7: Meet on Zoom. Click here to see a "Where are you from?" worksheet.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

I hope you had a happy Halloween and worked on your word lists.

November 7: Let's talk about Halloween as well as other celebrations you might have in your home. Bring your "home" word lists. It doesn't matter what language they are in. We will compare them! We will continue the "where are you from" discussion.

American English for Kids: Thursday, 4:30-5:00 PM, private Zoom

Fruit/fruits and candy/candies: these words came up in our conversation. These can be misused and often are. Candy and fruit can mean one or a whole bunch (uncountable amount, like in your Trick or Treat bags). We have candy dishes and fruit bowls (How many are in there? What are the types? No one cares!) But, if you are counting, that is a different story.

  • Do you want this candy?
  • Do you want these candies?


Use candy (or fruit) generally. Use candy (or fruit) with much or little (How much candy did you get?) You might say candies (or fruits) when specifically talking about a number of or different types of candy (oops!) 

Trunk or treat has become a world-wide answer to Trick or Treating. Our friends told us that this was how they celebrated in their American school.

Piasa birds (see this within five hours of Indy) and Windigos. These creatures are native American/American Indian folklore creatures.  Windigos have become popular in American culture lately. Have you anything like this in your culture?

   

November 8: We "fell back" for our Friends, the time didn't change but notice that our time on Zoom is an hour earlier.

Words and Phrases

answer: solution (answer to something or answer for something)
best laid plans: most thought through and organized
came up: happened
derailed: ruined
door busters: events of special deals that are designed to bring customers into a store
familial: relating or occurring to in a family or to family members
familiar: related to a family; well known
officials: people who hold jobs supporting the state and local government
pop up: appear for a limited time
sleep in: do not get up early
used to: a practice in the past; were
volunteerism: free labor for community service
world-wide: common all around the world