Friday, September 25, 2020

Freedom in the United States Means You Decide What is Best

Hi Friends,

I hope you are enjoying these first days of fall. The maple trees have turned red and orange. There are so many family friendly activities to enjoy this time of year. Check them out on Indy with Kids

Each year people have many of the same conversations around the same time. Right now, people are considering their health (aside from COVID-19) because cold and flu season is moving into our area with the chilly fall weather. Protecting yourself and your family's health is a decision. People do not have to get vaccinations. People do not have to take their medicine as prescribed. People have the ability to choose what they think is best when it comes to their health. Because this is a hot topic, be sure to read more below to make the best decisions to preserve your health, your family's health and our community's health. If you can not afford to pay for family's healthcare, there are many options for free and reduced care as well as other support.

You may have gotten an Amber Alert on your phones this week. An Amber Alert is an emergency message that is broadcasted on phones and over the radios and televisions. Warning signs on highways effected by the alert will also broadcast the alert. An Amber Alert is a bulletin looking for a missing child or children. There are usually descriptions of vehicles and license plates. If you see the car that is being sought, call 911 and report it directly to the police. A similar alert is a Silver Alert where an adult is missing, usually an older person with dementia.

Vaccinations and antibiotics and prescriptions in the United States.

Medical practices and compliance are different in many countries. Understanding the impact that following the direction of your healthcare provider has a great impact on your wellness as well as those around you. In the United States you may have more leeway. Your choices have a great impact on the entire community as well as your individual health. Key questions:

  • Antibiotics kill the microorganisms that cause sickness. It is simple to cure these kinds of diseases when the drugs are taken as directed.by the doctor to kill the bacteria that is causing illness (ear infections, strep throat, kidney or urinary tract infections, sinus infections, etc.) Each prescription is written for each person given their age, weight, etc. and will work only for that person in that situation.
  • Prescriptions from a doctor are written for one person for one health situation. Take the medication as directed for the entire time. Many times people think that since they feel better they don't need to continue to take the medicine. This may cause the disease to grow and get worse.
  • Public schools (and most private schools) and all universities in the United States require students have vaccinations to  keep students from getting sick and maybe more importantly to protect others who are immunocompromised or allergic to the vaccinations and can't take them in these group settings.
Living a good life and staying healthy are choices people make every day.

There are so many interesting things happening in each of our classes and meetings. Look through each of the headings below to see what we are doing and learning throughout the week. Feel free to jump in and join us any time. You need to register and I will send you the links.

COVID 19 in Indiana

We moved to Level 5 in Indiana! Restaurants and bars are open to full capacity. Wear your facemask and practice social distance. Continue to wash your hands and use your hand sanitizer. Senior living facilities are not wide open, yet, but the restrictions on dining and social activities are being cautiously lifted. This is great news for us families!

Preschool Stories and More: Mondays, 10:30-11:30, Zoom.

We are excited to start our classes. You need to email me to get the Zoom links. We are reading a great book about going to school. We are talking about being a good friend. Moms, bring your questions about schools and learning expectations in the United States and Indiana. Your are welcome to join us for our children’s class and then stay for a Q&A.

International Bible Study: Tuesdays, 9:30-10:30

This week we read about the miracle of Jesus’ annunciation. An angel came to Mary to tell her that she was going to be the mother of the Son of God. Mary and Elizabeth were cousins, and both were blessed with amazing children. We talked about how we need someone to “open the gates” for us, just as John’s work opened the minds and hearts of people to be ready for Jesus. We talked about how Jesus was human and we too can walk like Jesus. We talked about how God’s angel’s message to Mary gave her the knowledge and tools to face the possibility of people questioning her and her baby, since she was unmarried. We talked briefly how with comes risk.

International Friends: Tuesdays, 10:30-12:00

We "met" in my kitchen for a cooking session for how to make stuffed apples. While I demonstrated a sweet version, we also talked about making savory options.

September 29 week we will have a “cook along” and make oven baked wings, (and talk about other options for making them). To join in the cook along you will need a stick of unsalted butter, hot sauce (Frank’s Red Saucy, Tabasco, Siracha or one of your choice), or ketchup, ginger and soy sauce, or a package of ranch salad dressing mix (the envelop kind not the bottle kind). For serving, you will need celery sticks, ranch salad dressing and blue cheese.

Afternoon Conversation: Wednesdays, 4:30-6:00

Talking about life in Indiana is always fun. Sometimes life overwhelms us. Some days we are torn in several directions at once. That was what happened to me during our meeting on Wednesday. It seems that all my responsibilities collided at 5:00! That didn’t stop the conversation. Our Friends could hold their own quite well without me jumping in!

English Classes: Thursdays, 9:30-12:00

Some people are still having technical difficulties Zooming into our classes. Here are some "fixes" for you to be aware of:

  • You should be able to one-click into the class using the link in your email (your email is linked with this quick click).
  • Be careful not to use the “dial up” link if you are connected to Wi-Fi or using your computer. I included that link so that you could join classes or meetings if your Wi-Fi is down or if you are using your phone.
  •  If you choose to type in the ID and the password, be careful to type them exactly as they are written including the capitalization

Capitalization in written American English capitalization plays an important role in interpreting meaning.

  • Proper names (nouns) names of people, places and things are capitalized.
  • The first word of a sentence or bullet are capitalized.
  • The important words in the title of a book, article or major heading of writing.
  • Initials and abbreviations of places or entities (U.S.A.=United States of America or IN=Indiana or GOP=Grand Old Party or the Republican political party!).
  • People substitute the words big and little to signify capitalization: big B and little b.
  • When spelling is unusual someone may say, “My name is la Salle. That would be little l-a, capital s-a double l e.”
  • Technology has brought many new ways of abbreviating and capitalizing. Tech does not follow the usual rules (Wi-Fi…which is just how it is spelled: a catchy name).

End of the Week Conversation: Thursdays, 10:30-12:00

As the weather turns colder, people seem to feel ill more often. Colds (viruses) turn into sinus and ear infections (bacterial infections easily cured with antibiotics). The flu vaccination comes out this time of year. Getting your flu vaccination protects you from the current strain or variety of the influenza. COVID-19 has made it even more critical to get your flu shot, to protect yourself from the flu and to keep others from getting sick. This article in IU Health explains it more thoroughly.

We all enjoy cocktails, especially when we don't have to drive! We shared our favorite drinks!


sought: looked for

compliance: following or agreeing to directions
leeway: flexibility, room for decision making and action
immunocompromised: having a weak immune system
jump in: join us
capacity: full amount
Q&A: question and answer time
annunciation: the announcement to Mary by the angel Gabriel
torn in several directions at once: having responsibilities or demands at the same time
overwhelms: over runs
collided: met suddenly in the same place
hold their own: take care of themselves
jumping in: joining and participating
savory: not sweet
capitalization: use of upper and lower case letters
capitalized: usually this means the first letter of a word is capitalized
bullet: the dot or character in a list as a part of the text of a paragraph
entities: organizations
signify: indicates
catchy: memorable
cured: disease is ended
thoroughly: fully, in detail

Saturday, September 19, 2020

Fall Days

 Hello, Friends,

We have had some crisp days lately. The tops of the maple trees are turning orange. Leaves are drifting off of others. Brown County is famous for beautiful fall leaves and color. Whether you are hunkering down or out of town, you can enjoy Hoosier fall color via the Brown County Leaf Cam.

I became a football widow this week. This happens every year. There College SEC on Friday night and all day and night on Saturday. NFL (National Football League) games are played Sunday, Monday and Thursday. That leaves only Tuesday and Wednesday when my husband is aware of his surroundings! 

Current Events

September 11 came and went. This was the 19th anniversary of the attacks on the United States on U.S. soil by . Aside from the rapidly changing news cycle, one big similarity between the days following 911 and COVID-19 has been the absence of jet airliners in our skies. On Saturdays, bi-planes have been flying over our neighborhood. I saw two jets flying over at the same time on Thursday. Happily we may have to miss a lot of great events, but NAS Oceania Airshow broadcast live on Facebook on Saturday. What a great way to enjoy jet noise and learn more about sea based flight from the U.S. Navy.

That isn't all that is in the air. Earlier this week we had haze from the wildfires out on the West Coast. There were some strange sunrises and sunsets. 

TikTok and WeChat are on the verge of being cancelled in the United States. There are questions about the viability of cyber security of data within these applications or apps. Good news...TikTok is being purchased by Oracle and WalMart for use in America.

Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg died on Friday. You can read about her life and accomplishments from this History article. This article has narration to practice your English listening skills. 

Preschool Stories and More: Mondays, 10:30-11:30, beginning September 21

Join Miss Tomoko and all the kids to read stories and learn games and fun. The first half hour is for the kids, the second half hour is for parent questions and conversation. Register to join the fun or email for more information.

International Bible Study: Tuesdays, 9:30-10:30

We discovered who Theophilous could be. Our research shows that the Bible doesn't specify who he is, but there are a five of suppositions in Wikipedia: a person of honorary title, a Roman official, a honorary title "friend of God", the Apostle Paul's lawyer, or Jewish priest. In the grand scheme of things, who Theophilous is specifically is not as important. What is implied in this name is that this "friend of God" is respected and Luke's discussion uses scientific and legalistic rules to confirm what Theophilious was taught about the life of Jesus.

Our discussion for this week covered Luke 1: 5-25 which is the story the foretells the birth of John the Baptist. This is quite a story! The miracle of this child's conception isn't believe by his father. 

September 22: Zoom over to talk about the story about the foretelling of another miraculous conception in Luke 1:26-38.

International Friends: Tuesdays, 10:30-12:00

We talked about COVID 19 statistics and testing. So much ground has been covered since this disease was first discovered. When the pandemic hit the American shores in March, very little was known about it's transmission, what comorbidities would make it lethal, what demographics were most at risk. People feared for resources like hospital space and ventilators to help people survive. All we knew was that it was deadly. We have learned so much and the more that we learn changes how we look at this disease. One thing to be sure, there are plenty of statistics to be seen and data to be traced. There are dashboards for tracking on every level. State dashboards (Indiana C include number of tests, results, deaths, hospital ICU and cases. 

We compared and contrasted retirement ages and benefits in the various countries. In the United States, Social Security benefits can be paid out early or can begin at a later date. This chart explains how these benefits are paid. Overall, the United States Government is striving to make information clear and accessible on line. This is particularly helpful during this pandemic when people need to access information and can not go to an office.

September 22: Zoom over to join me in my kitchen to make a classic midwestern fall dish.

Afternoon Conversation: Wednesdays, 4:30-6:00

We talked about hospital practices in the United States as it pertains to having babies. We compared practices in different countries and in the U.S. We talked about immigration and visas. The official government site for applications can be found on this USA.gov site. If you want official information, be sure that the site you visit ends in .gov and has a lock before the https:// to reach an official site with up to date information. Information submitted to these pages are secure. USCIS has everything you need to know about visas in straightforward English. You can file forms, manage your case and calculate fees from this site. 

September 23: Join us to talk about what is on your mind.

English Classes: Thursdays, 9:30-12:00

There are so many interesting topic and conversations happening in all of our classes. For all of our classes, here is a great site that has quick reference information for Common English Words. Browse this site to learn more about learning English. Look the list over. Do you know all of the words? Can you use each them in a sentence? Can you pronounce them easily? Understanding these words and using them well are key to understanding and being understood.

September 24: Join our classes to grow.

End of the Week Conversation: Fridays, 10:30-12:00

We ended the week comparing fashion faux pax. For example, in the U.S. people didn't wear white clothing (particularly white shoes) after Labor Day. Wearing a white dress to a wedding is also a faux pax (because the bride wears white). Wearing stockings is also changing in the formal dress code.

Homecoming was the other topic. Spirit week, kings and queens and courts, rallies and convocations, parades and football games (with tailgating) and formal dances are all part of the traditions of high school and college homecoming.

September 25: Wrap up the week with some great conversation.

crisp: cool and refreshing
in real time: live
on U.S. soil: within the country
wildfires: fires that are out of control
viability: able to work or live
cyber: related or pertaining to computer and computer networks
apps: pronounced a ps; the little programs on a phone or tablet
justice: judge
could be: possibly but not for sure
specify: identify clearly or define
suppositions: uncertain beliefs
Wikipedia: a reference source written by people for people; anyone can write for it and anyone can edit; Wikipedia is not a credited source for research, but it is a great place to start
in the grand scheme of things: in the big picture or overall
foretells: warns, predicts

hit American shores: arrived in the United States
transmission: how a disease is passed from one person to another
comorbidities: two or more diseases that are present at the same time.
lethal: deadly
demographics: population groups

dashboard: a graphic summary of data or information (or the dials on your car that tells how fast you are going...)
compared and contrasted: looked at things to find similarities and differences
striving: trying, working toward
as it pertains to: regarding, the way it happens
faux pas: (French origin meaning a miss step) a serious mistake (especially a social mistake); also words that belong to another language are often italicized in English
dress code: clothing rules

Saturday, September 12, 2020

Welcome Back!

If you are seeing this page as an email, click to visit our webpage for a better experience and to access more about our meetings and classes as well as past posts.

Hello, Friends.

We are excited to be back together. Zooming creates an  opportunity for so many of us to meet each other and explore Indiana and the world beyond. It is so good to see faces and be able to talk to each other. This has become silver lining or bright side. The pandemic has taught that seeing our family and friends are important for our wellbeing. We have learned to use the technology to get face to face with each other whether we are next door or miles away. I am thankful to meet with you every week. I am thankful to our staff for hanging in here to learn new skills and keep International Friends relevant and alive.

What are people really saying when they say...

When someone says, "I'll talk to you later," or "I'll see you later" they are really saying goodbye. If you ask, "When?" 

When someone says, "Let's do lunch sometime," they usually mean that they would like to get together with you some time in the vague future and share a meal and conversation. Don't expect to pull out your calendar and set a date. In this case, your date is TBD or To Be Determined.

 Back to the Stadium

The Indianapolis Colts will begin playing in front of the fans at home games. Health and safety are paramount. To start, only 2,500 fans will be allowed to attend the September 20 home opener. 

  • Fans enter using the entrance on their ticket.
  • Everyone (fans and employees) will be COVID screened (a questionnaire and temperature check). 
  • Masks are required except when actively eating or drinking.
  • Fans are required to practice social distance inside and outside the stadium (fans will be grouped in pods).
  • Tailgating will not be permitted in Colts parking lots.
  • Ticket will be mobile and concessions and Pro Shops will be cashless.

Preschool Stories and More: Mondays, 10:30-11:30 Beginning September 22.

We are so excited to bring our preschool classes to Zoom. Have your youngster join us for a story and activities that meet Indiana teaching standards. Register or email us to add your child and join.

International Bible Study: Tuesdays, 9:30-10:30.

We kicked off Bible study by reviewing the context of the Bible: John 1: 1-5 tells us what god the holy book is about. John 3:16-17 provides the summary for understanding what God wants you to know about Him. These verses give us the context of understand the message when we feel uncertain about what is being communicated or want to know more.

We chose our book to read this year: Luke. The book of Luke opens with an introduction of why Luke chose to write an account of Jesus' life and to who it is specifically addressed: Theophilus. Who is Theophilus? That is the homework for next week. 

September 15: Join us as we answer who is Theophilus and talk about the first story: Luke 1: 5-25.

International Friends: Tuesdays, 10:30-12:00.

We got to know each other! It was nice to hear where everyone was from and to learn about what brings people to Indiana. We are thrilled to be able to meet new friends from all over the greater Indianapolis area who may not have been able to come to meet in Carmel. Sharing our stories are and important part of becoming a community.

September 15: Share about retirement benefits from other counties. Our resident family law attorney will share with us her findings about U.S. Federal Retirement.

Afternoon Conversation: Wednesdays, 4:30-6:00

We opened sharing places to enjoy fall including the Stuckey Farm Festivals. Which led us to talk about James Whitcomb Riley: the Hoosier Poet (Click for a great PBS documentary about his life). Riley wrote the children's poem Little Orphant Annie which is chock full of Hoosier dialect and is written in the voice of a child. This poem was the inspiration for the cartoon strip Little Orphan Annie...

...which was the inspiration for the musical Annie! 



And, by the way, Riley Hospital in Indianapolis is named for James Whitcomb Riley. 

English Classes: Thursdays, 9:30-12:00.

We Zoomed as a school for the first time. It is exciting to see everyone in one place! We had a few bugs in letting people into our school. Some of it was operator error on my part, for which I apologize. I will learn more and then practice on you! For future classes, I will open our school Zoom around 9:15 and you can pop in and see each other (and me) until 9:30. Then you will go away to your "classrooms". 

We still have room in our Beginning, Middle and Conversation classes. You can register and join us!

End of the Week Conversation: Fridays, 10:30-12:00

Join this unleveled conversation meeting to talk about what is on your mind. This week we talked about home life and division of labor. We found out that families all around the world handle chores differently and that roles traditional families are changing. We talked about how the pandemic has changed how we run our homes and if these changes were for the better

date: an appointment made for social purposes
fans: people who are interested in or admire someone or a team
paramount: of highest importance
pods: people belonging to a specific small group (pandemic pods or bubbles are associations of specific people to limit the spread of COVID 19)
actively: currently doing  something or engaged in something
tailgating: parties in the parking lot before a game
cashless: using a credit card
context: circumstances or information that makes an event or idea understood
Him: when talking about God, the pronouns are usually capitalized like a name out of respect
resident: a professional that is attached to or working for a particular organization 
family (law): lawyers specializing in helping families with legal issues
findings: research results
chock full: very full
dialect: regional way of talking
voice: written to sound like someone
by the way: incidentally or by the by (as Orphant Annie might say)
as a school: all together 
bugs: computer or technology errors
operator error: computer problem caused by the user
on my part: my fault
pop in: show up, arrive
division of labor: work made easier by people working together
chores: jobs around the home that are not paid
for the better: a good result

Saturday, September 5, 2020

Good bye Summer!

Hello, Friends.

We are not limited to space this year! 

If you would like to Zoom with us for our new year, please be sure to:

  • Register for 2020-2021: our Zoom links are being updated. If you Zoomed with us over the summer, those links are now obsolete.
  • Meetings and Classes: descriptions of our offerings this year.
  • About Us: All our 2020-2021 scheduling and information in one place.
  • Welcome e-mails and Zoom links are emailed on Fridays.

Since we are on Zoom, you will need to register to get the links emailed to you. 

Do not share our Zoom Links. This compromises the security of our meetings.

Labor Day Weekend

Monday September 7 is Labor Day. This three day weekend marks the end of the summer season in Indiana. Many of our outdoor, neighborhood and community pools close after this weekend. We celebrate with BBQs and picnics and one last trip to the pool! Learn more about this holiday that celebrates the labor movement from the U.S. Department of Labor.

COVID-19 and Wearing Masks

We are all wearing masks, these days. Make sure that your are wearing and using them correctly to stay healthy. Visit this CDC page to learn more about the best masks to wear to keep your glasses from fogging, the best materials for masks, how to wear and care for your cloth masks and so much more.

Handling your mask is as important as wearing it. Fold the outside in and put it away so you don't touch the contaminated exterior with your hands. Wash your hands. 

The More You Know...

IPS Covid volunteer application: Indianapolis Public Schools are meeting virtually. Parents need to work. Children need supervision. Many churches and other support organizations are hosting space with wifi for children to work virtually (and apart from each other). These children still need supervision, so there are opportunities to help.

Immigrant Welcome Center has resources to help during these unusual times. You can call direct to get support related to immigration, health or other issues during the pandemic: 1-866-711-1342. The Immigrant Welcome Center has resources in 200 languages and can help you in your home language to connect you with the resources you need including immigration, healthcare, legal, etc. As with all our countries, the United States Immigration and Naturalization Service has been impacted by the COVID shutdowns and grace is being given. 


International Bible Study: Tuesdays, 9:30-10:30

This week we talked about Mark 14: 66-72. Jesus' predictions about Peter's denial of him comes true. Peter does something he never dreamed he would never do. He weeps. He is contrite. Is Peter comforted by the fact that Jesus knew Peter in his weakest moment? Was Peter equipped to move beyond his betrayal of both himself and Jesus? We can

September 8: We will talk about Jesus being taken before civil authorities in Mark 15.

English Classes, International Friends and Afternoon Conversations

We had great meetings wrapping up our summer sessions. This was our first summer of continuing classes. A very huge thank you to our staff that worked hard to continue to meet and give us all an opportunity to get together, share stories and talk about our experiences during this summer of COVID-19.

Be sure to register to continue to meet in the fall.

Wash your hands.

See you Zoom!


obsolete: out of date
compromises: weakens or breaks
marks: symbolizes
handling: touching and using
grace: understanding and forgiveness
never dreamed he would do: unimagined 
weeps: cries
contrite: sorry