Tuesday, December 24, 2024

Merry Christmas!

Peace and joy on this special day when Heaven and Earth rejoice and celebrate the birthday of Jesus.





100 Bestt Christmas Movies 

Saturday, December 21, 2024

Our Last Classes of the Year

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Happy Holidays, Friends!

What a beautiful day here in Indiana to end our classes for the year. Enjoy your holiday break and see you beginning the week of January 6th.

Safe travels if you are going places. Driving? Flying? What is your favorite mode of transportation? Regardless of your plans, be safe and celebrate the joy and peace and fellowship of the holiday season. Make new traditions. Make memories. Come back in January refreshed and ready.

And good news. December 21 is the darkest day of the year. It is the shortest amount of daylight and the longest amount of darkness. Beginning Saturday daylight time increases in the Northern hemisphere. Read more about the Winter Solstice in the Greenville News.

Things to Do in Indy

Indy's Child: a great resource for things to do with Children in Indiana

Indy Fuel Hockey: a fun outing for family and friends.

Hamilton County Holiday Pass: Collect memories. This is free and fun.

American Culture

States, counties, townships, cities, towns. These all name the kinds of governmental divisions we have in Indiana. Many states have the same type of divisions, although townships are not common to all parts of the country. In Louisiana, there are parishes. 

International Friends Meeting Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

We had a wonderful listen followed by discussions that sent us to the Bible to read the individual verses that Handel chose to highlight. Renewal Journal is a resource for reading the text along with clickable YouTubes of Messiah performances.

Our reflections on the readings:

  • Isaiah writes, "Wonderful Counselor. Almighty God the Everlasting Father, the Prince of Peace". He predicts Jesus' birth when the Triune God is with us. All the aspects of God are embodied in the baby born.
  • Glory to God and peace on earth. These things are mutual. The outflowing of God's glory and our peace is good will. Good will of God toward humankind. Good will between humans.
  • The Lord IS with us: not was, not will be. The glory of the Lord shines around us. Look and you can see and feel.
  • We read the Revelation last year. The Hallelujah Chorus transported us back in time and catapulted us forward to the visions of John. 

January 6: Let's return to Genesis 27 and pick up the story. You may want to go back a bit as a refresher.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

Present perfect, politics, predictions, 

Modal verbs in Grammarly guidance offers easy and extensive advice.
  • can
  • may
  • might
  • could
  • should
  • would
  • will
  • must

January 9: Start the new year talking about resolutions and turning over a new leaf. In January we turn the page and start our new chapter: Let's tell our public story.

January 16: A retrospective. What did you begin in the past and where are you now.

January 23: Write and speak your resume.

January 30: Refining your story.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

We had a great night of conversation and picky observation. Tiny adjustments in adding tiny words (to, from, the, a, etc.), pronunciation of similar sounding words (say, said, says, save), and not pronouncing particular letters or pronouncing them in unexpected ways (d, t) makes a big difference to other people's ears and understanding. You don't always have to change your accent and you may not change your pronunciation but knowing how you sound to common American English listeners (both native and immigrants) helps you to be understood and calms frustrations on both sides of the conversation.

January 9: Come to class. We will talk about what we did over break and work on our individual listening and speaking skills perhaps the wonderful technology that is available to us.

American English for Kids: Thursday, 4:30-5:00 PM, private Zoom

Our "I'm from...." poems are so interesting to listen to. Make sure you send me your copy.

We tried playing Monopoly. This first attempt had us winging! It worked out ok with as screen and an in person board.

January 10, 2025: Let's talk about your break and try to play Monopoly again. This time we will assign roles and responsibilities. Brush up on the rules.

Words and Phrases

beginning: We have been drilling on using "from" to start a sentence. Would it be ok to start this sentence with "from"? Could it be that we know that June 21 is coming? The word "beginning" (from) implies and ending (to). Ahhhh. A puzzle and conundrum.
brush up: refresh, study
frustrations: feeling upset or annoyed or unable to get something done
refresher: activity to revise and update skills, knowledge, etc.
tied to: restricted to a set
winging: do something without proper planning

Sunday, December 15, 2024

Our Last Week of Classes and Meetings This Year

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Happy Holidays, Friends! This first "half" of our school year is drawing to a close. This year we are concentrating on telling our stories. Personal stories drive our vocabulary. As you celebrate the holidays with your family and friends, think about how you can add these memories and experiences to your story. Safe travels! Send pictures!

We are looking forward to the shortest day of the year (the Winter Solstice) in the Northern Hemisphere on December 21. Read more in the Farmer's Almanac.

American Culture

Christmas is a special time in the United States. While this holiday has roots in Christianity, there are many traditions revolve around coming home, family, and friends. Seasonal songs are an important part of the traditions and every artist and songwriter has a song about Christmas in their band's repertoire. Holiday shows cram all the favorites in an hour or so. These favorites are only played between Thanksgiving and Christmas day. Sing along with these favorites and brush up on pronunciation and enunciation. 

xkcd is a funny take on science and American Culture

American English Tricks and Techniques: Do You Hear What I Hear?

Our names are very personal. As we introduced ourselves to new friends this Thursday, we talked about our names and the difficulties people have saying them across the board. This is because they are unfamiliar in sound, style and in form both linguistically and culturally. Our names often have easy and common sounds to our language (otherwise how could our parents call us or call us out) but these sounds and combinations can be uniquely combined, formed, and voiced. This is a great way to start to understand and learn the differences between a home language and a new language. On the other hand, you may not hear or be able to easily pronounce a friend's name (or your children's friend's names). 

International Friends Meeting Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

December 4: Celebrate the coming Messiah! We are listening to Handel's Messiah and reading along as our study. 

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

We enjoyed each other's "I'm from..." poems. This is a great exercise in practicing how to "talk around" something because sometimes there just is not one word for something and a description is necessary. Some people simply look up and around and fill in the blanks with the first thing that comes to mind. Others are more thoughtful. In some scenarios, people are just given a list of prompts (without the connecting words and phrases). Then, after they plug in the words they get a surprise!

Here is a recipe for Kimbap. We also talked about the last name of Park; you can click to learn more about the history. A rationalization for the spelling can be found here. I would have to take exception to saying that the Americanized pronunciation of the name is ineptitude. My name is consistently mispronounced. I have r, l, ll, w, and y in my name all of which can be problematic only because these letters and sounds do not exist in a language, exist in a different way or sound. Do people choose an "easier" name/pronunciation for where they live, or do they insist on and retain their original pronunciation? In the United States it does not matter. We are a nation of immigrants and have names originating from many countries. American parents choose names from other cultures because they like the sentiment or sound. Parents choose unusual spellings that can lead to unintended pronunciations. This Huggies link has a list unique, interesting, and unusual of names.

December 19: We meet on Zoom for our last meeting of the year. Will we sing? Will we dance? We will do a Mad Lib and craft holiday greetings.

Here's the list:

  1. verb
  2. person
  3. noun
  4. person
  5. noun
  6. noun
  7. room in house
  8. adjective
  9. adjective
  10. adjective
  11. scent
  12. verb
  13. noun
  14. noun
  15. person
  16. transportation
  17. animal
  18. adjective

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

The weather outside was frightful, but the meeting was so delightful! Let It Snow! We had a small and mighty group show up to practice our American English. When a small group meets together, we tend to get into some deep discussions in the realm of politics. This week talked about immigration status (and did some work on grammar; particularly in the context of prepositions in this topic). We are experts about the immigration process in the United States (since we live the life) and as experts

December 19: Maybe we will work on singing and song writing. Maybe we will do our poetry. We will do the Christmas Mad Libs.

American English for Kids: Thursday, 4:30-5:00 PM, private Zoom

We talked about museums and memories. We worked on and read our "I'm from..." poems. Poetry is a good way to build vocabulary and to understand how to use words to explain what we mean when we do not have a particular or specific word or phrase to explain what we want to say.

December 20: Let's end the year by finishing reading our "I'm from..." poems and playing Monopoly. 

Words and Phrases

across the board: affecting all categories
call someone out: criticize someone or ask them to explain their actions
cram: stuff, fill
ineptitude: incompetent
insist on: say or show something is very important
jazzy: fancy with snappy music
just given: simply given
linguistically: pertaining to or dealing with language
(an amount) or so: about or approximately
problematic: something difficult to explain; open to debate
rationalization: a way of describing or interpreting something to make it more acceptable or attractive
realm: subject area of interest
repertoire: a list or supply of skills or devices
sentiment: an emotional feel
show up: go to a place
take: understanding, position

Sunday, December 8, 2024

Christmas Countdown

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Happy Holidays, Friends!

The weeks are flying by. If you live in Indiana, you would have experienced blistering cold weather followed by a beautiful weekend of 50 degree weather. This weather is supposed to hold into Wednesday and then the temperatures will drop back down into the 20s. Why do we talk so much about the weather? Because it is never boring!

International Friends Schedule for December

Our schedule is changing as people weigh in on their commitments and commitment

The third week in December: Join us for our last meeting of the year: Zoom meetings will Zoom. In person will meet in person. Is business as usual? Let's see....

No classes or meetings December 21, 2024 through January 3, 2025 [to January 6, 2025]

Christmas Time is Here

Christmas a Christian religious holiday. Churches offer various services. Feel free to join and enjoy the services and events at churches. You are welcome!

American English Tricks and Techniques

Understanding pronunciation stress patterns can make you better understood. Here are some common patterns:

  • Stress the first syllable in compound nouns. 
  • Stress the first syllable in two syllable nouns.
  • Stress the second syllable in tow syllable verbs.
  • Stress the preposition in phrasal verbs.
Bring you lists and ideas to class.

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

We met and listened to the first three pieces in the Messiah. Some of us had enjoyed this music for decades, while it was new to others. The complication of the words tangled in the music is both mysterious and enlightening. Luke 3:1-14 

December 9: Celebrate the coming Messiah! We are listening to Handel's Messiah. This week continues in the prophecies in the Old Testament

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

We spent most of our time catching up from Thanksgiving and talking about cultural niceties in the United States.

December 12: Send your "I am from..." poem template (filled out). Email it to us. Do not feel tied to the prompts if they don't fit your story. If you aren't finished, expect to work on this in class!

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

Great work and discussion was had with the "I am from..." poems. You can find them published on our handouts page as well as the whiteboard work.

December 4: Visit and share your "I am from..." poem with others during our meeting time. We will also sing Christmas songs (in English). We will look at how music helps us tune and refine our English skills.

American English for Kids: Thursday, 4:30-5:00 PM, private Zoom

December 6: Let's talk about snow and winter and memories. What are your winter memories? Are your memories about weather, family, school?

Words and Phrases

cultivating: growing a practice (or plants!)
offers insight: gain an accurate and deep understanding of something

tied to: restricted to a set Click here to go to our website.

Hello, Friends

You never know what is going to happen. Even the best laid plans can become derailed. Some people see this as drama. Others see it as opportunity. What about you?

October 31 Scheduling for International Friends

Halloween is in two weeks. Get out and see the decorations. October 31 American English and Culture 

American English

Language is more than speaking words. Body language is 60-65% of communication. This is why ordering over the phone, into a speaker, etc. can be confusing for both parties. Additionally, people can "feel" words or a conversation as a part if understanding.

American Culture

And speaking of language, American culture personal space was a topic of discussion. Americans tend to like about an arm's length between themselves when talking. Depending on your culture, you might want to talk closer. Someone that is invading an American's personal space may be seen as pushy or as being aggressive.

Get Out There! What are you finding?

Hamilton County Fun

November Things to Do

International Friends Meeting Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

November 11: Psalm 36 and Genesis 25-27. 

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

October 24: Bring word pages and "where are you from 

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

October 24: Bring your word pictures. Examples are on our Handouts page.

American English for Kids: Thursday, 4:30-5:00 PM, private Zoom

We had a new friend join us. It is fun to get to know someone new. Just because we are kids doesn't mean that we don't have a history or 

December 13: Fill in the "I am from..." Have your mom (or dad or other family member) do it too.

December 20: We all love Monopoly! Get your board out and let's play together!

Words and Phrases

business as usual: nothing new or different happens

commitment: dedication to something

commitments: responsibilities to others

fill in/fill out: complete answers 

into: expressing movement or direction until something or someone is surrounded (only partway)

hold: remain the same

let's see/wait and see: something will happen, but we don't know what

through [a date] or to [a date]: including this date; to this date means things start back up on the named date (to January 6, in this case)


Sunday, December 1, 2024

Hello December!

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Happy Holidays, Friends!

December in Indiana is cold and warm and cold and snowing and sunny. Midwest weather is like that! December in the United States is super festive. Be sure to celebrate the season.

Christmas is not just for Christians (even though that is the origin). In the United States we celebrate Christmas as a secular holiday. 

  • Gift giving: People give gifts to neighbors and friends. Gift exchanges are popular as well as white elephant parties.
  • Parties: Office, organization, community, friends, family. Everyone gets into the game
  • Holiday plays and programs: the Nutcracker ballet performance, Messiah performances and sing-alongs, school plays and concerts. There is so much to see and enjoy!
  • Christmas Cookies: we celebrate with cookies. Each family and community has particular specialties, but old standards that are elaborately iced. These can include gingerbread, sugar, spiced, shortbread. Other trending favorites are Kiss cookies and varieties of thumbprint cookies. International Friends has had cookie making parties over the years. International Friends: Christmas Cookie Recipes

International Friends Schedule for December

December 19: American English and Accent Meeting Christmas Parties!

No classes or meetings December 21, 2024 through January 3, 2025.

Gratitude Isn't Just for Thanksgiving

Being thankful is something we talk and do in November but practicing gratitude is good for you and people around you. Daily gratitude as a health-positive attitude from News at IU, Feb 18, 2020 offers insight. Gratitude involves two important components: intrapersonal (feeling grateful and having grateful thoughts) and interpersonal (expressing gratitude to others).

Here are some tips for cultivating gratitude:

  • Focus on expressing gratitude for the little things in life that we tend to take for granted: for example, the weather, finding parking, our office, our car.
  • Start a daily gratitude journal. Each day, write down three things you’re grateful and – importantly – provide a reason why you’re grateful. Providing a reason encourages us to be specific about the things for which we’re grateful.
  • Each day, make it a habit to express heartfelt gratitude to someone. Don’t assume people know you are grateful to them; they can’t read our minds.
  • At least once a year, write a letter of gratitude to someone important in your life whom you have not properly thanked. Explain the impact this person has had and provide specific examples of what the person did that made a positive difference in your life. Send the letter to the person and consider reading it aloud to them.

American English Tricks and Techniques

Singing erases mispronunciations and accent causing people to have the general American accent (perfect broadcaster English or the Midwestern English or sound like me (Carolyn!)). How does this happen? Melody, beat, and rhythm of as song can cancel out and inform how words are pronounced. Singing words become the natural and the easiest pronunciations. This neutral is the core of the "American" accent. So, when you sing, your English is simple, easy, and effortless. 

We think that when you sing, you are focusing on the sound rather than the words. Because of this and the social aspect of matching what you hear with the sound you make.

Journal of Musical Things

International Friends Meeting Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

December 4: Celebrate the coming Messiah! We are listening to Handel's Messiah and reading along as our study. 

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

December 4: Bring your "I am from..." poem template (filled out). Email it to us. Do not feel tied to the prompts if they don't fit your story.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

December 4: Bring your "I am from..." poem template (filled out). Email it to us. Do not feel tied to the prompts if they don't fit you.

American English for Kids: Thursday, 4:30-5:00 PM, private Zoom

December 6: Let's talk about snow and winter and memories. What are your winter memories? Are your memories about weather, family, school?

Words and Phrases

cultivating: growing a practice (or plants!)
erases: removes
offers insight: gain an accurate and deep understanding of something
tied to: restricted to a set 

Sunday, November 24, 2024

Happy Thanksgiving!

We hope that you have delicious and fulfilling Thanksgiving!

This is a favorite time of year for so many people. Thanksgiving kicks off the winter holiday season.

Aside from feasting, here are some things to do over the break:

Things to do Thanksgiving Weekend in Hamilton County

Thanksgiving Activities: Things to do with your children that help them learn and grow and have fun with you.

32 Fun Things to Do on Thanksgiving—Besides Eat!

Meeting and Classes: No classes or meetings this week.

Just because we are on break, does not mean you get a break!

Be sure to complete the "I'm From" poem template on our Notes and Handouts page. You can use the suggested prompts or make the poem your own. There is a great example by Emma posted.

Keep your ears open for new words and phrases to surprise us!

Sunday, November 17, 2024

Last Meeting Week in November

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Hello, Friends

This has been and will be a very busy week at International Friends. We had not one, but two Thanksgiving dinners at CLC. It is so good to meet and to eat in person. Recipes are posted on our at the top of our main page. Text or call Carolyn if you have any questions. Just because the turkey seems big doesn't mean you and your family can't enjoy this treat. There are plenty turkey leftover dishes like casseroles) to make and enjoy. 

Thanksgiving and Shopping

Thanksgiving is a very important American cultural holiday. Thanksgiving Day is a day for people in the US to give thanks for what they have. Families and friends get together for a meal, which traditionally includes a roast turkey, stuffing, potatoes, vegetables, cranberry sauce, gravy, and pumpkin pie. In some cities and towns, there are parades during the Thanksgiving weekend. 

Festivities also mark the opening of the Christmas shopping on Black Friday. If you shopping isn't finished, you can always check in online on Cyber Monday to pick up deals. Shop local means to patronize local small businesses with your shopping.

American English

Language is more than speaking words. Body language is 60-65% of communication. This is why ordering over the phone, into a speaker, etc. can be confusing for both parties

Additionally, people can "feel" words or a conversation as a part if understanding. Be careful, though. Cultural traditions can color perceptions.

Avoid translating. Dipping back into a familiar language is how our brains try to be efficient. This sometimes gets in the way of our being able to speak up. The other language saps our confidence.

American Culture

And speaking of language, American culture personal space was a topic of discussion. Americans tend to like about an arm's length between themselves when talking. Depending on your culture, you might want to talk closer. Someone that is invading an American's personal space may be seen as pushy or as being aggressive. Take a look at this article Proxemics 101: Understanding Personal Space Across Cultures. Does this change how you approach people?

Where you stand when you talk to someone is reflexive and varies widely depending on your culture.

Get Out There! What are you finding?

Hamilton County Fun: November Things to Do

International Friends Meeting Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

November 11: Psalm 36 and Genesis 25-27. 

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

November 21: Email your "Where I'm From" handout. Last chance for Thanksgiving questions!

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

October 24: Bring your Word Pictures. Examples are on our Handouts page. Last chance for Thanksgiving questions!

American English for Kids: Thursday, 4:30-5:00 PM, private Zoom

We recorded a few minutes of our meeting to see how we look and sound.

October 22: Two topics:

1. What did you think of your video recording? Do you see room for improvement? 

2. Do you think it is important to be able to translate your home language into English and vice versa? Let's talk about your opinion and why.

Words and Phrases

approach: first talk to or interact with someone

arm's length: hold out your arm and wiggle your fingers-that far

color perceptions: influence what someone thinks 

dipping: spending a little time

leftover: main dishes that are repurposed

parties: two people (or entities) that are involved in an agreement

patronize: go to and participate at

pushy: excessively or unpleasantly self-assertive or ambitious

room for improvement: hope that something will improve or get better

sap: take away the energy 

speak up: say what we are thinking

tend: are usually


Sunday, November 10, 2024

Come and Feast!

Hello, Friends.

Thanksgiving is an important holiday in the United States. Come and learn how to prepare Midwest traditional dishes. Learn about the history of Thanksgiving. And bring your favorite feasting dish/food to share. It can be from any country or holiday. Come and share you



Seasonal Favorites 

Hallmark movies are a holiday seasonal favorite. These light romance movies have a formula plot. Check the Hallmark Channel or local stations to binge away the season.

Indiana has a migration fly way for sandhill cranes. These big and beautiful birds are on the move. Jasper Pulaski park is a favorite stopover. Click to see Sandhill crane counts and directions to Jasper Pulaski park to see thousands of cranes gather for the evening. Deer join them in the field and coyotes stop by to see if they can grab a quick meal.


International Friends Meeting Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

November 11: Psalm 36 and Genesis 25-27. Indiana falls back. We are keeping our meeting time at 8:00 PM Eastern Standard Time.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

Small groups work out great in our Zoom rooms. We can listen to each other and focus on what is being said. Telling, asking, and retelling are important ways to practice language learning. Key for adults learning a new language is relearning how to listen without expectations.

November 14: Meet at Cornerstone Lutheran Church to learn to cook traditional dishes: turkey, mashed potatoes and gravy, cranberries, and green bean casserole. Bring a dish to share! Bring friends and family!

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

We learned more about each other. Telling "where you are from" involves more than a location. It also may be an answer to an immediate question ("Where are you coming from?" could mean that someone wants to know your location for someone to give directions or it could mean that they want to understand your state of mind or your opinion.

November 14: Meet at Cornerstone Lutheran Church to learn to feast on traditional dishes: turkey, mashed potatoes and gravy, cranberries, and green bean casserole. Bring a dish to share! Bring friends and family!

American English for Kids: Thursday, 4:30-5:00 PM, private Zoom

Yow! Falling back fell off of Mrs.Willard's radar screen! She missed our meeting because of the time change. Never fear! She set alarms for our next meeting

November 15: Tell Mrs. Willard about your week. Talk about a time when you missed an appointment. What happened.

Words and Phrases

binge away: spend time doing the same thing over and over

fell off of the radar screen: lose track of time or something

formula: standard for doing something

Mrs. Willard: in the United States, teachers and other authorities are called Mr/Mrs/Miss/Ms and last or family name 

never fear: don't worry

state of mind: a way someone thinks at a certain point of time; overall mental state; here are 120 Examples of States of Mind

Sunday, November 3, 2024

Welcome November!

Hello, Friends

You never know what is going to happen. Even the best laid plans can become derailed. Some people see this as drama. Others see it as opportunity. What about you?

Scheduling for International Friends

November has very important dates for us in the United States. We have civic events as well as celebrate Thanksgiving. 

November 2: Daylight Savings Ends. Indiana "falls back". Set you clocks back an hour. Sleep in! If you Zoom with us from a different time zone, check the class times. 

November 5: U.S. Election Day: Americans vote for the next U.S. president as well as local officials

November 12: 6:30-8:30 PM Creekside Middle School. Practice your English and tell other families about International Friends.

November 14: International Friends Feast--Meet at CLC to learn how to make a traditional turkey and pitch in feast. Bring your friends, family, and your favorite feasting dish. 

November 28: Thanksgiving Day-No classes or meetings November 27-December 1.

November 29: Black Friday kicks off the holiday shopping season. Look for great sales and door busters. Business accounting books used to record red ink as a loss and black ink as a profit in ledgers. Black Friday was the day businesses began making a profit (often thanks to holiday shopping).

American English

Look at our Kid's Conversation to see what we are learning about some unusual singular and plural nouns. When it comes to treats, standard rules do not always apply. Can you think of other words like candy and fruit that are plural/singular? What is the grammar rationale or explanation?

American Culture

November is a month of giving. People are anticipating holidays of thanks and holidays of giving. Christmas "giving trees" pop up in churches and schools. American culture is one of volunteerism and giving. 

Get Out There! What are you finding?

Christmas in October?! Not yet, but they are setting up Christkindlmarkt on Carter Green (and you can find decorations and supplies at Hobby Lobby, too).

Festive shopping at bazaars. Look for craft shows and holiday markets. These are great places to find treasures for your friends and family. Here is a link to Holiday Markets in Indiana. Maybe there is a field trip in your future.

International Friends Meeting Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

Two of us were gathered. We caught up with each other and with the beginning of Genesis 25. Again, the genealogy was insightful to this small group. We appreciated the importance of family and roots. We appreciated that Isaac and Ishmael met together to bury Abraham (indicating a familiar and familial relationship) (25:9). 

November 4: Meeting is cancelled.

November 11: Psalm 36 and Genesis 25-27. Indiana falls back. We are keeping our meeting time at 8:00 PM Eastern Standard Time.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

Due to downpours, we met inside to "tailgate". Only one pumpkin showed up to be carved, so that didn't happen. We had great conversations about weather and food and had a great steering committee 

November 7: Meet on Zoom. Click here to see a "Where are you from?" worksheet.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

I hope you had a happy Halloween and worked on your word lists.

November 7: Let's talk about Halloween as well as other celebrations you might have in your home. Bring your "home" word lists. It doesn't matter what language they are in. We will compare them! We will continue the "where are you from" discussion.

American English for Kids: Thursday, 4:30-5:00 PM, private Zoom

Fruit/fruits and candy/candies: these words came up in our conversation. These can be misused and often are. Candy and fruit can mean one or a whole bunch (uncountable amount, like in your Trick or Treat bags). We have candy dishes and fruit bowls (How many are in there? What are the types? No one cares!) But, if you are counting, that is a different story.

  • Do you want this candy?
  • Do you want these candies?


Use candy (or fruit) generally. Use candy (or fruit) with much or little (How much candy did you get?) You might say candies (or fruits) when specifically talking about a number of or different types of candy (oops!) 

Trunk or treat has become a world-wide answer to Trick or Treating. Our friends told us that this was how they celebrated in their American school.

Piasa birds (see this within five hours of Indy) and Windigos. These creatures are native American/American Indian folklore creatures.  Windigos have become popular in American culture lately. Have you anything like this in your culture?

   

November 8: We "fell back" for our Friends, the time didn't change but notice that our time on Zoom is an hour earlier.

Words and Phrases

answer: solution (answer to something or answer for something)
best laid plans: most thought through and organized
came up: happened
derailed: ruined
door busters: events of special deals that are designed to bring customers into a store
familial: relating or occurring to in a family or to family members
familiar: related to a family; well known
officials: people who hold jobs supporting the state and local government
pop up: appear for a limited time
sleep in: do not get up early
used to: a practice in the past; were
volunteerism: free labor for community service
world-wide: common all around the world

Sunday, October 27, 2024

BOOOOOOOO!

Happy Halloween, Friends!

Halloween is an important American holiday. Kids dress up in costumes and go door to door saying, "Trick or treat!" People give the children one piece of candy or some small gift. Communities post Trick or Treat times in advance, and you can find that information via local news. Central Indiana Trick or Treat times. Some neighborhoods have parties and bar b cues in lieu of door to door begging. Trunk or Treat parties are hosted by churches and communities where people sponsor a spot in a parking lot and decorate their car for Trick or Treaters.

Be safe! If you are driving, take extra care since children may not be watching as closely as they should. Look over the loot in your kids' bags to make sure all the candies and treats are age appropriate, wrapped, and safe to eat. Local 

American Politics

We are on the final countdown for the elections. Campaigns and ads swamp the airwaves. Pundits and polls predict outcomes. There is more to these elections than the president (although that is a headliner!). Learn more in this .gov Overview of the Presidential Election Process. Wikipedia offers a broader perspective of U.S. elections in a nutshell

There are many places to preview ballots to see candidates and issues. Ballotpedia is a great source for ballots and issues. States have their own informational .gov sites. Here is the one for Indiana. Be an informed voter by doing your homework. If you can't vote, be an informed community member and do your homework to understand the local and national issues and the players and their positions and the party platforms beyond their personality.

Meetings and Classes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

Our study group was small, but "where ever two or more are gathered..." We decided to limit our discussion until the others could join us because insight from each other is valuable. Of course we couldn't resist talking about Genesis 25: 1-11 and then 12-18. These lineages and storylines tell more about Abraham and while his "character" was not monogamistic. He was generous in his giving to all his sons while he was living and then after he died, Isaac was his heir.  He sent the sons of the concubines away from Isaac which ensured that they would not be jealous of him or fall under his rule. Verses 12-18 follow the line of Ishmael. These people ended up being hostile with all the tribes related to them (18). Thinking about "Where are you from?"

Psalm 100 is a short song and tells the goodness of God. The final verse (5) is famous for showing God's love that spills over from generation to generation. This was an apt reading as we wrap up the story of Abraham. God was with Abraham and Abraham loved his time with God. 

In the church short hymns of praise are called doxologies. 

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

We had a lively discussion about being bored and being boring. I hope you are rarely bored in our meetings, but you can be sure you are never boring! Notes and Handouts has some additional worksheets to help you with polishing -ed verses -ing endings.

October 31: Bring your pumpkins to carve into Jack-O-Lanterns and a snack to share and let's tailgate in the Cornerstone Lutheran Church parking lot.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

We had a great discussion about traffic jams and then wrote a "round robin" story. Traffic jams have a lot of very interesting words and phrases to describe the situation. I hope your roads are clear and you have smooth sailing! Check Notes and Handouts to see our boards. Be working on telling where you are from stories.

October 31: No Meeting! Happy Halloween

Words and Phrases

airways: a designated frequency for radio communications
do your homework: be informed
final countdown: counting the days to a specific event
headliner: the principal performer in a show
in a nutshell: a brief statement
smooth sailing: an easy and clear way
spills over: grow in size and scope
swamp: inundate, overload

Sunday, October 20, 2024

October Surprises

Hello, Friends

You never know what is going to happen. Even the best laid plans can become derailed. Some people see this as drama. Others see it as opportunity. What about you?

October 31 Scheduling for International Friends

Halloween is in two weeks. Get out and see the decorations. October 31 American English and Culture will meet in the parking lot at CLC for a tailgate and pumpkin carving 9:00-11:00. Bring a nice big pumpkin to carve to welcome Trick or Treaters!

We are not meeting in the evening. It is prime time to spend with family and friends celebrating the holiday and handing out candy.

American English

People newer to American English tend to have trouble using the -ing ending. Here is part of Espresso English summary of -ing

Use the -ING form of verbs in continuous tenses

Present continuous:

    • I’m studying English.
    • She’s watching TV.
    • We’re having lunch at the moment.

Present perfect continuous:

    • I’ve been thinking a lot about this decision.
    • He’s been working here since 1995.
    • They’ve been waiting for you for an hour.

Past continuous:

    • When I came home last night, you were already sleeping.
    • I found $10 on the street while I was jogging in the park.

Future continuous:

    • Sorry, I can’t meet with you tomorrow afternoon. I’ll be taking my friend to the airport.

Use the -ING form after prepositions

    • I improved my English by practicing every day.
    • We left the party after saying goodbye to everyone.
    • They’ve made a lot of money since launching their new product.
    • I want to talk to you about investing in the stock market.

Exception: Never use the -ING form after “to”:

    • I need to practice my English more.
    • My mother told me to study for the test.
    • We’d like to invest in this technology.
    • The girl didn’t want to leave the party.

Use the -ING form after these verbs in English

  • admit: The politician admitted stealing millions of dollars.
  • avoid: You should avoid eating after 10 PM.
  • consider: Have you considered buying a laptop computer?
  • enjoy: I enjoy surfing and playing tennis.
  • finish: I finally finished cleaning the house at midnight.
  • can’t stand: I can’t stand going to parties where I don’t know anyone.
  • don’t mind: I don’t mind working overtime.
  • look forward to: I look forward to seeing you next week.
  • keep (continue): My ex-boyfriend keeps calling me even though I’ve told him I don’t want to talk to him!
  • practice: I need to practice writing in English.
  • spend (time): My roommate spends hours watching TV.
  • stop: He stopped smoking ten years ago.
  • suggest/ recommend: I suggest taking some time off.
  • The doctor recommended getting more rest.

Start, like, and love can be used with the infinitive or -ing. Both are correct!

  • The baby started to cry. = The baby started crying.
  • I like to run. = I like running.
  • We love reading. = We love to read.

American Culture

What happens when you are suddenly sick and can't get in to see your regular doctor? You can visit an Urgent Care and have assessments done as well get prescriptions to take care of the problem. Ear infections, fevers, flu and cold symptoms, strep throat, urinary tract infections, minor wounds, etc. 

When the problem is more serious, or it is late at night and nothing else is open, go to the Emergency Room at the hospital. The Emergency Room is for heart attacks, broken bones (after regular hours), strokes, car accidents, etc.

Get Out There! What are you finding?

Christmas in October?! Not yet, but they are setting up Christkindlmarkt on Carter Green (and you can find decorations and supplies at Hobby Lobby, too).

International Friends Meeting Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

Psalm 2 is a song reminding us that God is in control and any people with authority (world or otherwise) who conspire (or some versions say rage) against God and people or nations that follow God's lead. Verse four tells us that God laughs at the plotting of people against him and leaders/nations that follow his lead. When the world seems to be chaotic and in turmoil  

Genesis 22-24 This week's readings were comforting and beautiful examples of relationships. Abraham and his son Isaac are the main characters.  

October 21: Psalm 100 and Genesis 25-27

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

We had great discussions about living in the United States and how professional benchmarks and requirements are different than our home countries. For those who have navigated finding jobs on temporary visas, the differences reflect the American law and customs. These may be curious, but the culture and the local systems as well as national benchmarks are important to understand and follow.

October 24: Bring word pages and "where are you from stories" about your career or job growth. Telling and talking about your experience (or the experience of someone close to you) is important in communicating in American English. Remember, more is better.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, CLC, Carmel, room 102

It was so nice to get together in person! Here are our board notes. Can you tell what we were focussing on?

October 24: Bring your "home" word lists. It doesn't matter what language they are in. We will compare them! We will continue the "where are you from" discussion.

Sunday, October 13, 2024

Seeing is Believing?

Hello Friends,

We had an exciting week at International Friends and at the Best Practices in the Heartland Conference. We learned about how to use AI and that it isn't perfect: so, look out! I see some AI work in our future. We networked and found new niches to serve. 

Thank you to everyone for reaching out to the Midwest church community with what we do so we can help other people. Thank you for manning our table and chatting with guests. Thank you for Zooming along so that others could see how we go about our lessons.

American Culture

Hunting and fishing are popular sports in the United States. We have laws as well as cultural practices for hunting and catching “wild” animals, birds, and fish that depend on time of year and place. Domestic animals are off the table.

We have hunting and fishing seasons and people need to hold licenses and purchase tags in order to participate in these sports. The Indiana Department of Natural Resources or DNR is the place to go see what animals are in season as well as regulations. Violations include fishing or hunting without a license, bag limits, etc. There are animals that are non-game, meaning they cannot be hunted or bagged. Hunting and killing "game" that is not legal or does not belong to you is poaching.

The Aurora Borealis

We had a spectacular light show from the Aurora Borealis Thursday night. While the Northern Lights were vague to the naked eye. The filters on cell phone cameras were able to offer a great view to share stunning shots


   

Classes and Meetings

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom.

We started with Psalm 121 (finally, because we have been carrying this one over for a while!). It is the Song of Ascents. A good way to start and end a day of challenges and set your sights in the right direction.

Genesis 20-21 continued to throw us a curve ball. We hope to see Abraham and his family progress and change, but they remain the same. We continued to do the same: we weigh our years of life and experiences against his over 100 years on earth walking with God as his best friend and guide. We are disappointed in him...this time we heard more of his story and his explanations. Can that change our perspective? Genesis 21 tells of the negotiations between Abraham and Abimelek. God intervenes to make the imperfect work for both sides. There are good lessons here.

October 14: We are setting our sights on reading and talking about Genesis 22-24 and Psalm 2 (a good one to get perspective during political seasons).

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

Thank you for Zooming for the conference on Thursday. While it was not always optimal, we were able to hear each other well and still have a good meeting. Critical listening continues to be a skill to develop. Interestingly enough, many times listening means inferring and not actually hearing. Context helps so much as does reading. Technically, these silent sounds are called reductions, but we can call them confusing at times.



October 17: Continue to create (and share) word pages. Pick a word or phrase from this Update and make a word page. I am still looking for stories that tell "where you are from". Pick a tradition that you love or that makes your celebration complete. Watch this video from the Productivity Guy

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, Cornerstone Lutheran Church, Room 102

October 17: We are meeting in person! Join us. The doors are open and get ready for some three-dimensional learning.

American English for Kids: 5:30-6:00 PM DST, Zoom

Tennis rules this week. While we were on break I took a stroll to a waterfall in a quarry in Ohio. Limestone is so interesting. Limestone is sedimentary rock, and often contains fossils. Much of the Midwest was covered with sea water. Look closely at these slabs. There are sea fossils. What can you find?

   

October 18: Come and talk about the past two weeks. We got a lot of living done!

Words and Phrases

bag limits: the legal, allowable number, size and sex of animals, fish, or fowl a hunter or angler can kill in a set time (day or season)

change our perspective: look at something from a new view in totality and from another mindset

Hobby Lobby: a popular craft store

I see some...in our (your) future: a prediction of something that is going to happen (because it will be engineered to go that way)

naked eye: seeing things without assistance like, glasses, binoculars, loupes, telescopes, filters

network: meet with other people, make connections

niche: a particular field or classification

off the table: not part of the discussion or consideration

rules: takes priority over other things

setting our sights on: a stated goal

shots: photos

stunning: impressively attractive

tag: physical document attached to the animal after the kill detailing hunter identity information, date, time, etc.

three-dimensional

throw us a curve ball: surprise the is unexpected and unpleasant to deal with

violations: breaking morale or legal codes


Friday, October 4, 2024

October at International Friends

Hello Friends,

October is a busy month for Americans and Hoosiers. Homecoming dances and games are scheduled this month. High School and college students celebrate as well as alumni. The current slang for homecoming is hoco (hoe coe).

Spooky Halloween decorations are sprouting up in yards. Spectacular spooky decorations are sprouting up all over. Creative and quirky displays with ghosts and skeletons are funny as well as haunting.

Pumkin spice is the taste to enjoy from donuts to coffee to cocktails and desserts. Pumpkin spice is a combination of cinnamon, allspice, cloves, and ginger. This is the spice of pumpkin pies and does not contain pumpkin.



International Friends at the Glimpses: Best Practices Conference

October 9-11 International Friends American English and Culture meeting Friends are attending Glimpses: Best Practices in the Heartland. Friends can attend and be ambassadors 

  • Hosting an informational table 
  • Zooming our American English and Culture class for an on site to demonstration
  • Presenting an informational breakout session

Friends can participate by signing up to host our informational table [Oct 9 4:30 pm, Oct 10 10:45 AM and/or 3:15 PM, Oct 11 9:45 AM and/or 11:55 AM]. Check your email.  Zoom the class as usual, attend the breakout session led by Carolyn to help others learn about International Friends and how we can help in other Midwestern communities. Register here.

Attend any of the breakout sessions as well as socialize with others at the conference.

American English and Culture

In the United States titles are used to show respect. 

  • Mr. (Mister)=a man
  • Mrs. (Missus)=a married woman
  • Miss=an unmarried woman
  • Ms (Miz)=a woman

These are commonly used with last names. Very young children may be encouraged to call teachers Miss (first name) instead of the more formal last name in daycare or preschool (a Southern practice).

When you don't know the gender or marital status of a professional (or maybe even the name) and are writing an email or speaking directly to, you can defer to the title. The title is almost always used with the surname with the exception of talking to clergy (Pastor, Reverend, Father, Sister, Mother):

  • Principal
  • Professor
  • Doctor (either medical or academic, this is
  • Congressman
  • Mayor
  • Director
  • President (of a company or a country)

Adults do not address their teachers as "teacher" when speaking directly to them,. Instead use the requested . Children may (Teacher, can I go to the bathroom.). We do not use a title of "Teacher" with a surname, but use Mr., Mrs., Miss, or Ms. (MS stands for the state of Mississippi).

Sir or ma'am are other respectful ways to address people around you when you do not know their name. This is common in the South.  For example, "Excuse me, ma'am, you dropped your keys."

Classes and Meetings

International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

We read two difficult chapters in Genesis. The story of Sodom and Gomorrah and how the cities are destroyed is a well-known story in Jewish, Christian, and Muslim religions. This story is difficult because although we were warned about the evil of the people in the cities, we were discomfited by the demands for Lot to turn over his male guests to the mob and shocked that Lot offered his daughters in lieu of the men. (This is on the heels of Abraham showing gracious hospitality to these same guests negotiating for the protection of the cities.) Why would Lot offer his daughters? Did he not love them? Got Questions offers answers and regarding Genesis 19:1-11 offers:

We may sit in judgment of the culture of that day, but protecting one’s guests required great sacrifice. Was Lot right to offer his own daughters in place of the men the Sodomites wanted? No. We can see in the story that the Lord’s messengers protected Lot and his daughters in spite of Lot’s lack of character and worldly viewpoint. Lot meant to appease the men of Sodom so that the hospitality of his house would not be damaged, but he makes the wrong choice in offering his own daughters, and God’s messengers overruled him.

The family is led by the hand and escape the destruction of the cities. Then, Lot's daughters get Lot drunk and get pregnant by him. For us, this is a horrible outcome of their saving. We continue to see that even though people behave willfully and make decisions that are harmful, God still provides for them.

October 7:  Genesis 20-22. We will open with Psalm 121

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

We explored what to expect at the Heartland conference. Friends talked about the value of talking to people we don't know in a welcoming community. 

We talked briefly about the Vice Presidential debate. The candidates were cordial and civilized. Read the transcript, watch a replay

October 10: Email a picture of your word brainstorm to be posted on the Notes and Handouts page. Do you have words on your list needing clarification?

American English for Kids: Friday, 5:30-6:00 PM, private Zoom

We talked about the Japanese "Middle Exams" which are given in the middle of the school year. These tests cover Social Studies, Math, Science, and English. In the United States, Middle School students take midterms and finals that are specific to the class and are developed by the teacher, rather than a standard, national exam. 

October 18: No class the 10th. When we get back be ready to talk about the results from Science and English exams. Be ready to talk about how the schools use the results of these exams.

Words and Phrases

clergy: formal leaders in an established religion

discomfited: made to feel uncomfortable or embarrassed

in lieu: instead, as a trade

last names: surname, family name

on the heels: immediately following

stands for: represents

turn...over: give something to be used for a different purpose

Monday, September 30, 2024

LOOK OUT! It's October.

Hello Friends,

October has some weird and wild dates that are observed and obscure (Check out this article from USA Today to add some fun and fest to the month). Plan to meet with us in-person for some fun:

October 31: Happy Halloween: Pumpkin Carving and Tailgate in the Cornerstone parking lot 9-11:00 AM

Weathering the Weather

Fall brings changing weather conditions. Indiana is land locked, but we still feel the effects of hurricanes, which is surprising since we are land locked. This past weekend we could smell the Gulf air while we picked up sticks, leaves and other debris from our yards. 

The rain didn't dampen the fun at Cornerstone's Oktoberfest or at the Carmel International Art's Festival. I hope that you got out and enjoyed the weekend.

Meanwhile, being prepared for bad weather is important. Makes sure you are prepared because fall brings quick changes. Here is a page in our Quick Start with advice.

Fall Book Sale at the Carmel Clay Main Library

Discover great bargains on used books (and more) during these special sale dates. Just $10 for a bag of books. Presented by the CCPL Foundation Friends.

Friday, October 4, 9am–5pm
Saturday, October 5, 9am–4pm
Main Library Community Room

Glimpses: Best Practices in the Heartland Conference

Free three day conference hosted at Cornerstone Lutheran Church October. Click here to register. Click on "Get the App" and then click the cover to see the events and break out sessions. The "context" of the conference is Lutheran Christian and will communicate with that language set and feeling. There are many topics that are relevant to all people, not just church workers and Christians.

International Friends is having a breakout session and hosting an informational table. We are also Zooming from the conference so other communities can learn more about what we do and see us in action. 

Register and participate (for American English and Culture grade points)

  • Improve your conversation skills and help communicate what we do: help host the information table.
  • Come to our breakout session and talk to interested people and contribute to the presentation.
  • Attend interesting breakout sessions and learn more about the American Christian culture.
  • Eat with other people and practice your conversation skills. Meals are

American English

Have you ever....

The question phrase, "Have you ever ...?" Trips people up (and not just people new to English). This 5 Minute English Lesson gives an explanations, exercises, and examples. Don't miss the common questions at the end.

Something that always causes confusion for listeners is the question is phrased as a negative: 

"You haven't been to the Mexican restaurant on Main Street, have you?"

Many people new to English answer "Yes." or "Yes, I haven't." The correct way to answer is to answer "No." or "No, I haven't." The simple question is "Have you ever..."

Meeting and Class Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM. Zoom

We started with Psalm 19. This beautiful song  

We then read and discussed Genesis 15-17. God seals the deal with Abram who is renamed Abraham following a practice that seems odd to us in this modern day, but was common in the early days. The article What was a blood covenant? explains verses 9-21 in chapter 15. The stories in these chapters were sometimes difficult to read because of the topic and content. We find that God does not play favorites, but cares for everyone in a way that is unique to their situation and to their special needs.

September 30: Psalm 121 and Genesis 18 and 19 the famous story of Sodom and Gomorrah

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9-11:00 AM, Zoom

Our conversation revolved around social events and about gaining vocabulary. Vocabulary is not limited to words, it also includes phrases. 

We talked about how adult brains love the comfortable paths and that information that is not regularly accessed will "grow over" and fill in as other information takes precedence. The more you "play" with information, the more

October 3:  Pick a word or phrase from your lists and set your mind free and follow the connections. Freely write, sketch, use colors…..

American English and Culture: Beginning October 17 Thursday, 7-8:00 PM, Cornerstone Lutheran Church, Room 102

In person meetings begin Thursday, October 17 in room 102. Enter door 6. Register today. If you have already registered for our classes. Join us if you have already registered for classes, but not this one.

October 17: First meeting. 

American English For Kids: Friday, 5:30-6:00 PM, Private Zoom Link

What do you love to do? Tennis is a sport enjoyed by many. Tennis has a special language of its very own. It also has its own counting system. Talking about how to play can be complicated. Diagrams and practical examples are necessary.

October 4: Come prepared to talk about the big school event for the week.

Words and Phrases

The Gulf: The Gulf of Mexico; sometimes we shorten a name of a common reference. Sometimes we add "the" as to refer to a specific thing or place the Meijer on Meridian. Sometimes we add "the" as an honorific: "We love the Goodwill for bargains."

land locked: surrounded by land (not sea)

play favorites: 

revolved around: discussion or topic covering multiple facets

seal the deal: an official act to confirm an agreement or sale of a major purchase. "We shook hands to seal the deal."