Best wishes to everyone for a happy and healthy 2025.
Are you making resolutions?
Are you enjoying memes of resolutions?
Here’s my favorite from Reader’s Digest
Best wishes to everyone for a happy and healthy 2025.
Are you making resolutions?
Are you enjoying memes of resolutions?
Here’s my favorite from Reader’s Digest
Peace and joy on this special day when Heaven and Earth rejoice and celebrate the birthday of Jesus.
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Happy Holidays, Friends!
What a beautiful day here in Indiana to end our classes for the year. Enjoy your holiday break and see you beginning the week of January 6th.
Safe travels if you are going places. Driving? Flying? What is your favorite mode of transportation? Regardless of your plans, be safe and celebrate the joy and peace and fellowship of the holiday season. Make new traditions. Make memories. Come back in January refreshed and ready.
And good news. December 21 is the darkest day of the year. It is the shortest amount of daylight and the longest amount of darkness. Beginning Saturday daylight time increases in the Northern hemisphere. Read more about the Winter Solstice in the Greenville News.
Indy's Child: a great resource for things to do with Children in Indiana
Indy Fuel Hockey: a fun outing for family and friends.
Hamilton County Holiday Pass: Collect memories. This is free and fun.
States, counties, townships, cities, towns. These all name the kinds of governmental divisions we have in Indiana. Many states have the same type of divisions, although townships are not common to all parts of the country. In Louisiana, there are parishes.
We had a wonderful listen followed by discussions that sent us to the Bible to read the individual verses that Handel chose to highlight. Renewal Journal is a resource for reading the text along with clickable YouTubes of Messiah performances.
Our reflections on the readings:
January 6: Let's return to Genesis 27 and pick up the story. You may want to go back a bit as a refresher.
January 9: Start the new year talking about resolutions and turning over a new leaf. In January we turn the page and start our new chapter: Let's tell our public story.
January 16: A retrospective. What did you begin in the past and where are you now.
January 23: Write and speak your resume.
January 30: Refining your story.
We had a great night of conversation and picky observation. Tiny adjustments in adding tiny words (to, from, the, a, etc.), pronunciation of similar sounding words (say, said, says, save), and not pronouncing particular letters or pronouncing them in unexpected ways (d, t) makes a big difference to other people's ears and understanding. You don't always have to change your accent and you may not change your pronunciation but knowing how you sound to common American English listeners (both native and immigrants) helps you to be understood and calms frustrations on both sides of the conversation.
January 9: Come to class. We will talk about what we did over break and work on our individual listening and speaking skills perhaps the wonderful technology that is available to us.
Our "I'm from...." poems are so interesting to listen to. Make sure you send me your copy.
We tried playing Monopoly. This first attempt had us winging! It worked out ok with as screen and an in person board.
January 10, 2025: Let's talk about your break and try to play Monopoly again. This time we will assign roles and responsibilities. Brush up on the rules.
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Happy Holidays, Friends! This first "half" of our school year is drawing to a close. This year we are concentrating on telling our stories. Personal stories drive our vocabulary. As you celebrate the holidays with your family and friends, think about how you can add these memories and experiences to your story. Safe travels! Send pictures!
We are looking forward to the shortest day of the year (the Winter Solstice) in the Northern Hemisphere on December 21. Read more in the Farmer's Almanac.
Christmas is a special time in the United States. While this holiday has roots in Christianity, there are many traditions revolve around coming home, family, and friends. Seasonal songs are an important part of the traditions and every artist and songwriter has a song about Christmas in their band's repertoire. Holiday shows cram all the favorites in an hour or so. These favorites are only played between Thanksgiving and Christmas day. Sing along with these favorites and brush up on pronunciation and enunciation.
Our names are very personal. As we introduced ourselves to new friends this Thursday, we talked about our names and the difficulties people have saying them across the board. This is because they are unfamiliar in sound, style and in form both linguistically and culturally. Our names often have easy and common sounds to our language (otherwise how could our parents call us or call us out) but these sounds and combinations can be uniquely combined, formed, and voiced. This is a great way to start to understand and learn the differences between a home language and a new language. On the other hand, you may not hear or be able to easily pronounce a friend's name (or your children's friend's names).
December 4: Celebrate the coming Messiah! We are listening to Handel's Messiah and reading along as our study.
We enjoyed each other's "I'm from..." poems. This is a great exercise in practicing how to "talk around" something because sometimes there just is not one word for something and a description is necessary. Some people simply look up and around and fill in the blanks with the first thing that comes to mind. Others are more thoughtful. In some scenarios, people are just given a list of prompts (without the connecting words and phrases). Then, after they plug in the words they get a surprise!
December 19: We meet on Zoom for our last meeting of the year. Will we sing? Will we dance? We will do a Mad Lib and craft holiday greetings.
Here's the list:
The weather outside was frightful, but the meeting was so delightful! Let It Snow! We had a small and mighty group show up to practice our American English. When a small group meets together, we tend to get into some deep discussions in the realm of politics. This week talked about immigration status (and did some work on grammar; particularly in the context of prepositions in this topic). We are experts about the immigration process in the United States (since we live the life) and as experts
December 19: Maybe we will work on singing and song writing. Maybe we will do our poetry. We will do the Christmas Mad Libs.
We talked about museums and memories. We worked on and read our "I'm from..." poems. Poetry is a good way to build vocabulary and to understand how to use words to explain what we mean when we do not have a particular or specific word or phrase to explain what we want to say.
December 20: Let's end the year by finishing reading our "I'm from..." poems and playing Monopoly.
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Happy Holidays, Friends!
The weeks are flying by. If you live in Indiana, you would have experienced blistering cold weather followed by a beautiful weekend of 50 degree weather. This weather is supposed to hold into Wednesday and then the temperatures will drop back down into the 20s. Why do we talk so much about the weather? Because it is never boring!
Our schedule is changing as people weigh in on their commitments and commitment.
The third week in December: Join us for our last meeting of the year: Zoom meetings will Zoom. In person will meet in person. Is business as usual? Let's see....
No classes or meetings December 21, 2024 through January 3, 2025 [to January 6, 2025]
Christmas a Christian religious holiday. Churches offer various services. Feel free to join and enjoy the services and events at churches. You are welcome!
Understanding pronunciation stress patterns can make you better understood. Here are some common patterns:
We met and listened to the first three pieces in the Messiah. Some of us had enjoyed this music for decades, while it was new to others. The complication of the words tangled in the music is both mysterious and enlightening. Luke 3:1-14
December 9: Celebrate the coming Messiah! We are listening to Handel's Messiah. This week continues in the prophecies in the Old Testament
We spent most of our time catching up from Thanksgiving and talking about cultural niceties in the United States.
December 12: Send your "I am from..." poem template (filled out). Email it to us. Do not feel tied to the prompts if they don't fit your story. If you aren't finished, expect to work on this in class!
Great work and discussion was had with the "I am from..." poems. You can find them published on our handouts page as well as the whiteboard work.
December 4: Visit and share your "I am from..." poem with others during our meeting time. We will also sing Christmas songs (in English). We will look at how music helps us tune and refine our English skills.
December 6: Let's talk about snow and winter and memories. What are your winter memories? Are your memories about weather, family, school?
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You never know what is going to happen. Even the best laid plans can become derailed. Some people see this as drama. Others see it as opportunity. What about you?
Halloween is in two weeks. Get out and see the decorations. October 31 American English and Culture
Language is more than speaking words. Body language is 60-65% of communication. This is why ordering over the phone, into a speaker, etc. can be confusing for both parties. Additionally, people can "feel" words or a conversation as a part if understanding.
And speaking of language, American culture personal space was a topic of discussion. Americans tend to like about an arm's length between themselves when talking. Depending on your culture, you might want to talk closer. Someone that is invading an American's personal space may be seen as pushy or as being aggressive.
Hamilton County Fun
International Friends Meeting Notes
November 11: Psalm 36 and Genesis 25-27.
October 24: Bring word pages and "where are you from
October 24: Bring your word pictures. Examples are on our Handouts page.
We had a new friend join us. It is fun to get to know someone new. Just because we are kids doesn't mean that we don't have a history or
December 13: Fill in the "I am from..." Have your mom (or dad or other family member) do it too.
December 20: We all love Monopoly! Get your board out and let's play together!
business as usual: nothing new or different happens
commitment: dedication to something
commitments: responsibilities to others
fill in/fill out: complete answers
into: expressing movement or direction until something or someone is surrounded (only partway)
hold: remain the same
let's see/wait and see: something will happen, but we don't know what
through [a date] or to [a date]: including this date; to this date means things start back up on the named date (to January 6, in this case)
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Happy Holidays, Friends!
December in Indiana is cold and warm and cold and snowing and sunny. Midwest weather is like that! December in the United States is super festive. Be sure to celebrate the season.
Christmas is not just for Christians (even though that is the origin). In the United States we celebrate Christmas as a secular holiday.
December 19: American English and Accent Meeting Christmas Parties!
No classes or meetings December 21, 2024 through January 3, 2025.
Being thankful is something we talk and do in November but practicing gratitude is good for you and people around you. Daily gratitude as a health-positive attitude from News at IU, Feb 18, 2020 offers insight. Gratitude involves two important components: intrapersonal (feeling grateful and having grateful thoughts) and interpersonal (expressing gratitude to others).
Here are some tips for cultivating gratitude:
Singing erases mispronunciations and accent causing people to have the general American accent (perfect broadcaster English or the Midwestern English or sound like me (Carolyn!)). How does this happen? Melody, beat, and rhythm of as song can cancel out and inform how words are pronounced. Singing words become the natural and the easiest pronunciations. This neutral is the core of the "American" accent. So, when you sing, your English is simple, easy, and effortless.
We think that when you sing, you are focusing on the sound rather than the words. Because of this and the social aspect of matching what you hear with the sound you make.
December 4: Celebrate the coming Messiah! We are listening to Handel's Messiah and reading along as our study.
December 4: Bring your "I am from..." poem template (filled out). Email it to us. Do not feel tied to the prompts if they don't fit your story.
December 4: Bring your "I am from..." poem template (filled out). Email it to us. Do not feel tied to the prompts if they don't fit you.
December 6: Let's talk about snow and winter and memories. What are your winter memories? Are your memories about weather, family, school?
We hope that you have delicious and fulfilling Thanksgiving!
This is a favorite time of year for so many people. Thanksgiving kicks off the winter holiday season.
Aside from feasting, here are some things to do over the break:
Things to do Thanksgiving Weekend in Hamilton County
Thanksgiving Activities: Things to do with your children that help them learn and grow and have fun with you.
32 Fun Things to Do on Thanksgiving—Besides Eat!
Just because we are on break, does not mean you get a break!
Be sure to complete the "I'm From" poem template on our Notes and Handouts page. You can use the suggested prompts or make the poem your own. There is a great example by Emma posted.
Keep your ears open for new words and phrases to surprise us!
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This has been and will be a very busy week at International Friends. We had not one, but two Thanksgiving dinners at CLC. It is so good to meet and to eat in person. Recipes are posted on our at the top of our main page. Text or call Carolyn if you have any questions. Just because the turkey seems big doesn't mean you and your family can't enjoy this treat. There are plenty turkey leftover dishes like casseroles) to make and enjoy.
Thanksgiving is a very important American cultural holiday. Thanksgiving Day is a day for people in the US to give thanks for what they have. Families and friends get together for a meal, which traditionally includes a roast turkey, stuffing, potatoes, vegetables, cranberry sauce, gravy, and pumpkin pie. In some cities and towns, there are parades during the Thanksgiving weekend.
Festivities also mark the opening of the Christmas shopping on Black Friday. If you shopping isn't finished, you can always check in online on Cyber Monday to pick up deals. Shop local means to patronize local small businesses with your shopping.
Language is more than speaking words. Body language is 60-65% of communication. This is why ordering over the phone, into a speaker, etc. can be confusing for both parties.
Additionally, people can "feel" words or a conversation as a part if understanding. Be careful, though. Cultural traditions can color perceptions.
Avoid translating. Dipping back into a familiar language is how our brains try to be efficient. This sometimes gets in the way of our being able to speak up. The other language saps our confidence.
And speaking of language, American culture personal space was a topic of discussion. Americans tend to like about an arm's length between themselves when talking. Depending on your culture, you might want to talk closer. Someone that is invading an American's personal space may be seen as pushy or as being aggressive. Take a look at this article Proxemics 101: Understanding Personal Space Across Cultures. Does this change how you approach people?
Hamilton County Fun: November Things to Do
November 11: Psalm 36 and Genesis 25-27.
November 21: Email your "Where I'm From" handout. Last chance for Thanksgiving questions!
October 24: Bring your Word Pictures. Examples are on our Handouts page. Last chance for Thanksgiving questions!
We recorded a few minutes of our meeting to see how we look and sound.
October 22: Two topics:
1. What did you think of your video recording? Do you see room for improvement?
2. Do you think it is important to be able to translate your home language into English and vice versa? Let's talk about your opinion and why.
approach: first talk to or interact with someone
arm's length: hold out your arm and wiggle your fingers-that far
color perceptions: influence what someone thinks
dipping: spending a little time
leftover: main dishes that are repurposed
parties: two people (or entities) that are involved in an agreement
patronize: go to and participate at
pushy: excessively or unpleasantly self-assertive or ambitious
room for improvement: hope that something will improve or get better
sap: take away the energy
speak up: say what we are thinking
tend: are usually
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Thanksgiving is an important holiday in the United States. Come and learn how to prepare Midwest traditional dishes. Learn about the history of Thanksgiving. And bring your favorite feasting dish/food to share. It can be from any country or holiday. Come and share you
Hallmark movies are a holiday seasonal favorite. These light romance movies have a formula plot. Check the Hallmark Channel or local stations to binge away the season.
Indiana has a migration fly way for sandhill cranes. These big and beautiful birds are on the move. Jasper Pulaski park is a favorite stopover. Click to see Sandhill crane counts and directions to Jasper Pulaski park to see thousands of cranes gather for the evening. Deer join them in the field and coyotes stop by to see if they can grab a quick meal.
November 11: Psalm 36 and Genesis 25-27. Indiana falls back. We are keeping our meeting time at 8:00 PM Eastern Standard Time.
Small groups work out great in our Zoom rooms. We can listen to each other and focus on what is being said. Telling, asking, and retelling are important ways to practice language learning. Key for adults learning a new language is relearning how to listen without expectations.
November 14: Meet at Cornerstone Lutheran Church to learn to cook traditional dishes: turkey, mashed potatoes and gravy, cranberries, and green bean casserole. Bring a dish to share! Bring friends and family!
We learned more about each other. Telling "where you are from" involves more than a location. It also may be an answer to an immediate question ("Where are you coming from?" could mean that someone wants to know your location for someone to give directions or it could mean that they want to understand your state of mind or your opinion.
November 14: Meet at Cornerstone Lutheran Church to learn to feast on traditional dishes: turkey, mashed potatoes and gravy, cranberries, and green bean casserole. Bring a dish to share! Bring friends and family!
Yow! Falling back fell off of Mrs.Willard's radar screen! She missed our meeting because of the time change. Never fear! She set alarms for our next meeting
November 15: Tell Mrs. Willard about your week. Talk about a time when you missed an appointment. What happened.
binge away: spend time doing the same thing over and over
fell off of the radar screen: lose track of time or something
formula: standard for doing something
Mrs. Willard: in the United States, teachers and other authorities are called Mr/Mrs/Miss/Ms and last or family name
never fear: don't worry
state of mind: a way someone thinks at a certain point of time; overall mental state; here are 120 Examples of States of Mind
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You never know what is going to happen. Even the best laid plans can become derailed. Some people see this as drama. Others see it as opportunity. What about you?
November has very important dates for us in the United States. We have civic events as well as celebrate Thanksgiving.
November 2: Daylight Savings Ends. Indiana "falls back". Set you clocks back an hour. Sleep in! If you Zoom with us from a different time zone, check the class times.
November 5: U.S. Election Day: Americans vote for the next U.S. president as well as local officials.
November 12: 6:30-8:30 PM Creekside Middle School. Practice your English and tell other families about International Friends.
November 14: International Friends Feast--Meet at CLC to learn how to make a traditional turkey and pitch in feast. Bring your friends, family, and your favorite feasting dish.
November 28: Thanksgiving Day-No classes or meetings November 27-December 1.
November 29: Black Friday kicks off the holiday shopping season. Look for great sales and door busters. Business accounting books used to record red ink as a loss and black ink as a profit in ledgers. Black Friday was the day businesses began making a profit (often thanks to holiday shopping).
Look at our Kid's Conversation to see what we are learning about some unusual singular and plural nouns. When it comes to treats, standard rules do not always apply. Can you think of other words like candy and fruit that are plural/singular? What is the grammar rationale or explanation?
November is a month of giving. People are anticipating holidays of thanks and holidays of giving. Christmas "giving trees" pop up in churches and schools. American culture is one of volunteerism and giving.
Christmas in October?! Not yet, but they are setting up Christkindlmarkt on Carter Green (and you can find decorations and supplies at Hobby Lobby, too).
Festive shopping at bazaars. Look for craft shows and holiday markets. These are great places to find treasures for your friends and family. Here is a link to Holiday Markets in Indiana. Maybe there is a field trip in your future.
Two of us were gathered. We caught up with each other and with the beginning of Genesis 25. Again, the genealogy was insightful to this small group. We appreciated the importance of family and roots. We appreciated that Isaac and Ishmael met together to bury Abraham (indicating a familiar and familial relationship) (25:9).
November 4: Meeting is cancelled.
November 11: Psalm 36 and Genesis 25-27. Indiana falls back. We are keeping our meeting time at 8:00 PM Eastern Standard Time.
Due to downpours, we met inside to "tailgate". Only one pumpkin showed up to be carved, so that didn't happen. We had great conversations about weather and food and had a great steering committee
November 7: Meet on Zoom. Click here to see a "Where are you from?" worksheet.
I hope you had a happy Halloween and worked on your word lists.
November 7: Let's talk about Halloween as well as other celebrations you might have in your home. Bring your "home" word lists. It doesn't matter what language they are in. We will compare them! We will continue the "where are you from" discussion.
Fruit/fruits and candy/candies: these words came up in our conversation. These can be misused and often are. Candy and fruit can mean one or a whole bunch (uncountable amount, like in your Trick or Treat bags). We have candy dishes and fruit bowls (How many are in there? What are the types? No one cares!) But, if you are counting, that is a different story.
Use candy (or fruit) generally. Use candy (or fruit) with much or little (How much candy did you get?) You might say candies (or fruits) when specifically talking about a number of or different types of candy (oops!)
Trunk or treat has become a world-wide answer to Trick or Treating. Our friends told us that this was how they celebrated in their American school.
Piasa birds (see this within five hours of Indy) and Windigos. These creatures are native American/American Indian folklore creatures. Windigos have become popular in American culture lately. Have you anything like this in your culture?
November 8: We "fell back" for our Friends, the time didn't change but notice that our time on Zoom is an hour earlier.
Happy Halloween, Friends!
Halloween is an important American holiday. Kids dress up in costumes and go door to door saying, "Trick or treat!" People give the children one piece of candy or some small gift. Communities post Trick or Treat times in advance, and you can find that information via local news. Central Indiana Trick or Treat times. Some neighborhoods have parties and bar b cues in lieu of door to door begging. Trunk or Treat parties are hosted by churches and communities where people sponsor a spot in a parking lot and decorate their car for Trick or Treaters.
Be safe! If you are driving, take extra care since children may not be watching as closely as they should. Look over the loot in your kids' bags to make sure all the candies and treats are age appropriate, wrapped, and safe to eat. Local
We are on the final countdown for the elections. Campaigns and ads swamp the airwaves. Pundits and polls predict outcomes. There is more to these elections than the president (although that is a headliner!). Learn more in this .gov Overview of the Presidential Election Process. Wikipedia offers a broader perspective of U.S. elections in a nutshell.
There are many places to preview ballots to see candidates and issues. Ballotpedia is a great source for ballots and issues. States have their own informational .gov sites. Here is the one for Indiana. Be an informed voter by doing your homework. If you can't vote, be an informed community member and do your homework to understand the local and national issues and the players and their positions and the party platforms beyond their personality.
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Our study group was small, but "where ever two or more are gathered..." We decided to limit our discussion until the others could join us because insight from each other is valuable. Of course we couldn't resist talking about Genesis 25: 1-11 and then 12-18. These lineages and storylines tell more about Abraham and while his "character" was not monogamistic. He was generous in his giving to all his sons while he was living and then after he died, Isaac was his heir. He sent the sons of the concubines away from Isaac which ensured that they would not be jealous of him or fall under his rule. Verses 12-18 follow the line of Ishmael. These people ended up being hostile with all the tribes related to them (18). Thinking about "Where are you from?"
Psalm 100 is a short song and tells the goodness of God. The final verse (5) is famous for showing God's love that spills over from generation to generation. This was an apt reading as we wrap up the story of Abraham. God was with Abraham and Abraham loved his time with God.
In the church short hymns of praise are called doxologies.
We had a lively discussion about being bored and being boring. I hope you are rarely bored in our meetings, but you can be sure you are never boring! Notes and Handouts has some additional worksheets to help you with polishing -ed verses -ing endings.
We had a great discussion about traffic jams and then wrote a "round robin" story. Traffic jams have a lot of very interesting words and phrases to describe the situation. I hope your roads are clear and you have smooth sailing! Check Notes and Handouts to see our boards. Be working on telling where you are from stories.
October 31: No Meeting! Happy Halloween
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You never know what is going to happen. Even the best laid plans can become derailed. Some people see this as drama. Others see it as opportunity. What about you?
Halloween is in two weeks. Get out and see the decorations. October 31 American English and Culture will meet in the parking lot at CLC for a tailgate and pumpkin carving 9:00-11:00. Bring a nice big pumpkin to carve to welcome Trick or Treaters!
We are not meeting in the evening. It is prime time to spend with family and friends celebrating the holiday and handing out candy.
People newer to American English tend to have trouble using the -ing ending. Here is part of Espresso English summary of -ing
Use the -ING form of verbs in continuous tenses
Present continuous:
Present perfect continuous:
Past continuous:
Future continuous:
Use the -ING form after prepositions
Exception: Never use the -ING form after “to”:
Use the -ING form after these verbs in English
Start, like, and love can be used with the infinitive or -ing. Both are correct!
What happens when you are suddenly sick and can't get in to see your regular doctor? You can visit an Urgent Care and have assessments done as well get prescriptions to take care of the problem. Ear infections, fevers, flu and cold symptoms, strep throat, urinary tract infections, minor wounds, etc.
When the problem is more serious, or it is late at night and nothing else is open, go to the Emergency Room at the hospital. The Emergency Room is for heart attacks, broken bones (after regular hours), strokes, car accidents, etc.
Christmas in October?! Not yet, but they are setting up Christkindlmarkt on Carter Green (and you can find decorations and supplies at Hobby Lobby, too).
Psalm 2 is a song reminding us that God is in control and any people with authority (world or otherwise) who conspire (or some versions say rage) against God and people or nations that follow God's lead. Verse four tells us that God laughs at the plotting of people against him and leaders/nations that follow his lead. When the world seems to be chaotic and in turmoil
Genesis 22-24 This week's readings were comforting and beautiful examples of relationships. Abraham and his son Isaac are the main characters.
October 21: Psalm 100 and Genesis 25-27
We had great discussions about living in the United States and how professional benchmarks and requirements are different than our home countries. For those who have navigated finding jobs on temporary visas, the differences reflect the American law and customs. These may be curious, but the culture and the local systems as well as national benchmarks are important to understand and follow.
October 24: Bring word pages and "where are you from stories" about your career or job growth. Telling and talking about your experience (or the experience of someone close to you) is important in communicating in American English. Remember, more is better.
It was so nice to get together in person! Here are our board notes. Can you tell what we were focussing on?
October 24: Bring your "home" word lists. It doesn't matter what language they are in. We will compare them! We will continue the "where are you from" discussion.
Hello Friends,
We had an exciting week at International Friends and at the Best Practices in the Heartland Conference. We learned about how to use AI and that it isn't perfect: so, look out! I see some AI work in our future. We networked and found new niches to serve.
Thank you to everyone for reaching out to the Midwest church community with what we do so we can help other people. Thank you for manning our table and chatting with guests. Thank you for Zooming along so that others could see how we go about our lessons.
Hunting and fishing are popular sports in the United States. We have laws as well as cultural practices for hunting and catching “wild” animals, birds, and fish that depend on time of year and place. Domestic animals are off the table.
We have hunting and fishing seasons and people need to hold licenses and purchase tags in order to participate in these sports. The Indiana Department of Natural Resources or DNR is the place to go see what animals are in season as well as regulations. Violations include fishing or hunting without a license, bag limits, etc. There are animals that are non-game, meaning they cannot be hunted or bagged. Hunting and killing "game" that is not legal or does not belong to you is poaching.
We had a spectacular light show from the Aurora Borealis Thursday night. While the Northern Lights were vague to the naked eye. The filters on cell phone cameras were able to offer a great view to share stunning shots.
We started with Psalm 121 (finally, because we have been carrying this one over for a while!). It is the Song of Ascents. A good way to start and end a day of challenges and set your sights in the right direction.
Genesis 20-21 continued to throw us a curve ball. We hope to see Abraham and his family progress and change, but they remain the same. We continued to do the same: we weigh our years of life and experiences against his over 100 years on earth walking with God as his best friend and guide. We are disappointed in him...this time we heard more of his story and his explanations. Can that change our perspective? Genesis 21 tells of the negotiations between Abraham and Abimelek. God intervenes to make the imperfect work for both sides. There are good lessons here.
October 14: We are setting our sights on reading and talking about Genesis 22-24 and Psalm 2 (a good one to get perspective during political seasons).
October 17: Continue to create (and share) word pages. Pick a word or phrase from this Update and make a word page. I am still looking for stories that tell "where you are from". Pick a tradition that you love or that makes your celebration complete. Watch this video from the Productivity Guy
Tennis rules this week. While we were on break I took a stroll to a waterfall in a quarry in Ohio. Limestone is so interesting. Limestone is sedimentary rock, and often contains fossils. Much of the Midwest was covered with sea water. Look closely at these slabs. There are sea fossils. What can you find?
bag limits: the legal, allowable number, size and sex of animals, fish, or fowl a hunter or angler can kill in a set time (day or season)
change our perspective: look at something from a new view in totality and from another mindset
Hobby Lobby: a popular craft store
I see some...in our (your) future: a prediction of something that is going to happen (because it will be engineered to go that way)
naked eye: seeing things without assistance like, glasses, binoculars, loupes, telescopes, filters
network: meet with other people, make connections
niche: a particular field or classification
off the table: not part of the discussion or consideration
rules: takes priority over other things
setting our sights on: a stated goal
shots: photos
stunning: impressively attractive
tag: physical document attached to the animal after the kill detailing hunter identity information, date, time, etc.
throw us a curve ball: surprise the is unexpected and unpleasant to deal with
violations: breaking morale or legal codes
Hello Friends,
October is a busy month for Americans and Hoosiers. Homecoming dances and games are scheduled this month. High School and college students celebrate as well as alumni. The current slang for homecoming is hoco (hoe coe).
Spooky Halloween decorations are sprouting up in yards. Spectacular spooky decorations are sprouting up all over. Creative and quirky displays with ghosts and skeletons are funny as well as haunting.
Pumkin spice is the taste to enjoy from donuts to coffee to cocktails and desserts. Pumpkin spice is a combination of cinnamon, allspice, cloves, and ginger. This is the spice of pumpkin pies and does not contain pumpkin.
October 9-11 International Friends American English and Culture meeting Friends are attending Glimpses: Best Practices in the Heartland. Friends can attend and be ambassadors
Friends can participate by signing up to host our informational table [Oct 9 4:30 pm, Oct 10 10:45 AM and/or 3:15 PM, Oct 11 9:45 AM and/or 11:55 AM]. Check your email. Zoom the class as usual, attend the breakout session led by Carolyn to help others learn about International Friends and how we can help in other Midwestern communities. Register here.
Attend any of the breakout sessions as well as socialize with others at the conference.
In the United States titles are used to show respect.
These are commonly used with last names. Very young children may be encouraged to call teachers Miss (first name) instead of the more formal last name in daycare or preschool (a Southern practice).
When you don't know the gender or marital status of a professional (or maybe even the name) and are writing an email or speaking directly to, you can defer to the title. The title is almost always used with the surname with the exception of talking to clergy (Pastor, Reverend, Father, Sister, Mother):
Adults do not address their teachers as "teacher" when speaking directly to them,. Instead use the requested . Children may (Teacher, can I go to the bathroom.). We do not use a title of "Teacher" with a surname, but use Mr., Mrs., Miss, or Ms. (MS stands for the state of Mississippi).
Sir or ma'am are other respectful ways to address people around you when you do not know their name. This is common in the South. For example, "Excuse me, ma'am, you dropped your keys."
We read two difficult chapters in Genesis. The story of Sodom and Gomorrah and how the cities are destroyed is a well-known story in Jewish, Christian, and Muslim religions. This story is difficult because although we were warned about the evil of the people in the cities, we were discomfited by the demands for Lot to turn over his male guests to the mob and shocked that Lot offered his daughters in lieu of the men. (This is on the heels of Abraham showing gracious hospitality to these same guests negotiating for the protection of the cities.) Why would Lot offer his daughters? Did he not love them? Got Questions offers answers and regarding Genesis 19:1-11 offers:
We may sit in judgment of the culture of that day, but protecting one’s guests required great sacrifice. Was Lot right to offer his own daughters in place of the men the Sodomites wanted? No. We can see in the story that the Lord’s messengers protected Lot and his daughters in spite of Lot’s lack of character and worldly viewpoint. Lot meant to appease the men of Sodom so that the hospitality of his house would not be damaged, but he makes the wrong choice in offering his own daughters, and God’s messengers overruled him.
The family is led by the hand and escape the destruction of the cities. Then, Lot's daughters get Lot drunk and get pregnant by him. For us, this is a horrible outcome of their saving. We continue to see that even though people behave willfully and make decisions that are harmful, God still provides for them.
October 7: Genesis 20-22. We will open with Psalm 121
We explored what to expect at the Heartland conference. Friends talked about the value of talking to people we don't know in a welcoming community.
We talked briefly about the Vice Presidential debate. The candidates were cordial and civilized. Read the transcript, watch a replay.
October 10: Email a picture of your word brainstorm to be posted on the Notes and Handouts page. Do you have words on your list needing clarification?
We talked about the Japanese "Middle Exams" which are given in the middle of the school year. These tests cover Social Studies, Math, Science, and English. In the United States, Middle School students take midterms and finals that are specific to the class and are developed by the teacher, rather than a standard, national exam.
October 18: No class the 10th. When we get back be ready to talk about the results from Science and English exams. Be ready to talk about how the schools use the results of these exams.
clergy: formal leaders in an established religion
discomfited: made to feel uncomfortable or embarrassed
in lieu: instead, as a trade
last names: surname, family name
on the heels: immediately following
stands for: represents
turn...over: give something to be used for a different purpose
Hello Friends,
October has some weird and wild dates that are observed and obscure (Check out this article from USA Today to add some fun and fest to the month). Plan to meet with us in-person for some fun:
October 31: Happy Halloween: Pumpkin Carving and Tailgate in the Cornerstone parking lot 9-11:00 AM
Fall brings changing weather conditions. Indiana is land locked, but we still feel the effects of hurricanes, which is surprising since we are land locked. This past weekend we could smell the Gulf air while we picked up sticks, leaves and other debris from our yards.
The rain didn't dampen the fun at Cornerstone's Oktoberfest or at the Carmel International Art's Festival. I hope that you got out and enjoyed the weekend.
Meanwhile, being prepared for bad weather is important. Makes sure you are prepared because fall brings quick changes. Here is a page in our Quick Start with advice.
Discover great bargains on used books (and more) during these special sale dates. Just $10 for a bag of books. Presented by the CCPL Foundation Friends.
Friday, October 4, 9am–5pm
Saturday, October 5, 9am–4pm
Main Library Community Room
Free three day conference hosted at Cornerstone Lutheran Church October. Click here to register. Click on "Get the App" and then click the cover to see the events and break out sessions. The "context" of the conference is Lutheran Christian and will communicate with that language set and feeling. There are many topics that are relevant to all people, not just church workers and Christians.
International Friends is having a breakout session and hosting an informational table. We are also Zooming from the conference so other communities can learn more about what we do and see us in action.
Register and participate (for American English and Culture grade points)
The question phrase, "Have you ever ...?" Trips people up (and not just people new to English). This 5 Minute English Lesson gives an explanations, exercises, and examples. Don't miss the common questions at the end.
Something that always causes confusion for listeners is the question is phrased as a negative:
"You haven't been to the Mexican restaurant on Main Street, have you?"
Many people new to English answer "Yes." or "Yes, I haven't." The correct way to answer is to answer "No." or "No, I haven't." The simple question is "Have you ever..."
Register and join us in our classes!
We started with Psalm 19. This beautiful song
We then read and discussed Genesis 15-17. God seals the deal with Abram who is renamed Abraham following a practice that seems odd to us in this modern day, but was common in the early days. The article What was a blood covenant? explains verses 9-21 in chapter 15. The stories in these chapters were sometimes difficult to read because of the topic and content. We find that God does not play favorites, but cares for everyone in a way that is unique to their situation and to their special needs.
September 30: Psalm 121 and Genesis 18 and 19 the famous story of Sodom and Gomorrah
Our conversation revolved around social events and about gaining vocabulary. Vocabulary is not limited to words, it also includes phrases.
We talked about how adult brains love the comfortable paths and that information that is not regularly accessed will "grow over" and fill in as other information takes precedence. The more you "play" with information, the more
October 3: Pick a word or phrase from your lists and set your mind free and follow the connections. Freely write, sketch, use colors…..
In person meetings begin Thursday, October 17 in room 102. Enter door 6. Register today. If you have already registered for our classes. Join us if you have already registered for classes, but not this one.
The Gulf: The Gulf of Mexico; sometimes we shorten a name of a common reference. Sometimes we add "the" as to refer to a specific thing or place the Meijer on Meridian. Sometimes we add "the" as an honorific: "We love the Goodwill for bargains."
land locked: surrounded by land (not sea)
play favorites:
revolved around: discussion or topic covering multiple facets
seal the deal: an official act to confirm an agreement or sale of a major purchase. "We shook hands to seal the deal."