Friday, January 23, 2026

Look Out For Ice!

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Hello Friends.

Have you seen the weather forecast for this weekend? There is a giant swath of pink, blue, and magenta on the United States map. Click and go to the National Weather Service (NWS) map and then you can click on the most current predictions for a particular state and county. We are lucky to only get snow here in the Midwest. This is nothing too unusual for us. But the South will see sleet and freezing rain resulting in ice and record levels of snow. These areas do not usually get this type of weather, so they do not have the equipment to move the snow and they are not at all used to driving in this weather. People may be stuck for days.  


Want to be a weather spotter? NWS dates and times to train and join others who enjoy geeking out on Mother Nature.

Winter Weather Preparation

If you have been watching the news, you may have seen empty store shelves and city and state officials leading initiatives to prepare streets and citizens for the upcoming storms. News outlets are touting great words like "massive" storm and travel "nightmare" and "suffering" with temperatures. 

Enjoy weather history: Calm down. Stay warm. Hunker down and sip tea, coffee, soup, hot chocolate (or any other warming beverage). Charge your electronics. Take your time. Top off your tank.

While snow can cause trouble moving around, ice can bring down powerlines and trees. Ice on your front steps are the unexpected risk!  Watch your step!

Travel could be very difficult.

  • If you must travel, keep an extra flashlight, food, and water in your vehicle in case of an emergency. 
  • The latest road conditions for the state you are calling from can be obtained by calling 5 1 1.

Here in Central Indiana the storm is predicted to last from 7:00 PM Saturday to 7:00 AM on Monday and have snow accumulation of four to eight inches with temperatures in the single digits. Wear layers and bundle up when you go outside. Cover exposed skin. 

Close to Home: Carmel is Winter Ready

Each community has systems in place for this events. Be sure to follow instructions from your local community. Here is the communication from the City of Carmel (our homebase) as an example:

Carmel Is Prepared for Changing Weather Issues

The City of Carmel works hard to provide timely and accurate information to its residents and visitors regarding severe weather and snow removal throughout the winter season.

The Carmel Street Department has a fleet of 90 salt trucks and plows ready to battle the elements and keep our city streets safe.

The general threshold to trigger a city-wide plow is three inches. Once the heavy snow stops, main thoroughfares and secondary streets will be cleared and safe for travel. An all-city plow will then begin, including all neighborhood streets. Residents are advised to stay off the roads during the heavy snowfall and then afterward, be patient and allow for plenty of travel space while the snowplows are clearing the main thoroughfares. Paths and trails will be cleared in the days that follow once roads are cleared.

The city’s public safety leaders regularly work with county officials to ensure emergency services continue to operate throughout anticipated severe weather. 

Updates related to street conditions and other storm-related matters will be posted on city social media pages. From the Carmel Weather Aware page.

Click on the picture for full screen.

Picture Books: Reading for More Than Content

Read Go Dog Go by P. D. Eastman. We spent almost 45 minutes on what is often a 5-15 minute read with a toddler or beginning reader. This book is a feast of learning color, prepositions, and understanding place. There is even a little romance for those of us who love a good serial rom com (pages 8, 26, 36, 62). Notice that we are watching the fun until you are asked to join when the  word "come" is introduced. There is plenty of drama to talk about and describe. These are classics for the whole family.

Enjoy more in this genre:

Dr. Seuss: Cat in the Hat; One Fish, Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish; Green Eggs and Ham; Hop on Pop; Fox in Socks; The Lorax; And to Think That I Saw in on Mulberry Street; How the Grinch Stole Christmas; The Sneetches; Oh, The Places You’ll Go

P. D. Eastman: Are You My Mother?; The Best Nest

Who or Whom?

Who and whom are always a conundrum for everyone. We had a nice discussion about which to use in our meeting, but what does AI have to say?

The difference between "who" and "whom" lies in their grammatical roles:

Who is used as a subject pronoun, referring to the person performing an action (e.g., "Who is coming to the party?"). 

Whom is used as an object pronoun, referring to the person affected by an action or following a preposition (e.g., "To whom should I address the letter?"). 

A simple rule to remember: if you can replace it with "he" or "she," use who; if you can replace it with "him" or "her," use whom. While "whom" is technically correct, it is less commonly used in casual conversation. 

Then check the work and sources: 

International Friends Meeting Notes

Practicing your American English is important. Join us! Click here to register and get the Zoom link.

International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

No one was available to study. It is good to be with family and out of town!

January 26: We will read beginning with Exodus 31.

American English Language and Culture: Thursday, 9:00AM- 11:00 AM, Zoom

We had a massively interesting class where we picked apart sentences and then identified and labeled what we were observing using grammar labels and rules. Our practical example was "Go Dog Go", and you can find a comprehensive list of all the wonderous content we discovered packed in these 64 pages [in, at, or on--which is it?] our Class Notes tab.

Take a look at our whiteboard in Class Notes for a graphic summary of our conversations. 

Explore diagramming sentences (by American grade level standards). K12 Reader offers worksheets and basic instructions to work through a graphic understanding of American English grammar by school grade level.



Or jump to the Quick Guide and go crazy making your own diagrams.

January 30: We are going to continue to lean in to reading and dissecting American Language and Culture. We have a snippet to read from Menopause Manifesto by Dr. Jen Gunter coming from one of our Friends.


American English for Kids: Thursday, 6:00-6:30 PM, private Zoom

We talked about standard ability tests. Ability is a great word. It can be

  • Capability: can someone or someone do a particular thing
  • Fitness: is someone or something prepared to do a particular thing 
  • Status: whether someone has the right or means to do or have something

A test is a measure. There may or may not be judgement in a test. Tests are used to gather data.

We started on Go, Dog. Go! We noticed the punctuation that the author uses to make his point. American English writing relies on punctuation to direct the intention of the story. That being said, be sure not to overuse exclamation points...Nothing is that exciting!

January 23: We will pick Go, Dog. Go! back up with page 24. Forget everything in the previous writing: spoiler!

Words and Phrases and Resources

comprehensive: complete
genre: a specific type
go crazy: to do something too much, in a way that is not usual or sensible, especially because you are excited (Longman Dictionary of Contemporary English On Line--another fun resource for logophiles)
initiatives: take steps, put plans into action
on Mother Nature: about or regarding our physical world
serial rom com: a humorous (funny) love-themed story that occurs in intervals (either in time or publication)
swath: a broad strip or area of something
single digits: numbers less than 10 (these numbers should be written out in formal writing, double digits and above are written as numbers)
that being said: a popular transition statement, so
top off your tank: make sure your car is fully fueled
touting: selling aggressively or using an aggressive or bold manner

Friday, January 16, 2026

Bundle Up, Chowing Down

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Hello Friends.

What do you like to do in the winter? January is notorious for people resolving to make healthy changes in their lives. Some people give up drinking alcohol for the month. Others are determined to exercise more or loose unwanted pounds. Some like to curl up and catch up with reading. The new year gives us hope and ambition to do more.

Festival of Ice This Weekend!

It's going to be a cold weekend in Carmel!  Add those extra layers and visit the Carmel Arts & Design District and Carter Green and catch some of the most talented ice carvers in the country, joining us again for the annual Festival of Ice.

The 2026 Festival of Ice weekend begins today in the District, with carvers creating incredible ice masterpieces from 4 – 8 p.m. 

On Saturday, Jan. 17 catch the ice carving  at Carter Green from 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. Watch sculpting professionals create unique ice masterpieces and participate in the People’s Choice sculpture voting from 10 a.m. – 4 p.m.

If you are looking to add some adventure and you are local, Devour Indy Winterfest is on! Venture out and try some new dishes.

Dine in Delaware County? Destination Munchie (a play on the name of  Muncie, IN). Delaware County’s first restaurant rally. This two-week event (January 18-31) celebrates the county’s dining scene. Each of the 20 participating restaurants will offer a special, limited-time three-course menu. Explore the full list of participating restaurants using our mobile passport! 

Making America Healthy

Make America Healthy Again or MAHA is a slogan that emerged in the last year. The anticipated Dietary Guidelines for Americans was published this week. The headline is "eat real food." Scientific Foundation For The Dietary Guidelines For Americans explains reasons for the changes.  As early as 1894 the U.S.D.A made dietary recommendations. 

You can browse through historical documents at the USDA Historical Dietary Guidance site and see what was trending.

Adapting to What is Available

Finding food products and produce that are familiar may be difficult. Many markets carry international foods these days. There may be international markets locally or within the area. Many people crave their home-style cooking.  But, in the melting pot of America, everyone enjoys each other's dishes. People are less afraid to try food that is culturally unusual. This article from Men In Aprons gives the top 10 cuisines. This is not a new phenomenon in the United States. Beautiful and new fusion dishes and tastes are developed using what is available. 

International Friends Meeting Notes

Practicing your American English is important. Join us! Click here to register and get the Zoom link.

International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

We are back on track in Exodus. This past week we covered two chapters (Exodus 28-29). Exodus 28 describes the attire of the priests as and the actions to make the priests holy. Exodus 29 covers the practices to consecrate the priests. Exodus 30  describes the alter and described elements.  We enjoyed our discussion about the precision and details in these chapters. Atonement Money gave us food for thought: everyone paid the same amount regardless of their status or wealth to maintain the tent (11-16). The anointing oils and incense aromas that were to be concocted only for sacred use in the temple (22-38). What do these detailed chapters tell us about God?

January 19: We continue to read beginning with Exodus 31.

American English Language and Culture: Thursday, 9:00AM- 11:00 AM, Zoom

Welcome back everyone! In our warmup, sharing memories of our pets allowed us to practice
past tense and present perfect tense. 

Past tense:

  • I got a dog for my sixth birthday.
  • She had a turtle when she was younger.
  • He won a goldfish at the county fair.
Present perfect tense:
  • I have had my two cats for sixteen years.
  • She has never had any pets.
  • They’ve always had huskies as their pets.
Be aware that "lost" can have multiple meanings. Listen to the context and sensitively ask
questions to be sure you understand. You may notice a “Lost dog/cat“ sign posted near the road
with information about an animal that is missing. However, lost may also mean that a pet has
“died or passed away.” In some cases, a very sick pet may be “euthanized or put down” to
prevent suffering. In any case, expressing sympathy is appropriate.

A fun show-and-tell game with kitchen utensils taught us new vocabulary and helped us practice
the sentence pattern that names an object and describes how we use it:

  • I use these tongs to toss the salad. OR I use these tongs for tossing the salad.
  • They use these corn picks to serve corn on the cob at their barbecues.
  • My grandmother used this nutcracker to crack walnuts to put in her banana bread.
Health is a popular topic at this time of year. Discussing health and medical care, we practiced
pronouncing some common ailments (respiratory virus, indigestion, acid reflux). Reading an
article aloud about IU Health facilities allowed us to read and listen critically (here is a page from IU Health that summarizes how to choose where to go for healthcare). When you read,
think about the author's audience and purpose. Is the text intended to define, describe, educate,
entertain, explain, inform, argue, persuade, advertise, offer solutions? Look for words you know
(and don't know) in context. Is there unique or specialized vocabulary? Are there slang or pop
culture terms that are new to you? 

Reading aloud in a group helps you be more aware of pronunciation challenges and the rhythm of English. We welcome you to contribute text samples of any kind for future read-alongs.

Other vocabulary we introduced and picked apart:
  • ruckus
  • rowdy
  • simile/metaphor
  • dramatic play

Check out some supplemental notes in our Class Notes tab.

January 22: We will read the children's book Go, Dog Go! by P.D. Eastman. Look for
a copy at the library or here is a link to a YouTube read by Nana Pam.

American English for Kids: Thursday, 6:00-6:30 PM, private Zoom

We played with Elevator Pitches: an introduction and ask when meeting someone new. We also talked about reading Go Dog Go for next week. This simple book is silly and great for brushing up on grammar and positional prepositions.

January 23: Did you make a kakizome and put it into writing?

Words and Phrases and Resources

anticipated: look forward to something
aromas: scents, smells
brushing up on: reviewing
concocted: to prepare something using raw materials
emerged: became prominent 
fusion: joining two or more things to become a single entity
picked apart: teased, examine
play on: use a word or saying and make a playful (or mocking) joke 
trending: popular and widely discussed

Saturday, January 10, 2026

Welcome 2026

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Hello Friends.

2026 is already shaping up to be an interesting year! Aside from the headlines, the weather has been super nice here in the Midwest. What are the headlines in your life, so far? Travel and back to school are common to all of us. The weather is our favorite headline here in the Midwest (we expect cold and get warm or it is cold and we like it or ...). 

Welcome winter. Welcome all the new adventures and interesting opportunities that this new year provides to us!

Get Out There

Hamilton County Things to Do in January

Camping and camps are an important part of life in the United States. Kids 

Cornerstone Lutheran Church in Fishers is hosting a camp in for dads and kids up to fourth grade January 30-31. Sign up for the fun and get know other families in our communities!


There are day camps and sleep over camps. Day camps are just that. Kids meet for programs during the day and sleep at home. Drop you kids for the allotted time and they stay 

It isn't too soon to be looking for summer camps for the kids. Here is the guide for the Carmel Clay Parks, but every community has summer camps. 

Carmel Clay Parks and Recreation Camp Guide 

My Kid's Camp: Type in your zip code (or you could even type in the zip code of an area where you will be vacationing to find a camps for your children to enjoy). 

If you are looking for something to help you get through the winter months or through the days and weeks before you can take another vacation, think about taking a day trip.

Indianapolis Kids Out and About has a nice list of family day trips, but never fear! You can enjoy any or all of these destinations without kids.

What the H?

The pronunciation of letter "h" can be inconsistent in American English. In the following words, the "h" is not pronounced.

  • hour (OW er)
  • honest (AH nest)
  • herb (erb)
  • honor (AH ner)
  • heir (air)

In most other words, say the "h".

  • hormones
  • horrible
  • humble
  • Haiti (HAY de or HAY tee)

International Friends Meeting Notes

Practicing your American English is important.

Join us! Click here to register.

International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

We are back on track in Exodus. This past week we covered two chapters (Exodus 28-29). Exodus 28 describes the attire of the priests. This YouTube narrates Exodus 28 showing the creation of garments using modern tools. This version is using the King James text (we typically use the New International Version). Exodus 29 describes how the priests were to be consecrated for service to God and to the Israelites. The consecration included specific sacrifices as well as actions.

In our current society and time, pastors and priests do not always wear specific garments. Depending on the worship service, the pastor may be as casual as jeans and a shirt or as formal as robes. We talked about the implications of dress as well as customs.

December 1: We continue to read beginning with Exodus 30. The next short chapters continue 

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00AM- 11:00 AM, Zoom

It is difficult to get back into the swing of things after a couple of weeks off. And then there are new year's resolutions. 


January 17: Let's start with your resolutions since we are two weeks past the first of the year. Did you make any? Did you keep them? Here are some great phrases to brush up on for our opening dialogue:
  • broken or break
  • recoup
  • cop out
  • no excuse
  • resolve
  • drop out or drop off
  • fall off

American English for Kids: Thursday, 6:00-6:30 PM, private Zoom

Catching up is always a good thing. While not practicing English together for two weeks did not feel like a struggle (like when we break over the summer), we still had to think twice to describe what we wanted to talk about. Sharing how our families and countries celebrate the holidays is always interesting.

Jauary16:  Writing is an important part of any language. In Japan people write as a part of the new year. Read a little about kakizome in this Wikipedia article. There is ceremony in this 

Words and Phrases and Resources

allotted: assign or designate a portion of something
consecrated: being made sacred or dedicated to God's service
headlines: the phrase or title at the top of a page; in the news, it is the top stories
implications: conclusions that are made without direct statements
make and keep: resolve to do something and then support that resolve
read a little: learn a bit about something
so far: to a certain limited extent


Tuesday, December 23, 2025

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

 Hello, Friends.

One of our holiday* "Sorry. What Did You Say?" podcast episodes is up* on Spotify! Fedy and I talk about Christmas in the U.S. and in Italy. Look for more holiday conversations in the following days.

Sorry. What Did You Say? Ho. Ho. Ho. Merry Christmas!

Thank you for sharing, Fedy!



Observe and/or celebrate Christmas at Cornerstone Lutheran Church. (come and see!)

Christmas - Cornerstone Lutheran Church

There are four sites and many opportunities and music styles. You can even enjoy the services at home virtually! 


NOTES AND WORDS

*my grammar corrector tried to fix "is up" to "are up". And "holiday" to "holidays" These corrections are incorrect....

The simple sentence is: One is up.

The subject is ONE which means that all verbs and verb phrases are singular.

QUIZ: What is the subject of the sentence above? Is it singular or plural?


observe: celebrate OR watch carefully to learn more 


Saturday, December 20, 2025

Happy Holidays! See You Next Year!

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Happy Holidays, Friends.

We are taking a break. See you next year!  Classes and meetings restart the week of January 5, 2026. Look for Sorry. What Did You Say? episodes on the holidays. We hope you have a fun holiday and come refreshed!

Seasonal Flu and Cold: Find the Right Care for Your Needs

This mailing from IU Health offers a rundown on the different ways to obtain care. This type of care structure is common from any medical provider system. You have options to choose from when you are sick and need medical care.

On-Demand Virtual Visits (also called Telehealth in some healthcare systems)

Our [IU Health] virtual visits are perfect for quick diagnoses and treatment plans when you need care immediately and don't want to leave home.

    • Available 7-days a week from the comfort of your own home.
    • Connect with an IU Health Provider to get a diagnosis and treatment plan.
    • Available for anyone in the state of Indiana 2 years and older.

Urgent Care

If your condition is non-life-threatening but requires immediate attention—like a high fever, deep cough, or flu symptoms—visit an IU Health Urgent Care location.

    • Available 7 days a week for anyone over 3 months of age
    • Save a spot online or simply walk-in
    • Find an Urgent Care location near you.

Primary Care

Your trusted IU Health Primary Care physician is here to help you feel your best, year-round. 

Use Primary Care for planned visits, ongoing concerns, and preventative measures.

Emergency Care

When you have an emergency, you don’t have time to shop around for the best treatment. And that’s why trust is so important.

Our emergency departments offer the experience and skill to provide you with the best care when you need it. That way you have one less thing to worry about when you have a severe illness or injury.

Our Approach to Emergency Medicine Care : Our team of emergency medicine specialists are on hand to treat your injuries efficiently and effectively any time, night or day.

Communication Points

  • Notice the language of this piece:  It is written to educate the reader make informed decisions. 
  • Notice the use of the pronoun "our": it explains that these are the features from IU Health, but you are likely to find service sets across the board.
  • Notice that the name of the place where you should go may be different than you are used to, for example, in some country's emergency is what we call urgent.

Culture Notes: Christian Churches in the United States

The Christmas season brings many people to the church to celebrate the religious holiday. People (Christian and non-Christian) like to visit the church during this season to hear the Christian message of Jesus' birth. If you have not experienced a church service, this is a great time to come. These special services celebrate the hope and love that comes from the Creator God for all people in the gift of Jesus.

There are two aspects to "church" in the United States. There is the sacred or religious aspect that provides spiritual care including worship services, prayers, education and Bible study, social events, and spiritual life services.  Some churches sponsor preschools or daycare or elementary and/or high schools. All people are welcome to attend and participate (even if you are not Christian or regularly worship at that church). Be aware that communion (eucharist or sacred meal) is reserved for people who are baptized (are committed or dedicated in faith through a sacred washing). 

Churches in the United States may host other non-religious events or groups. These can include classes and meetings (like our English and culture classes) or sports gatherings (like pick up volleyball or basketball). They also may allow outside community groups or clubs to meet (like Boy or Girl Scouts, AA).

Be aware that churches are private property and not community buildings or rental property (although they may charge to rent the space). Churches may have restrictions that prevent other religions from offering religious-based education or events when they do not follow the doctrine of the particular denomination. They have the right and responsibility to reserve and restrict use to be specific to particular spiritual beliefs and practices.

English Notes: Problematic Prepositions

Prepositions are the tiny words that indicate place and time in the English language. They are often overlooked by non-native listeners because they are so short and are often "unvoiced" or "smashed" into the surrounding words by native speakers. Getting the hang of using them in casual conversation can be confusing when you do not understand the function of the word in a sentence. 

  • Click here to go to the Class Notes Pages and see the proposition lists. 
  • Categorize each word as to whether this preposition answers: Who, what, when, where, why, how. Some of these words can answer more than one of these questions depending on the context of the sentence.
  • Think of/write sentences to support your idea.

International Friends Meeting Notes

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International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

We read the last two chapters of Hebrews. We were thrilled with all the comparisons the author makes between historical sites and ideas.

January 5: We are returning to Exodus with chapter 28. 

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00AM- 11:00 AM, Zoom

We had a great impromptu staff meeting! We planned for a great program starting in January. We missd you! See you next year.
 
January 8:  Come back fresh with stories of your vacation adventures and be ready to do some work with telling your story and each other's stories.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:30 PM, CLC, Carmel, Room 102

We had a productive end of the year meeting. We explored a list of prepositions (one of the most misused classification of words in American English). Check the notes above to learn more about this approach.

January 8: Contact Carolyn to reserve a spot in the class. We are considering cancelling the in-person class for the rest of the year.

American English for Kids: Thursday, 5:00-5:30 PM, private Zoom

We had a great last meeting. We talked about zen meditation techniques 

January 9: Let's get together and catch up!

Words and Phrases and Resources

the church: a body of people that follow greater umbrella of the Christian religion
church: the building (I'm going to church for a Girl Scout meeting.) and/or attending a service (I'm going to church this Sunday.=I am going to worship 
denomination: a recognized branch of the Christian church
doctrine: identified teaching, philosophy, beliefs
fresh: full of energy; new or renewed
impromptu: unplanned 
medical provider system typically refers to a structured framework that manages healthcare operations and services. 
rundown: informational content

Friday, December 12, 2025

Traditions of the Season and Winter Safety

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Hello, Friends.

Look out for the snowfall on the weekend here in the Midwest. Snow. Blowing snow. Bitter cold. Windchills. Hang in there...by the mid to end of next week temperatures will spike back up into the 40s. Remember. In the United States we use Fahrenheit. Great news! It is still the autumn season! Winter officially begins Saturday, December 21 which is the solstice.

When temperatures drop, leave sink and bath water faucets dripping and cabinet doors open if the water pipes are in a wall so your pipes do not freeze. Leave your furnace on set at 62F if you leave town to protect your pipes and property. Pipes can burst and water can flood you home until you return.

Seasonal Food Traditions

The dessert, snack, meal of choice during the holiday season is cookies! Cakes are always welcome, but Christmas celebrations and lore include cookies. Nothing warms the day like a cookie. It is fun to get together and make memories with cookie making parties. A cookie walk is when friends bake a big batch of cookies. This is a popular community fundraiser where people bake and donate cookies and other treats. Choose one or two or a whole batch to create a custom cookie stash! The stars of the season:

  • Candy canes 
  • Gingerbread
  • Hot chocolate (with marshmallows)
Other treats included fruit and nuts. Children were given oranges or nuts.

Every family serves favorites for the holiday meals. Some might have a big roast: ham, turkey, rib roast. Other families prefer ethnic favorites like pasta dishes, rice dishes, curries. Some families cook fish dishes. Families mix it up!

People may leave town and visit family, or they may take a trip to a warm destination. There is so much to see and experience.

Shopping 

Shopping is an important part of the season. It is fun to find treasures for loved ones, gift exchanges, or just to see the sights. Listen to our "Sorry. What Did You Say?" podcast conversation about shopping on Spotify as well as our conversation on please and thank you which is about to come out.

Winter Safety

Community expectations during the winter season include looking out for our neighbors. Many cities and towns have regulations for keeping the public walks clear of snow and ice. This is the responsibility of the property owners.



Lights of the Season

The Jewish eight-day festival of lights or Hannukah begins December 14. This holiday follows the lunar calendar. This  Happy Hannukah is the greeting. Families light a candle in the menorah (a candelabra). Gifts are given. Games are played. Songs are sung. Read more about this holiday.
Christians countdown to Christmas with an Advent Wreath. There are four candles. Each candle can be named hope, peace, joy or prophet, Bethlehem, shepherd. Devotions and prayers to remember or to teach the story of Jesus' coming are told.

Candlelight Concerts in Indianapolis are a big hit of the season. 
The Scottish Rite Cathedral is a recommended favorite.

International Friends Meeting Notes: One More Class Before Break

Some of our students are working out of town and cannot always make or evening meeting. We are trying setting up a concurrent Zoom to loop everyone into the meeting. Look for the e-mail. Even if you do not regularly come to this class, you are welcome to be a part of this hybrid experiment.

Join us! Click here to register.

International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

Wow! An amazing session. There is so much in these chapters to unpack. We were able to spot so many meaningful verses. In addition, the author does a fantastic job referring his readers back to the Old Testament heroes to spark understanding of his point.

December 1: We continue to read the Letter to the Hebrews with chapter 7.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 9:00AM- 11:00 AM, Zoom

We had a great conversation about how Christmas is celebrated in our home countries. In many countries Christmas is a religious celebration and has many traditions that are family centric, community centric, and religious customs and practices.

We enjoyed generating phrases that ended with a preposition. The lists are in the chat.
 
December 18:  End the year with a virtual cookie party. Take your laptop to the kitchen and have a bake-along. Check out our favorite recipes and whip up a batch or two.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:30 PM, CLC, Carmel, Room 102


We had a hardworking evening. Check the Class Notes page to see the boards. We took our conversation sentences and went after them to discover errors. Most of the errors came from misplaced prepositions. These little words are always throwing a wrench in our stories. We also had fun recognizing words that become confusing to listeners when pronunciation is flipped like kitchen/chicken. The subtle tongue placement for the /k/ and /tʃ/ (ch) sounds can be tricky, especially for speakers from languages without these distinct sounds. There is also the association...we prepare and eat chicken in the kitchen (not kitchen in the chicken).


December 18: 
  • Bring you preposition lists matching to who, what, where, when, why, and how. Try without a list first. Go crazy and use this list. Preposition List: No Singing
  • Bring your "I'm From" personal and professional sheets filled in.
  • Email Carolyn your resume and the job description.

American English for Kids: Thursday, 6:00-6:30 PM, private Zoom

No Meeting....

December 18:  Be ready to talk about what you learned instead of coming to our meeting...

Words and Phrases and Resources

batch (of cookies): 
become confused: when something that seems reasonable is not 
big hit: popular
looking out for: taking care of
lore: stories and traditions that are passed along via stories and actions
officially: 
unpack: take apart
spark: instigate
throwing a wrench: causing a problem

Sunday, December 7, 2025

Year End Countdown

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Hello, Friends.

While we get focused on what is happening in our corner of the world, every once in a while, we look up and get to see something amazing. Last Thursday was one of those days. The last full moon of the year, the Cold Moon was a super moon (the moon's orbit was close to the earth). It was a beautiful sight worth stopping for and appreciating. To make it better, friends and family throughout the world were all treated to the same spectacular view and wanted to share the moment through conversation and pictures. We do not always get to enjoy the same holiday, weather, news, or more, but we do get to share a beautiful moon!

Christmas Traditions

Regardless of where you are from, it is hard not to get into the spirit of Christmas. In the United States, we anticipate this holiday with joy as well as anxiety. People are so excited to celebrate together, but then again, all the planning and schedules and to do lists can make people nervous.

Christmas is both a religious and secular holiday in the United States.

For Christians, it is the celebration of the birth of Jesus: Son of God and son of man. Prayers, songs, and decorations a part of this celebration that begins with Advent. The nativity is a beautiful symbol of the season. Living nativities are popular. Some families (and churches) do not place the baby Jesus in the manger until Christmas Eve. Many people have never heard the original story of Christmas. The story is told in the four Gospel the books in the New Testament of the Bible. The Old Testament prophets also predicted Jesus' birth. The Nativity Christmas Bible Story: The Birth of Jesus Christ is a great article that quotes the story. You are warmly welcome to visit a church for Christmas Services. Here is the link sponsor Cornerstone Lutheran Church for times and various events. 

Christmas is a secular celebration of family and friends. Santa and his reindeer. Holiday movies about homecoming. Wonder. Peace. Joy. Homes are decorated with lights and large inflatable popular characters of the season (Grinch, Santa, reindeer, snowmen, Peanuts characters, etc.) There are holiday variety shows, concerts, plays, performances, parades, pageants, and open houses. Mini-festivals pop up at the different shopping centers and malls with photo ops with Santa or other popular Christmas characters. People gather and celebrate. Join in!

Shopping 

Shopping is an important part of the season. It is fun to find treasures for loved ones, gift exchanges, or just to see the sights. Listen to our "Sorry. What Did You Say?" podcast conversation about shopping on Spotify.

What kind of learner are you?

Knowing how you learn best can lead you to the most helpful tools and interactions. Learning styles include:

  • Visual Learner: look for visual information including charts, diagrams, etc. and use color coding and images
  • Auditory Learner: lectures, discussions, audio materials and benefit from verbal instructions and storytelling
  • Reading/Writing Learner: prefers written words and use lists, notes, written explanations 
  • Kinesthetic Learner: enjoys hands-on, experimenting, role-playing and benefit from interactive methods and even how-to videos
  • Logical Learner: appreciates structured and logical approaches and enjoy problem-solving and understanding the principles behind the learning
  • Social Learner: thrives in group and collaborative experiences and benefit from group discussions, projects, and interactions
  • Solitary Learner: studies alone and engage in self-directed learning and direction

What tools help you learn language? Studying grammar, listening to podcasts, taking notes, watching YouTube, immersing yourself in daily life and learning “the hard way,” watching movies with or without subtitles are just a few of the ideas we use,

Often what is being learned can be best learned by a non-preferred method. For example, when working on pronunciation or language cadence, an auditory approach is best even if it may not be a favorite. Watch for 

How you think is another consideration. This is a fun little video on how people think.

American Language

I used to or I did not use to. What difference does it make?

The d and t sounds in used to are blended into a single consonant sound (leaning into the t in to). The sound of use to and used to is identical. It is only in writing where mistakes can be made.

We say "used to" when talk about habits or repeated actions in the past that we do not do in the present: 

  • I used to make long lists of vocabulary words, but now I try to use a few at a time until I learn them. 
  • I used to live in Michigan before I moved to Indiana. 
  • He used to play soccer, but now he enjoys golf. 
  • She used to be a teacher before she went to law school. 
  • She used to go running every day before she injured her knee.
The question form and negative form look a bit different. Notice the “d” is absent, creating “use to” instead of “used to”:
  • I used to be afraid to speak English, but I learned to be confident and comfortable.
  • Where did you use to live?
  • Did he use to study English before he got a full-time job?
  • I didn’t use to like spinach, but now I eat it often.
  • Did he use to visit the library once a week?
Let’s take a break (and other phrases with “take”)

We have many expressions with “take” in English. Do you know these: take a shower, take a nap, take a trip, take your turn, take notes, take advice, take a class, take your time, take medicine, take a breath, take a look at, take a picture, take a risk, take the lead, take your time, take a test, take an interest in?  Can you add to the list? Be careful. We DO NOT say take breakfast/lunch/dinner/coffee. We use “have” or “eat” or “get” for meals and beverages.



International Friends Meeting Notes

Some of our students are working out of town and cannot always make or evening meeting. We are trying setting up a concurrent Zoom to loop everyone into the meeting. Look for the e-mail. Even if you do not regularly come to this class, you are welcome to be a part of this hybrid experiment.

Join us! Click here to register.

International Bible Study: Monday, 8-9:00 PM, Zoom

We reviewed our study in light of how the writer of Hebrews structures his letter to the Jewish people. 

Who Was Melchizedek in the Bible? His Story and Importance to Jesus | Bible Study Tools

December 1: We continue to read the Letter to the Hebrews with chapter 7.

American English and Culture: Thursday, 10:00 AM- 12:00 PM, Zoom

After our Thanksgiving break, we had fun using different verb tenses to talk about where we went and what we did in recent weeks. Do not stumble over “the right” verbs to users you tell your story.  Language is so much more than words and rules. You do not have to identify or label your conversation with grammar terms. Instead, do your best to enjoy the flow of conversation. Keep it simple. Mirror the structures you hear in questions you are asked to form your answer. Allow native English speakers to partner with you as you learn and find joy in the language journey. Avoid perfectionism (comparing yourself to someone else) and strive for excellence (making an earnest effort to learn and grow). Self-motivation and a positive attitude will help you make the most of your learning style and tools.
 
December 11:  Bring a list of seasonal greetings. What phrases do people say to show warmth and friendship during the winter holidays? What American holiday traditions are you curious about? Share something about your own holiday traditions.

Join us back on Zoom after Thanksgiving Break in the jolly month of December. Share your holiday adventures. We will start with the short announcement about the Santa Tours in Carmel. Here are three sources of information about the event to compare and contrast:

American English and Culture: Thursday, 7-8:30 PM, CLC, Carmel, Room 102


December 8: Join us at Cornerstone Lutheran Church. We are going to talk about interviews and getting a job. What do you need to know? How do you talk?

American English for Kids: Thursday, 6:00-6:30 PM, private Zoom

We share vacation adventures. An overnight trip on the weekend makes for a great get-away and recharge. Adding side trips either going or coming from a destination not only breaks up the drive, but makes the vacation more memorable

December 12:  We will share what is going on in our countries in anticipation of Christmas.

Words and Phrases and Resources

anticipation of; looking forward to something
blended: combined
but then again: a phrase to introduce new information 
get into: become involve in or to grow an interest in
get to: are allowed
in our corner of the world: narrow focus
look up: change your focus
make it better: improve the situation
memorable: worth remembering
non-preferred: something that is not preferred; "non" in the beginning of a word indicates that the idea goes in another direction (nonsensical=does not make sense; nondescript=plain)
one of those days: the usual meaning is a day when most things go wrong; what makes this phrase different this time? This is your hidden quiz!
stumble over: to have difficulty saying something (trip over your words)